My first time at a strip club

[MangoMonger]

I went to my 1st strip club on Sunday with 2 of my co workers it was breathless in Rahway lots of Latinas, most of them look beautiful but a bit plastic, there was a 10 dollar charge to get in. Me and my boys sit at the bar there's 2 stages with one in the middle of the bar. I buy a Corona as I'm not a big drinker it was 6 dollars in total. My boy told me to take my time but I knew why I was there, to get some lap dances and inquire about VIP.

As I said there was a lot of girls there and the one thing I didn't like was that girls were walking around the bar and you kinda had to give them a dollar I didn't do it with every girl but you can't so no to all of them. A lap dance cost 30 dollars and I got 4 in total I even got one with a black girl (I'm black as well) and we chatted for a bit, she told me her parents are Liberian and when I asked about VIP she told me it was 400 yea fuck that lol probably spent about 160 to 180 in total and my co worker got 2 of there numbers cuz he spoke Spanish. Overall I would probably go to a strip club like once a year with friends I prefer paying for pussy over paying to get teased lol.

 

[Mclovin22]

I went to my 1st strip club on Sunday with 2 of my co workers it was breathless in Rahway lots of Latinas, most of them look beautiful but a bit plastic, there was a 10 dollar charge to get in. Me and my boys sit at the bar there's 2 stages with one in the middle of the bar. I buy a Corona as I'm not a big drinker it was 6 dollars in total. My boy told me to take my time but I knew why I was there, to get some lap dances and inquire about VIP.

As I said there was a lot of girls there and the one thing I didn't like was that girls were walking around the bar and you kinda had to give them a dollar I didn't do it with every girl but you can't so no to all of them. A lap dance cost 30 dollars and I got 4 in total I even got one with a black girl (I'm black as well) and we chatted for a bit, she told me her parents are Liberian and when I asked about VIP she told me it was 400 yea fuck that lol probably spent about 160 to 180 in total and my co worker got 2 of there numbers cuz he spoke Spanish. Overall I would probably go to a strip club like once a year with friends I prefer paying for pussy over paying to get teased lol.

Your friend has the right approach. Get their number and see them OTC.

 

[MikePapa]

This is why I don’t go to strip clubs

 

[Mclovin22]

This is why I don’t go to strip clubs

Yeah, it definitely is an expensive outing going to a strip club. Having said that, you can coordinate an OTC arrangement with some very hot girls at a reasonable price point. I had one lap dance and the girl asked me for my number. Of course, she may have gotten 10 numbers that night, but she is hotter than any girl I have seen at an AMP or RMP! Plus, we can do some normal stuff too. If you don't want to invest the time, resources and energy, an AMP or RMP is certainly more cost effective and a sure thing. In and out in 30-60 minutes!

 

[MikePapa]

Yeah, it definitely is an expensive outing going to a strip club. Having said that, you can coordinate an OTC arrangement with some very hot girls at a reasonable price point. I had one lap dance and the girl asked me for my number. Of course, she may have gotten 10 numbers that night, but she is hotter than any girl I have seen at an AMP or RMP! Plus, we can do some normal stuff too. If you don't want to invest the time, resources and energy, an AMP or RMP is certainly more cost effective and a sure thing. In and out in 30-60 minutes!

Doesn’t work like that when you’re married

 

[Mclovin22]

Doesn’t work like that when you’re married

LOL - yeah, I didn't think about that!

 

[pumpkinking]

Doesn’t work like that when you’re married

It doesn't work like that for most guy regardless of your situation. lol From my experience the type of guys that a dancer tends to offer her number to without asking are regulars (they developed a relationship over time) or sponsors (theyre trying to extract more $ from you). Last time I went with my friend one of the dancers gave him her number and said she had a friend.. He not a ugly guy or anything so maybe she was diggin him but these are strippers at the end of the day…Were both married so we didnt try to explore what she had in mind but I imagine she probably wanted a sponsor. He spent i think 3 or 4 with her just doing lap dances. Smh.lol

I know SC can be a source for mongering. Ive never done it myself. I do plan on testing the water at one of the spots near me thats known for extras but I just havent been up for the hassle of potentially wasting money in the process. Id rather do a AMP and get a sure thing. I do like options though...

