Paranoid

[Marginman]

this is just one of the many things I do but I park as far away as reasonably possible. Gives me time to survey on the way in and out, and also if I need to bail I can misdirect. Most places have cameras out front, I try to park way out of view.

Me too

 

[Barry White]

Aren’t you getting a massage? That’s not illegal. Most places have a license. If your married then be afraid since women can smell another woman a mile away. Join a gym and say your working out, get a massage and head to the gym for a short workout and shower!!!

 

[FireDancer75]

I always walk into a room and immediately do a quick visual scan to look for hidden cameras. Not sure why because they are hidden and prob cannot be seen just by looking around lol

if you know the signs of what to look for though, they’re painfully obvious

 

[Hornyallthetime]

Ceiling tile ajar in corner

 

[westonsecret]

Risky hobby. Need to face the consequences, including destruction of your marriage. If you cannot deal with that level of risk, you need to take up model railroading or golf. A raid will probably get your face posted in the local paper. Many local towns put the men in the paper as a deterrent....stop the men you get rid of the shenanigans. And you also need to watch out for the crazies....do you recall the man that entered several amps and murdered providers and customers? A well planned raid, you are busted when the police open your room door and see you doing standing mish, done. If you are lucky you get off, but only after being arrested, possible public embarrassment, and legal fees.

 

[Marginman]

Risky hobby. Need to face the consequences, including destruction of your marriage. If you cannot deal with that level of risk, you need to take up model railroading or golf. A raid will probably get your face posted in the local paper. Many local towns put the men in the paper as a deterrent....stop the men you get rid of the shenanigans. And you also need to watch out for the crazies....do you recall the man that entered several amps and murdered providers and customers? A well planned raid, you are busted when the police open your room door and see you doing standing mish, done. If you are lucky you get off, but only after being arrested, possible public embarrassment, and legal fees.

Am I to assume you have stopped hobbying?
Or are you willing to take risks
Just curious

 

[skpsm]

Risky hobby. Need to face the consequences, including destruction of your marriage. If you cannot deal with that level of risk, you need to take up model railroading or golf. A raid will probably get your face posted in the local paper. Many local towns put the men in the paper as a deterrent....stop the men you get rid of the shenanigans. And you also need to watch out for the crazies....do you recall the man that entered several amps and murdered providers and customers? A well planned raid, you are busted when the police open your room door and see you doing standing mish, done. If you are lucky you get off, but only after being arrested, possible public embarrassment, and legal fees.

Perfect reply for a paranoid post

 

[westonsecret]

Perfect reply for a paranoid post

LMAO

 

[westonsecret]

Am I to assume you have stopped hobbying?
Or are you willing to take risks
Just curious

I took/take the risks. The hobby destroyed my marriage. Thank God too, because I could not be happier now. It was a blessing in disguise. The whole fact I was hobbying while married, duh....something was not right. Because if I truly loved her, I would not have cheated on her for years with prostitutes.

 

[Marginman]

I took/take the risks. The hobby destroyed my marriage. Thank God too, because I could not be happier now. It was a blessing in disguise. The whole fact I was hobbying while married, duh....something was not right. Because if I truly loved her, I would not have cheated on her for years with prostitutes.

Honest answer
I like that

 

[Brianclydesdale]

Truthful answer but not the only one. There could be something missing in the marriage, sex, passion, intimacy, etc. That one hour could provide you with what you need while keeping the rest of your life in check.

 

[noblecrack]

Truthful answer - I agree... however, there is nothing called absolute truth!! There is my truth vs his truth vs her truth!!
Anyway, there could have been more things missing! Or may be nothing was missing but there was a motivation to lurk around and it ended up somewhere else!!

 

[Purplecow]

I was in an amp when it got raided once. This was in cherry hill, years ago 2015 maybe 2016. It's not a big deal, though it's fucking terrifying at first lol. One cop shouted "everyone get dressed and get into the hall now". It was only me and another guy. They asked for our IDs and me and the other guy both said it was in our cars. Then I tried to play it off like i was only there for a massage and the cops got angry and told me to tell the truth. I made up like 4 different stories of how I heard about the place and gave them 2 different names when they asked me for my information, gave them a fake phone number too. The other guy went ape shit on me cause it was obvious i was lying. After 5-10mins of questioning they let us go. Really wasn't a big deal and none of my real information was taken.

 

[SeanMorrison212]

I dont get paranoid about that.
Years ago I got paranoid about being robbed because that happened to me at gunpoint.
Since then,I never bring more cash than I need inside,and anything with my name stays hidden in car,which is never parked near door

Where do you go that asks for id

 

[italianbastone]

So weekends fine. In weekdays you can visit 24 hours spas so ring the bell after midnight.

 

[westonsecret]

Truthful answer but not the only one. There could be something missing in the marriage, sex, passion, intimacy, etc. That one hour could provide you with what you need while keeping the rest of your life in check.

That is only a rationale to make one justify what they do. If you really love someone, you would never be cheating on them. Imagine them finding out, how much you would be hurting them and your kids. I know from experience. This hobby will never correct a marriage. If you said months/years of therapy....I would agree.

 

[Brianclydesdale]

That is only a rationale to make one justify what they do. If you really love someone, you would never be cheating on them. Imagine them finding out, how much you would be hurting them and your kids. I know from experience. This hobby will never correct a marriage. If you said months/years of therapy....I would agree.

You answer is 100 percent on point. I was just saying I get why some mongers do what they do. I’m not here to judge

 

[westonsecret]

You answer is 100 percent on point. I was just saying I get why some mongers do what they do. I’m not here to judge

 

[Nylnlst]

I took/take the risks. The hobby destroyed my marriage. Thank God too, because I could not be happier now. It was a blessing in disguise. The whole fact I was hobbying while married, duh....something was not right. Because if I truly loved her, I would not have cheated on her for years with prostitutes.

how did you get caught ?