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Percentile of men who monger

Camaro13

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Just like nobody here is admitting it, your friends may be mongering and not telling you. This shit is overrun and over crowded, people are knocking on doors that haven't even closed yet after I walked out. 15-20 years ago I feel like I would barely see other mongers, or they were better at waiting until the coast was clear and I'd maybe see them as I was driving off. Are more people just terrible with women nowadays and turn to this as an alternative?

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In Korean business culture, it is acceptable for male employees to go to room salons and RLDs.
One of the wildest things I've heard about Korea is that there is this thing where women get together somewhere probably like an NRB or a roombang room. They bring in I guess what you would consider to be male doumis or maybe something else but male "workers". Anyways, they'd do whatever in there but one activity they do is they would have ejaculating contests where the women would jack off the males to see who could make them ejaculate farther.
 

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One of the wildest things I've heard about Korea is that there is this thing where women get together somewhere probably like an NRB or a roombang room. They bring in I guess what you would consider to be male doumis or maybe something else but male "workers". Anyways, they'd do whatever in there but one activity they do is they would have ejaculating contests where the women would jack off the males to see who could make them ejaculate farther.
That's disgusting. Where? Where are these women? Where do they go so I can never talk to them?
 

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One of the wildest things I've heard about Korea is that there is this thing where women get together somewhere probably like an NRB or a roombang room. They bring in I guess what you would consider to be male doumis or maybe something else but male "workers". Anyways, they'd do whatever in there but one activity they do is they would have ejaculating contests where the women would jack off the males to see who could make them ejaculate farther.
this sounds amazing at first, but imagine they just keep jacking you off like 10 times a day? The dream would turn to a nightmare very quickly.
 

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As a finance person I never wanted to get into this hobby then when I went to a bar that offered extras with a friend I was hooked I couldn’t believe the value of getting to play with a 8/9/10 hottie for less than an entree at a good restaurant for me the RoI is overwhelming positive and that is the only justification I need. Maybe if modern women where not so hungry for gifts garbage fashion accessories that cost thousands of dollars all expected when dating a beautiful woman these days my attitude would be different. For me the hobby allows me to focus primarily on work and making money while allowing me to scratch an itch without wasting time. I know many many peers of mine also feel the same way and do the same thing so I would estimate the percentage in white collar business to be upwards of 20% for all the reasons I just covered.
 

dirkjones

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As a finance person I never wanted to get into this hobby then when I went to a bar that offered extras with a friend I was hooked I couldn’t believe the value of getting to play with a 8/9/10 hottie for less than an entree at a good restaurant for me the RoI is overwhelming positive and that is the only justification I need. Maybe if modern women where not so hungry for gifts garbage fashion accessories that cost thousands of dollars all expected when dating a beautiful woman these days my attitude would be different. For me the hobby allows me to focus primarily on work and making money while allowing me to scratch an itch without wasting time. I know many many peers of mine also feel the same way and do the same thing so I would estimate the percentage in white collar business to be upwards of 20% for all the reasons I just covered.
this makes total sense if you truly equate it to the frequency you would take someone out on a date. Obviously there’s no need to charm a provider into taking your money so it could get into dangerous territory if your brain is replacing provider for civilian (that could turn into a loving life partner) as well as financially. You also stop flexing that muscle needed to socialize with & pickup women.
 

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this makes total sense if you truly equate it to the frequency you would take someone out on a date. Obviously there’s no need to charm a provider into taking your money so it could get into dangerous territory if your brain is replacing provider for civilian (that could turn into a loving life partner) as well as financially. You also stop flexing that muscle needed to socialize with & pickup women.
Luckily I hveyalways had good luck meeting civilian women problem for me is too many of them are gold diggers or turn into gold diggers once they realize they are with a man who is a good provider. Most women gravitate to that for me I am actually in good shape and somewhat handsome but that takes a back seat to women once they know you have some money! Women are driven by how you can provide for them and men by looks and child bearing it is part of our lizard brains. I have had many civilian relationships all where rewarding enough at this point in my life I have adopted the work hard play hard methodology
 

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Depends on the country or city. I've heard stories that in the past, Korean guys who do their mandatory military service would all get taken brothels and everybody had to bang a whore or you'd be shunned and shamed, which is a big deal in a group conformity oriented culture like Korea. And anybody working in a large company, whether executives or factory workers, would go to outings that involve girls that would suck you off at a minimum.

