Pros and con to being a regular for a provider

[Mongeringfan]

I'm only a regular with one woman in the city and that's because she's cheap. When I lived overseas I had regulars I visited. In my experience I've found that the girls are willing to do more for less. They'll give you free extras, go out with you, and even give you gifts. Here in the city rather than sticking to one girl I try to see as much different women as I can. I love variety and trying new bodies. However I think I may be in the market to find a new girl to be a regular with. So, any of you guys have any encouraging stories to why you give a special girl multiple visits? Ideally, if I were to find a new girl to see regularly; I'd like a friend with paid benefits situation or maybe I'm delusional

 

[AutomaticSlim]

I don't know how encouraging it is, but if a female treats me in the least like a human being, converses with me, listens to my rants...I generally will repeat with her.
Especially if she is small, petite, has a pretty face and is an native born White American.
Yeah...that's my type of regular.

 

[Talo]

Use to be more rewarding to be a regular. I think the marker it saturated with clients and everyone thinks the same thing; become a regular -> gain favor -> get better service or freebies.

This use to be true, but I see especially with the AMP ladies and the proliferation of WeChat they have so many clients as regulars that the benefits are watered down now. That is to say they aren't really there. Many will just drop a scheduled appointment to fit in a regular. They won't give extra time or meet outside.

 

[Skeeter]

Use to be more rewarding to be a regular. I think the marker it saturated with clients and everyone thinks the same thing; become a regular -> gain favor -> get better service or freebies.

This use to be true, but I see especially with the AMP ladies and the proliferation of WeChat they have so many clients as regulars that the benefits are watered down now. That is to say they aren't really there. Many will just drop a scheduled appointment to fit in a regular. They won't give extra time or meet outside.

Yes, I've noticed this as well.
I've known ladies in the past that had tons of regulars, but somehow always made it a point to treat you / make you feel like the only one. On many levels.
Not so much anymore.

 

[didi88]

make you feel like the only one

This is the key to getting regular clients. All guys go for the sex of course, but like customers of any business, they want to feel like they’re special. Whether it be telling them they’re handsome, good at sex, number one, or any other bullshit line, the smartest providers know which buttons to push. And let’s face it, as cynical and jaundiced as we all are about this activity, we still fall for it and keep going back and become regulars. Which might help with better service, but usually just up to a point

 

[Imaseoulman]

For a real FWB situation, I’d say you have a find a SB. It takes time to find the right match, and will generally be more expensive than AMPs. But can be much more rewarding in terms of having some type of actual human relationship, which IMO increases the quality of the sex also.

 

[Mongeringfan]

I would think its harder now to be a regular with a girl. They move around too much. There's a J-girl I'm social media friends with. I've only seen her once and she's been back two more times. I see potential there. Lear is also another spot that has regular girls. So, it feels like finding someone to be a regular with could be difficult. Maybe it benefits more to be a regular at a location.

 

[Perfecto]

I personally think there is an advantage to having a few regulars. You build a great connection, she learns more and more what you like and the sex/conversation usually gets better over time. I've had several regulars in the past...but none exclusively. I do enjoy some variety as well. I will just see them more than others. Seeking Arrangements (SB's) could be a good place to find just one or two to work with exclusively. I rarely go to agencies...but I have met many girls in agencies and then see them as an Indy outside of the agency on their own time.

 

[ursus]

Everyone is different, so what I believe are benefits may not be appealing to others. Based on my experiences, when I have seen someone or visited an establishment regularly, I typically have received:

• Genuine (or, more genuine) interactions: This is my preference, but I think they lead to better overall appointments. I don't want an over-the-top sex bot who is constantly trying to sell me something.
• Priority and/or flexible scheduling: There was a time when I booked a slot that was already taken, and I was told that the girl preferred me. Also, there have been countless examples when I have been able to schedule outside of the normal hours. Some girls are great when you're the first appointment of the day, and some are better later. If you can find one who doesn't have a packed schedule daily, that last appointment can be amazing.
• Inside information about new girls: This can be hit or miss.
• "More for less": The holy grail.

I personally think there is an advantage to having a few regulars. You build a great connection, she learns more and more what you like and the sex/conversation usually gets better over time. I've had several regulars in the past...but none exclusively. I do enjoy some variety as well. I will just see them more than others. Seeking Arrangements (SB's) could be a good place to find just one or two to work with exclusively. I rarely go to agencies...but I have met many girls in agencies and then see them as an Indy outside of the agency on their own time.

