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Need advice. stripper/pornstar opportunity

SSatan

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So I met a nice young lady at an all-nude stip club in queens. We chatted a bit, she gave me her digits and told me to hit her up so she could send me her porn links... cool. I did and she sent me some links, decent enough stuff if maybe a little vanilla for my freakshow tastes. but she’s cute and looks a little like a person IRL that I think is cute.

Skip to today, she texts me and asks if I wanna meet soon. damn, I would love to but I’m not sure how this works. I figure she’s a high-priced date and honestly I’m not sure she would be worth the risk of getting caught by the wife. it’s bad enough that she’s texting me. I’m used to amps where I just sorta show up and maybe a quick call or text and delete the exchange.

How would you guys handle this?
 

hithere456

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Usually when I've met strippers for takeout, I'd always set the parameters for future meetings at the club or during the first phone call.

Sounds like you've done neither.

If you think she's that hot definitely meet her. At a minimum meet her at a Starbucks, or meet her for a drink. See you how you vibe with her.

When you meet her be direct and ask her what her expectations are going forward...i.e. if there's a donation requirement, and if so what is it? And take it from there.

Most dancers don't give out their number without you getting a lap dance. If that's the case here, she'll most likely expect a donation per meet up.

And if you continue to see her, definitely get a burner phone or app.
 

Cholo54

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Go for it., but play it safe.
Meet at designated place.
A bar or restaurant that you would NEVER go to normally.

Make appointments short.. Leave before she does.
Feel her out. See what she wants.
 

Talo

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It's tricky to adjust if you're use to going to place and getting out asap. Are you meeting at her place or getting a room? What ever the case is once there don't bring up the time and don't make the mistake of walking out on your own. Chit chat get to know her and let her get into a lull talking. Wait for her to kick you out. You'll be amazed at how many pros/porn stars included end up going over time and doing MSOG because they were having a good time hanging with the guy.

Just because she has some clips up online doesn't mean she's expensive. If she's like a D list girl that just has a few vids floating around tube sites that doesn't count, If that's the case she may only be asking a small premium over a regular provider, like 400 or 500 an hr. Can you share link, maybe we can judge a little better or someone might already know?
 

Jacbkk

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From my experience, take it one step at a time. Do not overthink it.

Expect to spend some money but only to the point you feel comfortable.

Enjoy the moment.
 

Levin79

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So I met a nice young lady at an all-nude stip club in queens. We chatted a bit, she gave me her digits and told me to hit her up so she could send me her porn links... cool. I did and she sent me some links, decent enough stuff if maybe a little vanilla for my freakshow tastes. but she’s cute and looks a little like a person IRL that I think is cute.

Skip to today, she texts me and asks if I wanna meet soon. damn, I would love to but I’m not sure how this works. I figure she’s a high-priced date and honestly I’m not sure she would be worth the risk of getting caught by the wife. it’s bad enough that she’s texting me. I’m used to amps where I just sorta show up and maybe a quick call or text and delete the exchange.

How would you guys handle this?
You’re married and thus move on quickly from her as too much risk versus reward.
 

Levin79

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So I met a nice young lady at an all-nude stip club in queens. We chatted a bit, she gave me her digits and told me to hit her up so she could send me her porn links... cool. I did and she sent me some links, decent enough stuff if maybe a little vanilla for my freakshow tastes. but she’s cute and looks a little like a person IRL that I think is cute.

Skip to today, she texts me and asks if I wanna meet soon. damn, I would love to but I’m not sure how this works. I figure she’s a high-priced date and honestly I’m not sure she would be worth the risk of getting caught by the wife. it’s bad enough that she’s texting me. I’m used to amps where I just sorta show up and maybe a quick call or text and delete the exchange.

How would you guys handle this?
You also fail to understand when one of your AMP providers see a slowdown in her business may text you for a visit.You’re a married man taking way too many risks and need a burner phone and too be more careful.
 

Levin79

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So I met a nice young lady at an all-nude stip club in queens. We chatted a bit, she gave me her digits and told me to hit her up so she could send me her porn links... cool. I did and she sent me some links, decent enough stuff if maybe a little vanilla for my freakshow tastes. but she’s cute and looks a little like a person IRL that I think is cute.

Skip to today, she texts me and asks if I wanna meet soon. damn, I would love to but I’m not sure how this works. I figure she’s a high-priced date and honestly I’m not sure she would be worth the risk of getting caught by the wife. it’s bad enough that she’s texting me. I’m used to amps where I just sorta show up and maybe a quick call or text and delete the exchange.

How would you guys handle this?
She’s not a nice lady and wants dollars which is obviously “pay for play”.Asian women (AMPS)don’t force the issue with married men and understand boundaries where this whore will come for all she can get from you.
 

m2introvert

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End of the day she's trying to make money and you're fucking attached already.

If she's leading then see where it goes.
Your time and money is just as important as hers so if she makes it about the money then you know her motive.
Unless she's offering NSA or better than what you can get elsewhere there's no reason to get involved.

If she's a blonde girl with few small tattoos I think I might know who you're talking about.
 

Levin79

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Guys remember he’s married anyone single would be
End of the day she's trying to make money and you're fucking attached already.

If she's leading then see where it goes.
Your time and money is just as important as hers so if she makes it about the money then you know her motive.
Unless she's offering NSA or better than what you can get elsewhere there's no reason to get involved.

If she's a blonde girl with few small tattoos I think I might know who you're talking about.
Spot on!A single guy can play all the cards and see where the hand may take him as a married man must know quickly what hands to fold.This is a hand any married man with common sense will fold.
 

Talo

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Guys remember he’s married anyone single would be

Spot on!A single guy can play all the cards and see where the hand may take him as a married man must know quickly what hands to fold.This is a hand any married man with common sense will fold.
I think most of us are assuming hes already accepted the risks involved. Otherwise he would have thrown out the girls number, not go back to that club, and stick to AMPs.
 

hookahguy118

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Don't do it, what makes this girl any different from a known provider? You're married, all it takes is one text from her when you are sleeping or next to your wife to fuck shit up. Yeah its a nice pat on the back to get a strippers/ providers real phone number, HOWEVER that isn't ideal for a married guy. Get a burner, if not you can find a provider that is as hot or hotter than her without the extra nervousness.
 

nyGringo76

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I agree. I even got a props from a provider when I mentioned that I have a bat phone. You don't need to worry about a message appearing on your screen next to your girl/wife.
 

johnnyenagain

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Just an opinion but in these situations it’s best to ask yourself “is the juice worth the squeeze”? First consider all you have - wife, family, house, etc and then think about what your life would be like if you lost of that. Then make your decision
 

SSatan

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Thanks for all the excellent advice guys. Yes the club is Show Palace, She goes by Cali, unique looking Latina. give me a minute I will post a clip.
 
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