Optimizing for one shot and done

[richardp2918]

It's been years since I could drop loads back to back, and even with pills, I'm resigned to enjoying my one and done loads and looking for any tips for making the precious single load as enjoyable as possible. If I make an appointment in the morning for an evening session (my usual routine), I end up spending all day fantasizing about it and sometimes I end up blowing my load way too early in the session. To compensate, I've squeezed out a load at home before the session, which then results in losing a lot of motivation by the time of the session, and sometimes struggling to perform during the actual session.

Best compromise I've found is to make an appointment the previous day and squeeze out some loads the night before. That way, I'm not too tempted to squeeze one out the day of the session and I'm reloaded by the time I see the girl.

I've also been watching mountains of porn and have heard that is very bad for actual sex, as I get too desensitized? Has anybody quit porn and seen better results for sex? Thanks all.

 

[이 회장님]

Your second paragraph is the best answer—make an appointment the previous day and rub one out the night before which still gives you one full day to reload.

 

[richardp2918]

Your second paragraph is the best answer—make an appointment the previous day and rub one out the night before which still gives you one full day to reload.

Takes away a lot of spontaneity, but I beggars can't be choosers I guess. The indignity of aging and slowly falling apart...

 

[hoofhearted-u?]

I’ll just watch war news all day so my dick stays limp.
No porn

 

[thurber]

If you want to maximize that one shot, prefer seeing ATFs/old reliables/repeats over new girls.

At least for me, the experience of new pussy is just that much more exciting. It's often a lot of work on my part to last more than a few mins with a new girl I'm attracted to, whereas I tend to last longer with my regulars.

 

[richardp2918]

If you want to maximize that one shot, prefer seeing ATFs/old reliables/repeats over new girls.

At least for me, the experience of new pussy is just that much more exciting. It's often a lot of work on my part to last more than a few mins with a new girl I'm attracted to, whereas I tend to last longer with my regulars.

 

[timleecl]

Has anybody quit porn and seen better results for sex?

I stopped watching porn years ago and yes real sex became much better

 

[heynow]

Drink some booze beforehand.

 

[richardp2918]

Drink some booze beforehand.

I've recently started taking a cold beer or two sometimes on sessions, so I can enjoy it during the session. If I drink it at home, the buzz wears off and it's counter productive on all counts. But banging a girl doggy style while taking a swig of beer and spanking her ass...that's a great moment in life.

 

[이 회장님]

Drink some booze beforehand.

I have some friends who do this. This doesn’t work for me because I have to go to the bathroom a few times. lol

 

[Johnny Blaze]

I stopped watching porn years ago and yes real sex became much better

I will say I jerk off a lot less and barely watch porn. I'd rather jerk off to kbj girls on afreeca.tv

I am way better at banging now than I ever was by a mile.

 

[easy2please]

Drink some booze beforehand.

A few years ago I had a session delayed about half an hour at the last minute, I was already in the area so I stopped at a pub down the block and drank about a pint and half of beer before they gave me go ahead. Was rock hard like a teenager during session, lol

 

[cher_cheri]

I've recently started taking a cold beer or two sometimes on sessions, so I can enjoy it during the session. If I drink it at home, the buzz wears off and it's counter productive on all counts. But banging a girl doggy style while taking a swig of beer and spanking her ass...that's a great moment in life.

Ha! I've only had that done to me. I once had an AMP women riding me and drinking a 24 oz. Modelo to rehydrate on account of her hangover.

 

[timleecl]

I will say I jerk off a lot less and barely watch porn. I'd rather jerk off to kbj girls on afreeca.tv

I am way better at banging now than I ever was by a mile.

Agree. No fap for a few years has helped me a lot (on many levels, not just banging)

 

[Thatguy23]

Agree. No fap for a few years has helped me a lot (on many levels, not just banging)

Curious about this. You say "on many levels." How else?

 

[timleecl]

For me, stirred more discipline in many other areas of life (work, fitness, diet, health, etc.) Of course YMMV