Offering escalation, fair tip?

[GreatDustyBottle]

Dear Penthouse,

One of my favorite masseuses has made it explicitly clear that we can do everything if I want (it is a storefront massage place, I want to try it for novelty if nothing else). I am not a boundary pusher, so was a little surprised by this offer. We have never negotiated a tip, I have just always handed her 160 amount up front and been well taken care of for an hour. Is there a standard scale to these things?

 

[Nerd159]

1.6, if it doesn't include the house fee, should cover everything, unless you're asking for some super freaky deviant shit.

 

[GreatDustyBottle]

1.6, if it doesn't include the house fee, should cover everything, unless you're asking for some super freaky deviant shit.

It historically has included the .7 house fee. So 1.6 over...awfully close to a Korg. I'm going to give it a swing.

 

[ftse]

So that’s $.7 for the house and $.9 for her?

If you want to match the market you need to bump it up another $.5 or so for the whole enchilada.

But if likes you maybe not so much.

 

[GreatDustyBottle]

So that’s $.7 for the house and $.9 for her?

If you want to match the market you need to bump it up another $.5 or so for the whole enchilada.

But if likes you maybe not so much.

That's correct, for a massage and my hands free to roam everywhere. She is GND attractive and a willing dirty talker, so I feel good about the .9 tip. Going to tip 1.5 and see what she says.

It is a dice roll, which can be part of the fun.

 

[saylr]

Have you read reviews about her? How long have you been seeing her?

 

[GreatDustyBottle]

Have you read reviews about her? How long have you been seeing her?

She has been reviewed, nothing past HE mentioned. I have seen her once a month since April. I don't know that this is a usual part of her routine, but when an attractive woman says "Do you want to fuck me" is is hard not to say yes. Pun intended.

 

[ftse]

Where those her actual words? If so...game on!

 

[Mickyblue]

I’d offer her the same as usual if she really likes you.

 

[GreatDustyBottle]

Where those her actual words? If so...game on!

Direct quote....I thought she was just talking dirty but when I asked if she was serious she asked "Do you have a condom?". I'll find out tomorrow morning for sure.

 

[Nerd159]

Direct quote....I thought she was just talking dirty but when I asked if she was serious she asked "Do you have a condom?". I'll find out tomorrow morning for sure.

Good luck! We're all rootin' for ya!

 

[Peteyj522]

Direct quote....I thought she was just talking dirty but when I asked if she was serious she asked "Do you have a condom?". I'll find out tomorrow morning for sure.

Update pls, lol

 

[GreatDustyBottle]

Update pls, lol

The promised update - I got a text late last night telling me her period had started and asking if we could reschedule for Sunday morning. Sooooo...I'm going to say that's pretty conclusive that I didn't misconstrue her intent. Going to be so wierd fucking in a somewhat legit massage place. Fortunately, I like wierd. LOL

 

[rodneyfarva]

The promised update - I got a text late last night telling me her period had started and asking if we could reschedule for Sunday morning. Sooooo...I'm going to say that's pretty conclusive that I didn't misconstrue her intent. Going to be so wierd fucking in a somewhat legit massage place. Fortunately, I like wierd. LOL

We don't kink shame here.

 

[Smalhei]

Hmm I don’t think period cycle ends in two days…

 

[ftse]

Yeah. Don’t rush into it. She ain’t going anywhere. Keep your normal schedule.

 

[Nerd159]

Hmm I don’t think period cycle ends in two days…

You never know. Each woman is unique, and they usually know how their bodies work..