 

[hpolanco665]

I went to my 1st strip club on Sunday with 2 of my co workers it was breathless in Rahway lots of Latinas, most of them look beautiful but a bit plastic, there was a 10 dollar charge to get in. Me and my boys sit at the bar there's 2 stages with one in the middle of the bar. I buy a Corona as I'm not a big drinker it was 6 dollars in total. My boy told me to take my time but I knew why I was there, to get some lap dances and inquire about VIP.

As I said there was a lot of girls there and the one thing I didn't like was that girls were walking around the bar and you kinda had to give them a dollar I didn't do it with every girl but you can't so no to all of them. A lap dance cost 30 dollars and I got 4 in total I even got one with a black girl (I'm black as well) and we chatted for a bit, she told me her parents are Liberian and when I asked about VIP she told me it was 400 yea fuck that lol probably spent about 160 to 180 in total and my co worker got 2 of there numbers cuz he spoke Spanish. Overall I would probably go to a strip club like once a year with friends I prefer paying for pussy over paying to get teased lol.

Fun fact, I had my bachelor party in the basement of breathless, if the walls of that private bathroom could talk. Topless bartender. It was a wild night, and I only remember half of it.

 

[Shortpowerranger38]

I went to my 1st strip club on Sunday with 2 of my co workers it was breathless in Rahway lots of Latinas, most of them look beautiful but a bit plastic, there was a 10 dollar charge to get in. Me and my boys sit at the bar there's 2 stages with one in the middle of the bar. I buy a Corona as I'm not a big drinker it was 6 dollars in total. My boy told me to take my time but I knew why I was there, to get some lap dances and inquire about VIP.

As I said there was a lot of girls there and the one thing I didn't like was that girls were walking around the bar and you kinda had to give them a dollar I didn't do it with every girl but you can't so no to all of them. A lap dance cost 30 dollars and I got 4 in total I even got one with a black girl (I'm black as well) and we chatted for a bit, she told me her parents are Liberian and when I asked about VIP she told me it was 400 yea fuck that lol probably spent about 160 to 180 in total and my co worker got 2 of there numbers cuz he spoke Spanish. Overall I would probably go to a strip club like once a year with friends I prefer paying for pussy over paying to get teased lol.

As a ex strip club hopper you did the right thing. Just go there once in a blew ask for the girl who gave the best dance speak with her. Then ask for her number. Then you can exchange any extra. Most of the times VIP is about 150. The aim high like 400 because of what they missed through the night.

 

[Sarsta]

To be honest with you. If you’re only willing to visit the strip club once or twice a year, then you’re not a good fit for an OTC arrangement with a stripper. Unless If they’re a total pro, you’ll never be able to arrange OTC with them unless you’re trusted regular. A one and done OTC meet up with a stripper will not cut it for them, and if they think that you’re going to be that one and done type of guy, they they will flake on you badly by not responding to text when you are waiting in you hotel room that you book for nothing and they don’t show up or respond….lol.

 

[ChrisChristiesBurner]

breathless used to be a club you went to for extras from a girl you met a low mileage clubs. Most girls used to work 2 days at a low mileage club like clancys and 1 or 2 days at a extras friendly place like johnny a's, taboo, breathless. I dont find this is the case anymore. Girls who work at low mileage places tend to offer extras outside the club. Im not sure if extras friendly clubs are even popular for that purpose anymore. After COVID many guys learned of better value options. So for the most part taboo, johnny A's, and breathless tend to be full of guys who just want to watch eye candy and pay the dollar parade fee instead of getting dances. And the girls there tend to be very reserved because they can make a decent amount of cash on the dollar parade and not giving dances

 

[ChrisChristiesBurner]

The reason why breathless and taboo can charge crazy rates for in the club fun is because of the proximity to newark airport. A guy on a business trip from lets say chicago who just had his company pay for his week of food and hotel doesnt mind about dropping 400 on fun before flying back home to his family. He also doesnt know of better options in the state

 

[RichardRomero]

The reason why breathless and taboo can charge crazy rates for in the club fun is because of the proximity to newark airport. A guy on a business trip from lets say chicago who just had his company pay for his week of food and hotel doesnt mind about dropping 400 on fun before flying back home to his family. He also doesnt know of better options in the state

