Overseas imported relationships

[Funrise]

Overseas: how about importing a super hot younger wife that is a fantasy fulfilled? I have friends that have succeeded and failed in this.
I have fulfilled my fantasies as a traveler (not as kinky as some you horn dogs), but fulfilled nonetheless. I may invite her to visit as a tourist, sponsor, etc.
I have friends that have succeeded and failed with this. The successes are living the dream. The successes do contribute financially / offset some expenses.
Who has made the jump?
What happened? Success? Cautionary story? Please share if you like.

 

[Businessman]

Prenup. For advice watch 90 day fiancé

 

[regqafds]

Why bring them to the West to get brain washed by their femnazi new American friends? Don't. Live overseas for cheap. Lots of expats, remote workers, retirees or retire early and live cheap.

 

[Funrise]

Why bring them to the West to get brain washed by their femnazi new American friends? Don't. Live overseas for cheap. Lots of expats, remote workers, retirees or retire early and live cheap.

I lived there for months. Ultimately I’ll live in 2 countries. The pressure is always on to bring here. I’m not in a rush though.

 

[markkennedy]

I wonder, if we are mentioning "friends that have succeeded and failed", what is the breakdown? Can it be 1 success for every 1 failure? Or is it some other number? I had a guy who worked for me who bought like a hundred bucks worth of scratchoffs and lotto tickets every Friday after work, and as far as I ever heard, the best he got was a few free tickets or 20 bucks maybe. Bringing a stranger to your home where you sleep and where you keep your stuff, and then entering into a contract in front of a judge and the state where you potentially are gambling 50% of your stuff on success? Totally sounds awesome.

I travel so much too, and I sample the local pussy cuisine and fulfill every racial and cultural sexual fantasy I can ever dream of. The best part is that my stuff is always exactly where I left it, at my home.

 

[Funrise]

I wonder, if we are mentioning "friends that have succeeded and failed", what is the breakdown? Can it be 1 success for every 1 failure? Or is it some other number? I had a guy who worked for me who bought like a hundred bucks worth of scratchoffs and lotto tickets every Friday after work, and as far as I ever heard, the best he got was a few free tickets or 20 bucks maybe. Bringing a stranger to your home where you sleep and where you keep your stuff, and then entering into a contract in front of a judge and the state where you potentially are gambling 50% of your stuff on success? Totally sounds awesome.

I have 5 friends that married women they met traveling. 3 are in successful marriages and 1 was a disaster marriage but somewhat easy divorce with prenup. The other bad marriage continues because there is no prenup and it’s cheaper to keep her.

The successes did several trips each and really got to know their potential wives over time. The failures married impulsively and too soon. Those in bad marriages / divorce wish they kept the their girlfriends in their home countries.

If you need to be in the US to make comfortable or luxury money, it’s hard to spend most of your time overseas.
If your money is abundant regardless of location, you are living the dream. Its a nice outcome.

 

[markkennedy]

I have 5 friends that married women they met traveling. 3 are in successful marriages and 1 was a disaster marriage but somewhat easy divorce with prenup. The other bad marriage continues because there is no prenup and it’s cheaper to keep her.

The successes did several trips each and really got to know their potential wives over time. The failures married impulsively and too soon. Those in bad marriages / divorce wish they kept the their girlfriends in their home countries.

If you need to be in the US to make comfortable or luxury money, it’s hard to spend most of your time overseas.
If your money is abundant regardless of location, you are living the dream. Its a nice outcome.

All great lesson and insight thanks!

In the baseball, if you hit the ball one out of three times you go to the Hall, so I guess 3 out of 5 success isn't terrible!

 

[DS71]

I think there is a lot that can go wrong with this idea. But I also think it depends on how well you know the girl you are planning to bring over. Did you live in a country for 6 months to a year and you really know her and the type of person she is or did you meet her at a go-go bar in Thailand and exchanged contact information. And I guess it also depends on what the long-term game plan is once she arrives here. Are you going to move her into your house and get married so she is a citizen? Can she work at all or is she just going to sit around the house and get bored, while you 100% support her?

 

[이 회장님]

Too many cultural, language, way of thinking and other barriers to overcome.

Even the language barrier alone. I’ve seen many guys talk with Korean girls and the communication results in too much confusion and misunderstanding.

 

[richardp2918]

Too many cultural, language, way of thinking and other barriers to overcome.

Even the language barrier alone. I’ve seen many guys talk with Korean girls and the communication results in too much confusion and misunderstanding.

Even people speaking the same language have misunderstandings...

 

[이 회장님]

Even people speaking the same language have misunderstandings...

Good one!!

 

[Funrise]

Too many cultural, language, way of thinking and other barriers to overcome.

Even the language barrier alone. I’ve seen many guys talk with Korean girls and the communication results in too much confusion and misunderstanding.

If google translate is needed for most communication, I agree it’s too much. All my friends married women that were somewhat conversational at a minimum. The successful marriages were with a few long term visits.
I’m in no rush. Just thinking about it.

 

[Whizzard]

Cmon @Funrise.
A green card or permanent legal status is more valuable than gold to most of these chicks. After that, you get um pregnant, they can bring their entire family over. Couple years down the road, she’s Americanized, divorces you and live a in your (now hers) house and your paying child support.
Keep them at a distance and/or pay by the hour. Much safer that way

 

[PorterD]

Cmon @Funrise.
A green card or permanent legal status is more valuable than gold to most of these chicks. After that, you get um pregnant, they can bring their entire family over. Couple years down the road, she’s Americanized, divorces you and live a in your (now hers) house and your paying child support.
Keep them at a distance and/or pay by the hour. Much safer that way

Yep; no point in mixing hot sex with committed relationships. Bad things happen. Kids, marriage, and handing over your assets in divorce court. It’s too messy. Not worth the risk.

 

[이 회장님]

With these women, there is no need to put all your eggs in one basket.

 

[Funrise]

It’s true that once you figure the country’s social scene, the dating opportunities are amazing. No need to monger. If your time there is limited, some will hint at money to speed things up.

 

[이 회장님]

It’s true that once you figure the country’s social scene, the dating opportunities are amazing. No need to monger. If your time there is limited, some will hint at money to speed things up.

Very true.

In countries like Japan and Korea, it’s much better to just go on Tinder or SA instead of mongering. Overall they speak pretty good English and they want to have fun with Americans.

 

[Hugeinasia]

You shouldn't remove the wild animals from their natural habitat.

 

[mikemendez]

I rather enjoy overseas imported relationships, one hour at a time, lol. They’re here on their dime, I just add to their funds.

 

[gene_glenn]

If you considering marrying overseas doll apply for your girl a finacee visa. Finacee visas are often recommended to service men who meet a woman overseas. Military recommend it because if she goes to US and takes off man is not burned with wife on record he has no information on location and she may try to get benefits. Sometimes even women intending on being married have trouble adusting to move with no family, different language and culture.