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losing virginity at amp
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Yes, ideally true. However, some guys have problems getting anywhere with women. That could be for various reasons, such as lack of self confidence, being overweight, not having a good job, leaving with his mom etc. If losing virginity becomes an obsession that further erodes guy's self confidence, then it is probably better to lose it with a "professional". Someone of course who is well reviewed, GFE, priced at least at the mid range and can provide a pleasant experience.
Hey everybody, just wanted to update you guys. I'll get the obvious out of the way first: this post is about me not any friend of mine. I wanted to stay discreet but I don't really care anymore.
I'm thinking I might go see the provider that was mentioned above this weekend. I've read her reviews -- she seems nice and friendly and won't break the bank.
Since someone asked about my age, I'm 21 years old. I'd been working on myself a lot recently. I'm an attractive guy and I've been hit on by women before but lack of experience and anxiety really gets in the way. I can bench 165lbs now (and I weigh about 130 so that's really good), I've done a lot of pickup which most of the time is very awkward but I have gotten some numbers this way, no dates though. I just haven't been able to score a girlfriend or one night stand. I was talking to a lot of girls over the summer. These girls were interested in me and I was interested in them but I had trouble making anything happen from it. One of the girls I was talking to was 17 and she asked me if I was a virgin, after saying yeah, she lost interest. I had been toying with the idea of AMPs and escorts for months but that event really made me feel like my virginity is something I want to get over with. The other girls, well I feel nervous just kissing them (I've only kissed three girls) so I don't know how I'll ever get a lay.
I try my hardest but I find it difficult to talk to girls, I feel really boring and I can't get them as excited as the other guys seem to be able to. I have some low self-esteem and confidence and I think that gets in the way. One of my coworkers is a chad (fucks girls every weekend) and he told my first time isn't going to be with someone I love (I didn't tell him about the escort though). I definitely put girls on a pedestal and I feel like this might help me stop doing that.
I feel ready to have sex and I feel like my lack of experience is holding me back from getting with all the horny college girls on campus. These are supposed to be the best years of my life and I wouldn't want to still be a virgin at 26 or something. I have the money and I have her number so I might do it this weekend. The only thing I'm apprehensive about is this becoming an addiction I can't stop. I already do the approaches so I think once I have sex, I might be able to score some girls my age. Honestly, I feel like seeing providers will give me some confidence cause I won't be so desperate anymore. So many guys are desperate these days and will do anything for the pussy. I'll know if things don't go well with a girl there's always this alternative, no pressure. But if not, I might just end up coming back to AMP and providers again and again. Is that really a bad thing though? If I end up getting some girlfriend, she might just become a huge distraction and detract me from following my personal goals/aspirations. They say the first time isn't that great anyway, might as well lose it to a pro instead of fumbling around not knowing what to do with some girl who might not even know I'm a virgin.
Best case scenario: I get some confidence and am able to hook up with girls before I graduate from college.
Worst case scenario: I get addicted to AMPs
Best case scenario: I wait and lose my virginity the normal way to somebody I like.
Worst case scenario: I'm a 26yo virgin who missed out on my youth.
I feel like once I paid for private access on this site, I was already in too deep. Nonetheless, I'll update you guys on what ends up happening.
I'm thinking I might go see the provider that was mentioned above this weekend. I've read her reviews -- she seems nice and friendly and won't break the bank.
Since someone asked about my age, I'm 21 years old. I'd been working on myself a lot recently. I'm an attractive guy and I've been hit on by women before but lack of experience and anxiety really gets in the way. I can bench 165lbs now (and I weigh about 130 so that's really good), I've done a lot of pickup which most of the time is very awkward but I have gotten some numbers this way, no dates though. I just haven't been able to score a girlfriend or one night stand. I was talking to a lot of girls over the summer. These girls were interested in me and I was interested in them but I had trouble making anything happen from it. One of the girls I was talking to was 17 and she asked me if I was a virgin, after saying yeah, she lost interest. I had been toying with the idea of AMPs and escorts for months but that event really made me feel like my virginity is something I want to get over with. The other girls, well I feel nervous just kissing them (I've only kissed three girls) so I don't know how I'll ever get a lay.