I've asked female Korean friends in Korea if this was true and they didn't disagree, just didn't want to think about it. I asked if that meant all their male friends, brothers, fathers, colleagues, men they're dating, guys they flirt with at parties, every man they knew was banging prostitutes and they just didn't want to think about it. But no objections to the conclusion...clear signs of cognitive dissonance. If I had to guess, 70%+ of Korean men have had at least one experience with a prostitute...maybe 80%+.

When I spent a lot of time in China, HK, and Taiwan, there were brothels on practically every street corner of even medium sized cities. First time I was in Taipei, I saw KTV signs more than any other sign and was amazed there were so many TV stations, which in hindsight was a comically clueless and naive conclusion.
 

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As a finance person I never wanted to get into this hobby then when I went to a bar that offered extras with a friend I was hooked I couldn’t believe the value of getting to play with a 8/9/10 hottie for less than an entree at a good restaurant for me the RoI is overwhelming positive and that is the only justification I need. Maybe if modern women where not so hungry for gifts garbage fashion accessories that cost thousands of dollars all expected when dating a beautiful woman these days my attitude would be different. For me the hobby allows me to focus primarily on work and making money while allowing me to scratch an itch without wasting time. I know many many peers of mine also feel the same way and do the same thing so I would estimate the percentage in white collar business to be upwards of 20% for all the reasons I just covered.
There is a similar mindset in Japan, and it is so commonplace and widespread that the population of Japan is actually declining because the people focus on work and career and pay for girlfriends or boyfriends to meet those needs instead of having relationships, marriage, and children
 

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I had a friend who was too pure to monger. I respect that. When his wife started cheating on him, left and divorced him and absolutely raked him over the monetary coals I could only think. If you’d only spent 20-30k on whores over the years, you would have that much less for her to have taken.
 

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One of the wildest things I've heard about Korea is that there is this thing where women get together somewhere probably like an NRB or a roombang room. They bring in I guess what you would consider to be male doumis or maybe something else but male "workers". Anyways, they'd do whatever in there but one activity they do is they would have ejaculating contests where the women would jack off the males to see who could make them ejaculate farther.
You’re right. lol

There are a few male establishments that cater to female customers in Flushing.

Most of the female customers are divorced or married from rich husbands.

They would put 1K in a cup and tell the gigolos that whoever cums the furthest wins it. lol
 

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This is a very interesting topic. I think some of it depends on geographic location as well. There are many parts of the USA where good quality FS AMPs just don't exist or the service sucks. If you live in small town USA there just aren't too many options to monger. NYC or Philadelphia has lots of options and they are great spots (for the USA) to monger. But even cities like a Pittsburgh or Indianapolis or Buffalo don't have a lot of great options. Not to mention truly small-town USA.
 

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I think the number is likely way higher when you live in NYC or another major market where there are not just a lot of options but high quality ones.

Where I grew up, and most places around the country, you might have 1-2 spots where you can get an HJ from a 58 y/o Asian grandma, or maybe a not-great strip club where you can negotiate with a tatted/drugged up single mom. If the area is small enough, you risk being seen arriving/leaving or running into acquaintances inside. Small towns are like that and that’s 70+ percent of the country.
 

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There is a similar mindset in Japan, and it is so commonplace and widespread that the population of Japan is actually declining because the people focus on work and career and pay for girlfriends or boyfriends to meet those needs instead of having relationships, marriage, and children
Same as Korea. Korea has one of the lowest birth rate in the world. Many people are either not getting married or delaying it. Many people who got married are not having children either.

Also, the male to female ratio in Korea is 5:4. So many men who live in the suburbs are marrying women from Vietnam, Thailand or the Philippines.

So it’s very common to see a mixed racial person outside of Seoul.
 

