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Married/LTR sex

instinctsrtrue

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Curious about what people’s sex life is like in marriage or a LTR. It is something that a lot of guys don’t often discuss.

Did it decrease (it never increases, right)? If so, because of who and why and after how many years? What is the frequency?
 

AmituofoNY

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Probably at like 1-3 times a week.
Not sure how fast it declined, but by a lot, I can still go 3 rounds unassisted in an hr at an AMP.
I'm much less interested in it. I think the main thing for me is just the emotional baggage thats built up from feelings and fights (me being less interested makes her angry/upset which makes me less interested), but the lack of novelty & lack of effort/trying hurt it too.
 

instinctsrtrue

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Probably at like 1-3 times a week.
Not sure how fast it declined, but by a lot, I can still go 3 rounds unassisted in an hr at an AMP.
I'm much less interested in it. I think the main thing for me is just the emotional baggage thats built up from feelings and fights (me being less interested makes her angry/upset which makes me less interested), but the lack of novelty & lack of effort/trying hurt it too.
1-3 times a week is pretty good. If you are middle age or older it is very good. It seems everything works against continued intimacy - people let themselves go physically, there is emotional baggage.
 

kantuchdis

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So many variables contribute to a couples experience. Their ages, length of relationship, past infidelities, presence of children, economics, health, too many to list... Everyone is different. IMO the imbalance regarding interest in sex is biological and intentional: males want to stick their dick inside anything, anywhere. Females use that fact to gain control and influence. Over time she realizes spreading her legs is less necessary to achieve her goals so her attention turns to pizza, sleeping and alcohol. Meanwhile he discovers an endless supply of vaginas are available in every corner of the globe, no matter what he looks like, as long as he has a few spare bucks.

Dude banging the wife 3 times a week is either exaggerating or they are newlyweds in their 20's and if the latter, why the hell would be trolling for hookers? At that stage of my life I had my pick of the interns, waitresses, grocery clerks and pool life guards to bop for free.
 

AmituofoNY

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Dude banging the wife 3 times a week is either exaggerating or they are newlyweds in their 20's
5 year LTR (not married) and late 20's (so all the AMP girls are older than me :ROFLMAO:)

why the hell would be trolling for hookers? At that stage of my life I had my pick of the interns, waitresses, grocery clerks and pool life guards to bop for free.
Offices, bars and pools etc... have been closed and people have been less open to strangers for some reason. Aside from Covid we are now living together and I haven't been regularly traveling for business or going with friends to Miami & Vegas. Logistically meeting someone takes significant time and AMPs don't need much of an excuse to discretely fit into the day.
 

Horseshoehandgrenade

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I’m not married but been with the same woman for about 12 years, since my mid-20s. Was hot and heavy at first of course, then we got pregnant (not intended) which changes things.

I try to make sure we have sex at least once a week otherwise I worry it’ll be a slippery slope to nothing it close to, and she’ll get suspicious. We’ll go through good periods where it’s more like twice for a while, but never more than that. It can feel like a chore sometimes after this long but I rarely leave dissatisfied and it’s best for all parties
 

instinctsrtrue

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Dude banging the wife 3 times a week is either exaggerating or they are newlyweds in their 20's and if the latter, why the hell would be trolling for hookers? At that stage of my life I had my pick of the interns, waitresses, grocery clerks and pool life guards to bop for free.[/QUOTE]

There are single guys who need the p4p world to get pussy because they lack looks or game. There are married guys who need the p4p world to get extra pussy. It is not easy as a married guy to find a non-paying affair. I went on SA and hobbied because there were no women I could just tap on the shoulder and would be eager to have an affair with a married guy with young kids. I was not going to go on Bumble and pretend I was single because I did not want to lie and most women expect you can go out at night which I could not. But yeah, if I was single, I would just go on dating apps
 

MachinesElves

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i got married in my late 20s. even during the best of times, we probably had sex just once or twice a week.

unfortunately, it gradually got worse over the years. there were times, we probably went over a year without sex - a true sexless marriage.

i also had to initiate nearly every encounter. i can count on one hand, the number of times she initiated, and that was with the aim of getting pregnant.

as of late, our sex life has actually improved. but not to the point where i’m going to stop hobbying.
 

newyorkfun

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i got married in my late 20s. even during the best of times, we probably had sex just once or twice a week.

unfortunately, it gradually got worse over the years. there were times, we probably went over a year without sex - a true sexless marriage.

i also had to initiate nearly every encounter. i can count on one hand, the number of times she initiated, and that was with the aim of getting pregnant.

as of late, our sex life has actually improved. but not to the point where i’m going to stop hobbying.
Do you get worried about bbj?
 

ALXC38

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Curious about what people’s sex life is like in marriage or a LTR. It is something that a lot of guys don’t often discuss.

Did it decrease (it never increases, right)? If so, because of who and why and after how many years? What is the frequency?
Damn, Try 4 years LOL,
Why do you thing I took up mongering
 

4Milfgaard

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Got married recently, like 7 months ago. Haven't been having sex alot lately and I usually have to initiate, which gets boring, so I don't anymore. My only regret is not using my early 20s to fuck until my soul left my body. I only started hobbying 4 years ago because I didn't want to use dating apps to get pussy. The world is too small and everyone knows someone.
 
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