If you haven't figured it out, there a lot of comedic members here who have a wicked sense of humor and like to poke fun at each other, it doesn't make them lesser than you, uncultured, uneducated, etc. occasionally we tell a bad joke, it's part of the gig.
Just curious about your 'i don't care" list. Why do you care if we know all those things that you don't care about?
it seems you might be implying that "take your fantasy to another website" is a bad joke?
if so, you are correct, it's very bad. so bad that I couldn't imagine it was a joke, the people who agreed with me didn't know it was a joke, therefore making it entirely possible that poster didn't know it was a joke.
And I didn't see anywhere that says this is a 'girls only' website...
and you're very correct that people in this 'insult humor culture' today like to poke fun at each other; and the people getting poked at rarely think it's funny. insult humor is one of the reasons the world is on fire instead of people working together. insult humor is simply passive aggressive bullying. saying "I was just kidding" is barely an apology and never removes the hurt created by the "bad jokes".
I'm happy to answer the last question for you, I'm just confused on 2 fronts:
1. what made you assume I care if you (plural) know all those things? me saying them doesn't imply that I care anyone knows
2. the very literal words of that section and the entire post would indicate I don't care if you (plural) know, if you (plural) care, or if you (plural) even read it... my use of "I don't care" was to exemplify that when I stopped caring what others think and started to focus on what makes me happy (perhaps a massage from a man, if I were so inclined), my life became drastically better
ultimately, I wrote the entire post because a member asked a legitimate question and was immediately bullied; I wanted to support the original poster in contrast to the exclusion he/she was immediately met with. did anyone ever think that, that maybe the poster was a woman? it's the internet, you never know who is behind a username.
and bullies are absolutely uneducated and uncultured. if a bully said to me "I have 3 degrees" I'd say "you need more and you need a different discipline".
this is a great site, I really enjoy it. I hope I helped you understand my response better now. I'm not upset with anyone and I'm not judging anyone... in fact, perhaps I should clarify it.
just as a person has to right to be homosexual, other people have the right to disagree with it. what people don't realize in the world is that your "freedom" only exists when it doesn't encroach upon someone else's freedom.
you're allowed to think "people get their feelings hurt too easy"; and those people are allowed to have whatever feelings they want whether they want... it's when you start making "bad jokes" or trying to segregate or keep them away from things to which they are just as entitled as you that it becomes bullying and not an exercise of your freedom... an exercise of freedom is if you simply took your beliefs somewhere else instead of forcing or telling someone else what they have to do.
everyone, please understand the "you" references throughout this post are not directed at DoubleYellow, they are all "you plural".