I would think the Bada Bing is the most well know club to those outside of NJ. Nobody really talks about it much here. I like it there. Maybe the same owner as AJ’S which ia also like but not really sure. I’ve meet some top tier talent there but never tried the vip service. I’ve only taken two outside of there, each for one date. One Latin and one Russian

 

[honynic07]

breathless used to be a club you went to for extras from a girl you met a low mileage clubs. Most girls used to work 2 days at a low mileage club like clancys and 1 or 2 days at a extras friendly place like johnny a's, taboo, breathless. I dont find this is the case anymore. Girls who work at low mileage places tend to offer extras outside the club. Im not sure if extras friendly clubs are even popular for that purpose anymore. After COVID many guys learned of better value options. So for the most part taboo, johnny A's, and breathless tend to be full of guys who just want to watch eye candy and pay the dollar parade fee instead of getting dances. And the girls there tend to be very reserved because they can make a decent amount of cash on the dollar parade and not giving dances

the girls during the day at breathless still offer FS. I dn't know about the girls at night, but the time I went there at night the talent was pretty bad. First time I've been to a club and the bar girl was hotter than the dancers!

 

[honynic07]

so Johnny A is my go to spot. a couple of weeks ago I met a girl there I had never seen before. she asked me for a dance, but I had just gotten there, so I wanted to relax a bit.
she went on stage, my god that girl has an awesome body. and she's an amazing dancer. Best dancer I've seen there in a long time (since precovid). she was in the pole right in front of me, she made a lot of eye contact, and she could see that I appreciated the way she dances and looks. she comes over to me with a smirk, and says, "and you refused a dance from me!" I replied, "my mistake, and I'm not refusing now!!"
we went for the LD. one dances turned to two, then three, and then ten. I'm dancing a little with her, which she seemed to appreciate. right towards the end, she says, "can I tell you a secret?" a give the affirmative. she takes my hand and puts it on top of her panties, which are soaking wet!!
I ask her how many dances it was, "I don't know, I lost count! 4 or 5 I think." I knew full well that was BS, we had been in there her while time between stage times, which is around 10 dances.
she went to change, then back on stage. we chat a little when she's doing the dollar parade. asks me if I've had dance training because I dance so well (such a flatterer!)
needless to say, we go for another LD. she starts touching herself while she's in my lap, then takes my hand and sits on it. my fingers end up inside her. my god she's wet a fuck! end of the 10, again she's saying she has no idea how many dances it was, she actually told me 3! good grief. she demands my number at the end, and gives me her real name instead of her stage name.
gorgeous Russian girl. omg.

if you're lucky, you'll hit it off with a girl straight off, and you will have a great time.
if you're single, and they are looking for a "sponsor" they'll pay you around 30k. I know that there was a gorgeous girl at taboo that was looking (I'm not a citizen, so can't help)
like everything else in life, it is sometimes just down to your luck as to whom you will meet.

 

[Unfinished_sentenc]

so Johnny A is my go to spot. a couple of weeks ago I met a girl there I had never seen before. she asked me for a dance, but I had just gotten there, so I wanted to relax a bit.
she went on stage, my god that girl has an awesome body. and she's an amazing dancer. Best dancer I've seen there in a long time (since precovid). she was in the pole right in front of me, she made a lot of eye contact, and she could see that I appreciated the way she dances and looks. she comes over to me with a smirk, and says, "and you refused a dance from me!" I replied, "my mistake, and I'm not refusing now!!"
we went for the LD. one dances turned to two, then three, and then ten. I'm dancing a little with her, which she seemed to appreciate. right towards the end, she says, "can I tell you a secret?" a give the affirmative. she takes my hand and puts it on top of her panties, which are soaking wet!!
I ask her how many dances it was, "I don't know, I lost count! 4 or 5 I think." I knew full well that was BS, we had been in there her while time between stage times, which is around 10 dances.
she went to change, then back on stage. we chat a little when she's doing the dollar parade. asks me if I've had dance training because I dance so well (such a flatterer!)
needless to say, we go for another LD. she starts touching herself while she's in my lap, then takes my hand and sits on it. my fingers end up inside her. my god she's wet a fuck! end of the 10, again she's saying she has no idea how many dances it was, she actually told me 3! good grief. she demands my number at the end, and gives me her real name instead of her stage name.
gorgeous Russian girl. omg.

if you're lucky, you'll hit it off with a girl straight off, and you will have a great time.
if you're single, and they are looking for a "sponsor" they'll pay you around 30k. I know that there was a gorgeous girl at taboo that was looking (I'm not a citizen, so can't help)
like everything else in life, it is sometimes just down to your luck as to whom you will meet.