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This is a very interesting topic. I think some of it depends on geographic location as well. There are many parts of the USA where good quality FS AMPs just don't exist or the service sucks. If you live in small town USA there just aren't too many options to monger. NYC or Philadelphia has lots of options and they are great spots (for the USA) to monger. But even cities like a Pittsburgh or Indianapolis or Buffalo don't have a lot of great options. Not to mention truly small-town USA.
It's not just AMPs. It's everything. Agencies, indies, etc...
I still say the percentage is very small.
Certainly less than 5% and probably less than 2%.
Guys...we're freaks. FREAKS!!!
Accept it.

 

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Depends on the country or city. I've heard stories that in the past, Korean guys who do their mandatory military service would all get taken brothels and everybody had to bang a whore or you'd be shunned and shamed, which is a big deal in a group conformity oriented culture like Korea. And anybody working in a large company, whether executives or factory workers, would go to outings that involve girls that would suck you off at a minimum.

I've asked female Korean friends in Korea if this was true and they didn't disagree, just didn't want to think about it. I asked if that meant all their male friends, brothers, fathers, colleagues, men they're dating, guys they flirt with at parties, every man they knew was banging prostitutes and they just didn't want to think about it. But no objections to the conclusion...clear signs of cognitive dissonance. If I had to guess, 70%+ of Korean men have had at least one experience with a prostitute...maybe 80%+.

When I spent a lot of time in China, HK, and Taiwan, there were brothels on practically every street corner of even medium sized cities. First time I was in Taipei, I saw KTV signs more than any other sign and was amazed there were so many TV stations, which in hindsight was a comically clueless and naive conclusion.
This was the common business culture up to around 2010. Female workers were sent home early and the male workers would meet up with male management and go to a room salon or RLD.

Nowadays, times have changed. Korean companies don’t do this anymore. It’s just everyone getting together for dinner and drinks.

I visit Korea every December and I’ll take my employees out to dinner and drinks and give them a cash bonus.

Besides, the younger male generation (early 20s to mid-30s) prefer a cash bonus over a trip to a room salon.
 

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This was the common business culture up to around 2010. Female workers were sent home early and the male workers would meet up with male management and go to a room salon or RLD.

Nowadays, times have changed. Korean companies don’t do this anymore. It’s just everyone getting together for dinner and drinks.

I visit Korea every December and I’ll take my employees out to dinner and drinks and give them a cash bonus.

Besides, the younger male generation (early 20s to mid-30s) prefer a cash bonus over a trip to a room salon.
Good intel on the current scene. I assumed times have changed with the increased political correctness and metoo movement in Korea but had no personal experience to say. And the younger guys in Korea now have so many options for sex with the wild nightlife, clubs, pool parties, music festivals, etc there now, which has developed exponentially over the last 20 years.

Some of my favorite memories were when I'd be out with Korean colleagues at a regular restaurant/bar and the female colleagues all knew the men would be going to room salons and start groping and banging whores and it all seemed accepted and normalized. They'd even tease the guys to enjoy the rest of the night.

A few times female colleagues would actually join us at room salons and they'd even pick a girl to sit next to them and pour them drinks. Guys would kind of behave themselves, tho after a few drinks, things got sloppy and there was subtle groping and kissing going on in front of the female colleagues. I'd sit right next to a hot young colleague making casual conversation while on the other side of me was a RS girl that I had my hands between her legs groping her thighs.

At some point, the senior guys would call it a night for the girls and that it was 3 cha time (meaning the next round) at which point the female colleagues would know they had to leave and wish us a good time, and the guys would go to town. Depending on the level of the place, you could get sucked off in the room, or take a girl to a hotel room connected to the RS, or at the high end places, we'd make out a bit and get their numbers and either take them out privately that night or on a date another day.

Certainly a better work culture now in most ways, especially for women, but not as much degenerate debaucherous fun.
 

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You’re right. lol

There are a few male establishments that cater to female customers in Flushing.

Most of the female customers are divorced or married from rich husbands.

They would put 1K in a cup and tell the gigolos that whoever cums the furthest wins it. lol
I've heard from a lot of the kmp girls I knew pre-2016 that they'd go to these places to blow off steam and massive amounts of money to be a customer instead. Heard the same from kmp girls in LA and RS girls in Korea. Haven't heard as much about this from recent NY KMP girls, maybe bc I don't know them as well or maybe they're more financially sensible.
 
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