I try my hardest but I find it difficult to talk to girls, I feel really boring and I can't get them as excited as the other guys seem to be able to. I have some low self-esteem and confidence and I think that gets in the way. One of my coworkers is a chad (fucks girls every weekend) and he told my first time isn't going to be with someone I love (I didn't tell him about the escort though). I definitely put girls on a pedestal and I feel like this might help me stop doing that.
I feel ready to have sex and I feel like my lack of experience is holding me back from getting with all the horny college girls on campus. These are supposed to be the best years of my life and I wouldn't want to still be a virgin at 26 or something. I have the money and I have her number so I might do it this weekend. The only thing I'm apprehensive about is this becoming an addiction I can't stop. I already do the approaches so I think once I have sex, I might be able to score some girls my age. Honestly, I feel like seeing providers will give me some confidence cause I won't be so desperate anymore. So many guys are desperate these days and will do anything for the pussy. I'll know if things don't go well with a girl there's always this alternative, no pressure. But if not, I might just end up coming back to AMP and providers again and again. Is that really a bad thing though? If I end up getting some girlfriend, she might just become a huge distraction and detract me from following my personal goals/aspirations. They say the first time isn't that great anyway, might as well lose it to a pro instead of fumbling around not knowing what to do with some girl who might not even know I'm a virgin.
Best case scenario: I get some confidence and am able to hook up with girls before I graduate from college.
Worst case scenario: I get addicted to AMPs
Best case scenario: I wait and lose my virginity the normal way to somebody I like.
Worst case scenario: I'm a 26yo virgin who missed out on my youth.
I feel like once I paid for private access on this site, I was already in too deep. Nonetheless, I'll update you guys on what ends up happening.
Sounds like you might want to try your luck on your own but if you have done everything you’ve said and haven’t been able to close then getting it over with might help your performance anxiety. Kevin Samuels would recommend to virgins who were worried about this kind of thing to do it but you are definitely cheating yourself out of an accomplishment and it may impact the rest of your love life.
I recommend you lose your virginity to a girlfriend. That day will cum. The chase and ambition of losing your virginity to a girlfriend is way more satisfying than walking into an amp, dropping a few hundred dollars (which is a lot of money for a college kid) and f**king someone twice or even three times your age. Most of these amp women are older than your college professors. lol.
Next time you go on a date, be more patient and let things develop. Good luck.
Next time you go on a date, be more patient and let things develop. Good luck.
Bro don't do it to your keep self improving keep working out and get your weight up, if your approaching and getting numbers you can turn it into a lay. YOUR ONLY 21!!! stop worrying about what people think a lot of guys that are getting laid are simps, or there have sluts as girlfriends your not missing out on nothing really. If you lose your virginity to AMP it will mess you up for life I would suggest you keep self improving gain about 40 pounds, get up to 2 something in benching. And go out multiple times a week get numbers, talk to them on the phone/facetime set dates and talk about hooking up. Also hang out with the guy at your job that's a chad chill with guys like him and you will learn and meet chicks. If your going to do AMP at least do it after you get laid the natural way this is a real addiction. Im not trying to preach but you have a lot of time ahead of you. Also take up boxing and more masculine activities for more confidence
First, I totally get the warnings about this hobby being addictive. You do not want to make a habit out of this. It will ruin your chances of having a normal relationship. Definitely heed that advice.
All that being said, it might make make sense in your case to go with a pro. If you are dealing with anxiety, having a little experience might boost your confidence. When talking to a girl, you no longer have that elephant in the room or that pressure on yourself to make something happen.
Don’t cheap out. Find an Indy. Do the hour. You want to spend some time together. It’s a good chance to get experience talking to a girl, without the risk of blowing it.