I guess different strokes for different folks but if im spending more than 100 these days i want my dick wet, not my hand wet. I have had girls soak thier panties with me in the LD Room and it was fun but these days i prefer if a girl has an actual orgasm. but if you left feeling more happy that you would at a provider more power to you.

 

[YoungLooking24]

I guess different strokes for different folks but if im spending more than 100 these days i want my dick wet, not my hand wet. I have had girls soak thier panties with me in the LD Room and it was fun but these days i prefer if a girl has an actual orgasm. but if you left feeling more happy that you would at a provider more power to you.

Agreed. I know people prefer different things but i won't be throwing away thousands at the strip club when you can just invest a little, BUT WILL TAKE EFFORT, to get these girls outside. I can't stress this enough. I know people prefer different things but the experience is so much better when you invest some time, little money and effort to get a number, then just take them to loop in in avenel. Almost all of the dancers know that place. That's why it has glowing reviews on google. That's all of us giving it high praises lol. Because it's a spot to take strippers. Period.

Or if you're lucky you get to go to their apt.

 

[Mclovin22]

Agreed. I know people prefer different things but i won't be throwing away thousands at the strip club when you can just invest a little, BUT WILL TAKE EFFORT, to get these girls outside. I can't stress this enough. I know people prefer different things but the experience is so much better when you invest some time, little money and effort to get a number, then just take them to loop in in avenel. Almost all of the dancers know that place. That's why it has glowing reviews on google. That's all of us giving it high praises lol. Because it's a spot to take strippers. Period.

Or if you're lucky you get to go to their apt.

100% aligned. Most of the dancers are just looking to make bank, and if you hit it off with them at the bar they will see you OTC. Sometimes their demands are a bit unrealistic, but if they like you they may view it as more of a friends with benefits situation. You'll still need to throw them some support.

Best situation I had was a provider who would invite me to her apartment, cook me dinner sometimes and we went at it like rabbits until the next morning. No monetary exchange either as she was looking for a real relationship. I couldn't go there while she was getting pounded by 15-20 guys a week, but some of the best sex ever while it lasted!

 

[YoungLooking24]

100% aligned. Most of the dancers are just looking to make bank, and if you hit it off with them at the bar they will see you OTC. Sometimes their demands are a bit unrealistic, but if they like you they may view it as more of a friends with benefits situation. You'll still need to throw them some support.

Best situation I had was a provider who would invite me to her apartment, cook me dinner sometimes and we went at it like rabbits until the next morning. No monetary exchange either as she was looking for a real relationship. I couldn't go there while she was getting pounded by 15-20 guys a week, but some of the best sex ever while it lasted!

No doubt. Everyone is different and every dancer is different.

From my experience, the popular girls aren't worth OTC. Just because of their mentality of cherry picking because every guy wants them. And you'll know who the popular ones if you frequent a particular club and/or read up about them, like what we're doing here, or back channel etc.

There was one girl i was able to get OTC, only through the help of my friend. Had i not got his help, i think it would have taken me 10 to 20 visits just spending a couple hundred each time in order to get her outside. She's a popular girl and not many who frequented that place has even gotten her number. I bypassed all of that because of my friend. It's amazing how things get done when you have a brazilian friend who's been in the game for almost 20 years. I just tell him the name of the girl i like, then i get a text a couple days later with, "Bom dia amor!"

In the end, if you're able to make it work, the situation of having dancers for OTC is actually better than bar hopping or even seeing some random girl at a hotel for 1 hour. These dancers live normal ass lives so sometimes they'll hit you up out of the blue and ask for a favor. They know the bartering system. If you help them, they know what to do in return. You don't need to discuss it.

I was able to get some action just because i helped one girl move a couch. A freakin couch. Took me 20 minutes.

 

[Jerzeyboy]

I would think the Bada Bing is the most well know club to those outside of NJ. Nobody really talks about it much here. I like it there. Maybe the same owner as AJ’S which ia also like but not really sure. I’ve meet some top tier talent there but never tried the vip service. I’ve only taken two outside of there, each for one date. One Latin and one Russian

How much did they charge?