I’ve had similar experiences and gave up on her. I drove a half hour to see her for my very first appt. I sat in my car for half an hour texting her and getting no response. I finally left and drove back home. Turns out she was in Virginia and never bothered to cancel the appt. On another occasion, I made an appointment and asked her to text me if she needed to cancel because of snow the next day. I received no text and headed over. Minutes from her place, I texted her my arrival time. She replied saying she couldn’t keep the appt. because of her daughter, or something like that. I was pissed to say the least.