I do have that last benefit with one of mine. Our connection is effectively the same as those from SA: whenever I have seen her this year, I head to her place for some time between 1.5 to 4 hours, and her service has always been amazing. It helps that we get along extremely well and that we have similar interests.

 

[Sarsta]

I don't know how encouraging it is, but if a female treats me in the least like a human being, converses with me, listens to my rants...I generally will repeat with her.
Especially if she is small, petite, has a pretty face and is an native born White American.
Yeah...that's my type of regular.

Oh yes. I too love the small, petite, pretty face native porn, white woman too. however, if I have a choice, I would pick a chica over them any day.

 

[Brooklynbob]

There’s positives in that the girl always tries to stay on her A game and is a lot more comfortable. I never risk it, but many regulars have told me I could fuck without rubber after a few visits.

However, attachment can become an issue on both sides. For example, I am 6’3, Caucasian mid 30s and I lift regularly.
Earlier this year I was seeing a Manhattan AMP girl twice a month, I got her number after the 2nd session just to make scheduling appointments easier. She’s attractive, spoke perfect english and very energetic so my type. Always let me stay over the hour and would ask me to stay longer when I was trying to leave. I got out of a long term relationship earlier this year so having someone to chat with a bit after sex felt more normal. Well, after a few months I got bored of seeing her, so on my last visit I told her that I won’t see her again and it did not go well. She started ugly crying, telling me she has feelings for me and that she’s quitting the job in a month. I left and she started texting me asking if I’m fucking other AMP girls. Was a learning experience for me as she did have my personal number, name and I told her the industry (finance) I work in. She stopped texting after a couple days so no harm was done but I’ve still not gone back to that Manhattan amp since.
Since then I’ve got myself a burner and make sure to keep the pillow talk to a minimum with any regulars.

 

[Perfecto]

There’s positives in that the girl always tries to stay on her A game and is a lot more comfortable. I never risk it, but many regulars have told me I could fuck without rubber after a few visits.

However, attachment can become an issue on both sides. For example, I am 6’3, Caucasian mid 30s and I lift regularly.
Earlier this year I was seeing a Manhattan AMP girl twice a month, I got her number after the 2nd session just to make scheduling appointments easier. She’s attractive, spoke perfect english and very energetic so my type. Always let me stay over the hour and would ask me to stay longer when I was trying to leave. I got out of a long term relationship earlier this year so having someone to chat with a bit after sex felt more normal. Well, after a few months I got bored of seeing her, so on my last visit I told her that I won’t see her again and it did not go well. She started ugly crying, telling me she has feelings for me and that she’s quitting the job in a month. I left and she started texting me asking if I’m fucking other AMP girls. Was a learning experience for me as she did have my personal number, name and I told her the industry (finance) I work in. She stopped texting after a couple days so no harm was done but I’ve still not gone back to that Manhattan amp since.
Since then I’ve got myself a burner and make sure to keep the pillow talk to a minimum with any regulars.

I wonder if it would have been better to just fade away and not tell her that you wouldn’t be back?

I had a regular that I saw every 1-2 months for over a year. Her advertised donation was $600 but she kept me at $450 all of that time. She told me a few weeks ago that she needed to raise my rate due to inflation and would that be ok. I told her that it was great spending time with her and it was nice knowing her…

 

[User826]

There's no benefit to being a regular with a specific provider. A spa? Maybe. At Cream Dream, I go so much that they were going to give me a discount had I saw two girls.

 

[Brooklynbob]

I wonder if it would have been better to just fade away and not tell her that you wouldn’t be back?

I had a regular that I saw every 1-2 months for over a year. Her advertised donation was $600 but she kept me at $450 all of that time. She told me a few weeks ago that she needed to raise my rate due to inflation and would that be ok. I told her that it was great spending time with her and it was nice knowing her…

I wonder if it would have been better to just fade away and not tell her that you wouldn’t be back?

I had a regular that I saw every 1-2 months for over a year. Her advertised donation was $600 but she kept me at $450 all of that time. She told me a few weeks ago that she needed to raise my rate due to inflation and would that be ok. I told her that it was great spending time with her and it was nice knowing her…

It would definitely have been more logical to just not see her a final time. However, I felt like initially ghosting her would have been unfair as I did get to know her a bit. She taught me a lot about the lives of these AMP girls. She made $30,000-40,000 a month, working 6 days a week and sleeping in the AMP, only taking one week off a month during period week. Once you’re making that kind of money, a normal job or a career is out of the question.

