Preferred DATY technique/style?

[Seconda]

I know a lot of you guys out here are older and love to dine, so share some wisdom and tips with the rest of us.

From the basic, "how to find and keep track of the clit"? to the advanced, "breathing techniques to hold your breath longer"

A lot of us either never had a long-term relationship to develop the skills or have only been in them and have a limited skillset. And even the most experienced can learn some new tricks, like ideal finger position/angle to prevent cramps, best razor for minimal chafe, or even how to blow the best raspberry on the ladies with big lips XD

Let's help each other bring more fun and pleasure into the world and give the bay area mongers a good rep to justify all our high expectations of service!

 

[saylr]

Best is to ask her what she likes and get feedback while you are giving... but most likely she just wants you to do whatever you need to do to get off sooner.

 

[Brownpodrick]

Its the most fun when you have a lot of time and you know her through multiple visits. It’s more of a gradual and cerebral stimulus for girls than Guys. You can still make a new provider whom you just met cum multiple times within an hour session, but that comes with practice.

My favorite is laying down 69. She is giving me a BJ, while sitting on my face. I get pretty competitive. I win if she stops sucking my dick to grind on my face.

I take the dominant DATY position (going down) when I feel like I’m at the edge and need a break to avoid cumming soon. They enjoy that as well, as that keeps them constantly stimulated between fucking and licking.

Don’t worry too much about the clit. It’s similar to dick, where it’s flaccid and buried when not stimulated. Once you have done proper DATY technique (blow, suck, moan, gently biting the thighs, etc) with proper G-spot stim thru fingering, her clit slowly enlarges and comes out of the hood. However good she is at faking, she can’t fake that. Once the clit shows up its even more fun to DATY, as well as fuck. It’s like a magic button. Make sure you spit enough or let her natural juices to lube the clit and stroke it while fucking. You can feel her pussy tighten every time you tap the clit. If you properly time your penetration with the clit, she will go crazy. Also love the belly button vibrating at 1000rpm. Keep your hands busy all the time playing with her nipples, kissing her neck and grabbing her ass. When you throw in multiple things simultaneously, she will ride you like crazy and remember you forever.

In relationships, show her your powers once and let her work for it for the next time.
Have fun!

some more references:

Also check out hunky hands porn and other pro pornstars like Manuel Ferrara, Eric Everhard, etc.

 

[OlderGuy77]

Be patient and If you get a woman who seems receptive use your ears with your tongue and listen for response. Be gentle and don’t act like you’re starving and have just been handed a man-which

 

[rodneyfarva]

"how to find and keep track of the clit"?

To paraphrase The Big Lebowski, it's in there, let me take another look.

 

[darkwingbuck]

To paraphrase The Big Lebowski, it's in there, let me take another look.

That rug you're munching on really ties the room together

 

[Fffrrr]

Be patient and If you get a woman who seems receptive use your ears with your tongue and listen for response. Be gentle and don’t act like you’re starving and have just been handed a man-which

This is my experience, too. Different girls want different things.

 

[OlderGuy77]

Its the most fun when you have a lot of time and you know her through multiple visits. It’s more of a gradual and cerebral stimulus for girls than Guys. You can still make a new provider whom you just met cum multiple times within an hour session, but that comes with practice.

My favorite is laying down 69. She is giving me a BJ, while sitting on my face. I get pretty competitive. I win if she stops sucking my dick to grind on my face.

I take the dominant DATY position (going down) when I feel like I’m at the edge and need a break to avoid cumming soon. They enjoy that as well, as that keeps them constantly stimulated between fucking and licking.

Don’t worry too much about the clit. It’s similar to dick, where it’s flaccid and buried when not stimulated. Once you have done proper DATY technique (blow, suck, moan, gently biting the thighs, etc) with proper G-spot stim thru fingering, her clit slowly enlarges and comes out of the hood. However good she is at faking, she can’t fake that. Once the clit shows up its even more fun to DATY, as well as fuck. It’s like a magic button. Make sure you spit enough or let her natural juices to lube the clit and stroke it while fucking. You can feel her pussy tighten every time you tap the clit. If you properly time your penetration with the clit, she will go crazy. Also love the belly button vibrating at 1000rpm. Keep your hands busy all the time playing with her nipples, kissing her neck and grabbing her ass. When you throw in multiple things simultaneously, she will ride you like crazy and remember you forever.