But you live and learn, I monger because I don’t want a relationship so the pillow talk is a lot more generic now.

 

[Sarsta]

It would definitely have been more logical to just not see her a final time. However, I felt like initially ghosting her would have been unfair as I did get to know her a bit. She taught me a lot about the lives of these AMP girls. She made $30,000-40,000 a month, working 6 days a week and sleeping in the AMP, only taking one week off a month during period week. Once you’re making that kind of money, a normal job or a career is out of the question.

But you live and learn, I monger because I don’t want a relationship so the pillow talk is a lot more generic now.

30,000 to 40,000 is inflated. I can believe 3000 to 4000 a month.

 

[Dynaguy]

Enjoying this thread, particularly the introspection.

30,000 to 40,000 is inflated. I can believe 3000 to 4000 a month.

The math is correct— working 6 days a week is 26 days a month on average. Assuming 6-8 sessions per day, that’s about 156 to 208 tricks per month. At about $200 per, net of house + including tips, that’s $31k to $42k per month.

There's no benefit to being a regular with a specific provider.

Do mongers agree? Survey said (paraphrasing Richard Dawson) 75% of us are somebody’s regular — arbitrarily defined as seeing same provider at least 4 times a year.

https://ampreviews.net/index.php?threads/how-many-times-with-same-provider.162169/

One of the respondents postulates that “[we] learn[ed] why [we] partake and what makes [us] keep coming back for more.” (quoting @Beacon )

In a world of oculuses and fleshlights, it’s not just busting a nut.

 

[User826]

Enjoying this thread, particularly the introspection.

The math is correct— working 6 days a week is 26 days a month on average. Assuming 6-8 sessions per day, that’s about 156 to 208 tricks per month. At about $200 per, net of house + including tips, that’s $31k to $42k per month.



Do mongers agree? Survey said (paraphrasing Richard Dawson) 75% of us are somebody’s regular — arbitrarily defined as seeing same provider at least 4 times a year.

https://ampreviews.net/index.php?threads/how-many-times-with-same-provider.162169/

One of the respondents postulates that “[we] learn[ed] why [we] partake and what makes [us] keep coming back for more.” (quoting @Beacon )

In a world of oculuses and fleshlights, it’s not just busting a nut.

Just voted on that poll. These women see so many men that they don't remember faces

 

[Sarsta]

Enjoying this thread, particularly the introspection.

The math is correct— working 6 days a week is 26 days a month on average. Assuming 6-8 sessions per day, that’s about 156 to 208 tricks per month. At about $200 per, net of house + including tips, that’s $31k to $42k per month.



Do mongers agree? Survey said (paraphrasing Richard Dawson) 75% of us are somebody’s regular — arbitrarily defined as seeing same provider at least 4 times a year.

https://ampreviews.net/index.php?threads/how-many-times-with-same-provider.162169/

One of the respondents postulates that “[we] learn[ed] why [we] partake and what makes [us] keep coming back for more.” (quoting @Beacon )

In a world of oculuses and fleshlights, it’s not just busting a nut.

Bullshit! They’re competing with the other women. Their clients out is more like 1to 4 a day. Not 8 men a day. if dirt making $30,000 to $40,000 a month, the only have to work four months out of a year to make sense to me. After four months with those numbers they can take the rest of the year off.

 

[Brooklynbob]

Bullshit! They’re competing with the other women. Their clients out is more like 1to 4 a day. Not 8 men a day. if dirt making $30,000 to $40,000 a month, the only have to work four months out of a year to make sense to me. After four months with those numbers they can take the rest of the year off.

The “special” girl you’re seeing is lying to you if she tells you “its slow” or “you only customer today”. These girls don’t take time off after 4 months because they’re addicted to the money and plan to suck and fuck cock for a few years to set themselves up financially. The milfs you see at most places either got into the game late, have gambling/addiction issues or in rare cases, just love cock. Most of the girls in the 20s retire from this.

 

[Sarsta]

The “special” girl you’re seeing is lying to you if she tells you “its slow” or “you only customer today”. These girls don’t take time off after 4 months because they’re addicted to the money and plan to suck and fuck cock for a few years to set themselves up financially. The milfs you see at most places either got into the game late, have gambling/addiction issues or in rare cases, just love cock. Most of the girls in the 20s retire from this.

Whatever. This is a bunch of Crap. These girls do not make that much money, trust me! 1000 a week is ideal. At the most 2000 per week.