In relationships, show her your powers once and let her work for it for the next time.
Have fun!

some more references:

Also check out hunky hands porn and other pro pornstars like Manuel Ferrara, Eric Everhard, etc.

“…remember you forever” reminds me of a boyhood experience. I had an older brother who did well with the ladies. We were walking along talking about sex (he was 15; I was 12) and he lectured me about how important it was that I go down on a woman. I steadfastly objected claiming I would never do such a thing. He put his arm around and said: “Listen up. If you do that, they will seek you out in a crowd of thousands”. That was around 1960, and I think now what I cool big brother I was lucky enough to know

 

[rodneyfarva]

That rug you're munching on really ties the room together

The old man says take any rug in the house to munch on.

 

[MantisToboggan]

Not really a daty technique but when i daty I like to build up to it. Start with lfk/dfk, then slowly work your way down, this will start arouse her of course ymmv so if she’s just not into it theres nothing you can do but if she is then she’ll be pretty responsive. Now when you get to the bottom don’t go straight to it, I know your parents said don’t play with your food when you were a kid but in this case its ok to ignore your folk’s rules. After all the build up its time eat and something similar to what one monger said above, don’t just focus on that one area use your hands to give other parts of her body attention

 

[partytrap]

If they let you DFK, then take your time to do it right, slow and easy. Hold their jaw and neck and kiss softly. If they feel a connection with you and your kissing skills are good, it’ll translate well into DATY. Civilian girls love it when you take it slow and soft, then you tongue fuck them hard. These professionals aren’t that much different. It’s not a 1/4 race to get a 11second finish, it’s a long road trip to the mountain, and she’ll be coming around the mountain when she cums.

 

[Seconda]

A more practical question, how is the lube factor affect things?
I personally don't like lube, but sometimes when I don't daty before penetration, the lube comes out and kind of kills the desire for further daty for the rest of the session as lube mouth is weird, lol. esp some of the ones that use the numbing/warming agents.

 

[Brownpodrick]

A more practical question, how is the lube factor affect things?
I personally don't like lube, but sometimes when I don't daty before penetration, the lube comes out and kind of kills the desire for further daty for the rest of the session as lube mouth is weird, lol. esp some of the ones that use the numbing/warming agents.

I personally don’t like using lube for the same reason. Some girls are very sensitive/don’t cum easily, they like using lube coz they are dry. Sometimes if they are drained from fucking all day, lube helps then.

That said, lube is important while deep fingering to stimulate the waterworks. Two middle fingers all the way in + thumb stroking clit can be pleasurable only when there is enough lube.

 

[Mr. Excite]

My technique is tongue out long and wide with the most contact to surface area as possible. Big doggy Beethoven energy. I'm lapping that slit like it's a water bowl on a hot summer's day.

 

[NSL4ever]

Stare into it, think about what it’s going through on a daily basis and if you still want to dive in, be my guest.

 

[26kevin]

Not really a daty technique but when i daty I like to build up to it. Start with lfk/dfk, then slowly work your way down, this will start arouse her of course ymmv so if she’s just not into it theres nothing you can do but if she is then she’ll be pretty responsive. Now when you get to the bottom don’t go straight to it, I know your parents said don’t play with your food when you were a kid but in this case its ok to ignore your folk’s rules. After all the build up its time eat and something similar to what one monger said above, don’t just focus on that one area use your hands to give other parts of her body attention

“Don’t play with your food “ I almost fell off my chair laughing my ass off. Thank you brother. Be safe

 

[MantisToboggan]

Stare into it, think about what it’s going through on a daily basis and if you still want to dive in, be my guest.

Don’t dwell on the past

 

[26kevin]

Don’t dwell on the past

Who cares.

 

[MantisToboggan]

Who cares.

Some care

 

[Brownpodrick]

Stare into it, think about what it’s going through on a daily basis and if you still want to dive in, be my guest.

During the shower, when she is grinding ass to sick, put your finger on the pussy and try to gently slide it in. If she lets you, use that chance to clean it well for your peace of mind.

But I agree, DATY as the first one in the morning is fine. Later in the day, stick to your fingering skills.