All that being said, it might make make sense in your case to go with a pro. If you are dealing with anxiety, having a little experience might boost your confidence. When talking to a girl, you no longer have that elephant in the room or that pressure on yourself to make something happen.
Don’t cheap out. Find an Indy. Do the hour. You want to spend some time together. It’s a good chance to get experience talking to a girl, without the risk of blowing it.
I wanted to thank everyone for their replies. I texted her this weekend, she asked when I wanted to make the appointment, but then she never responded after that... At that point, it felt too real and then I started doubting myself. I left it at that. Everyone who's trying to talk me out of it is making a lot of great points but I just want to fuck a woman so bad and it seems like that won't happen for the longest.
I've been thinking this same exact thing. I'd really like to lose it to an escort. It'd be like I'm learning from a sex teacher cause I'd be able to ask her questions and get some straight answers from a woman for once.
I've had plenty of chances with woman but I get very nervous with kino. There's a girl from work I've kissed two or three times but I still have a hard time putting my arm around her or just touching her, it feels weird and unnatural to me. Last time we talked for an hour but I didn't touch her or anything because I was overthinking it. Then right before she left, I put my hands on her hips and started trying to make out with her but she really didn't like it and left in a bad mood. I told one of my friends about it and he said I had to warm her up more before to get her in the mood. I have a hard time with that. Escalating and getting her in the mood to be sexual is confusing to me and I find it hard to be calm.
I've been thinking about doing this. I was seeing a therapist a few months ago but left cause I had to pay it out of my own pocket and it was expensive. He was a great therapist though so I might go back. I feel so impatient and want to fuck somebody already. I literally think about it 24/7. Maybe I'll get a fleshlight and go back to that therapist.
This has been one of the most convincing responses I've gotten. This is exactly what I want to avoid. This site has convinced me that AMPs are designed to lure people in again and again -- evil.
Thanks for this reply. I don't plan to stop lifting ever but I need to work on my bulking, its difficult. I haven't lost all hope, I definitely think I can fuck a girl one day but I feel so impatient because it's already taken this long and I'm horny as fuck! Admittedly, I've always been lazy with talking to girls on the phone. I try to set up a date and take them out as quickly as possible. I don't have a car and my parents won't let me bring girls home so that also gets in the way of me getting girls in bed. The only way I can get a lay is to get a girl to take me back to her dorm room (I commute, I don't dorm). My goal is definitely to learn how to fish instead of buying fish. Do you think an escort could help me gain sexual confidence or is it just gonna hinder me in the long run? I want to redirect this energy into bulking and becoming the best version of myself but I've been finding it hard to find the motivation...
Thank you. I don't care for a girlfriend personally, I just want to have sex with as many girls as I can in my life. However, I definitely could be more patient. On all the dates I've been on, I'm only ever thinking about what I could say or do to get her to fuck.
This message has stuck with me and I've thought about it a lot the last few days. I don't want to cheat myself. I also feel like it'd still feel like an accomplishment when I lay my first civvie. But thank you for this. All the rejections I've been having have really just killed my motivation.
I've been feeling like Jekyll and Hyde recently. I've been changing my mind multiple times a day every day. I was thinking of maybe continuing to work on myself and trying to pick up girls until I turn 22 in 2 months and if not, I'll lose it to an escort. I keep expecting someone to give me an answer that'll help me make up my mind but I just gotta make a firm decision and stick with it. This is my life and only I got the answers. Thanks again everyone for the great replies.
I've been thinking this same exact thing. I'd really like to lose it to an escort. It'd be like I'm learning from a sex teacher cause I'd be able to ask her questions and get some straight answers from a woman for once.
I've had plenty of chances with woman but I get very nervous with kino. There's a girl from work I've kissed two or three times but I still have a hard time putting my arm around her or just touching her, it feels weird and unnatural to me. Last time we talked for an hour but I didn't touch her or anything because I was overthinking it. Then right before she left, I put my hands on her hips and started trying to make out with her but she really didn't like it and left in a bad mood. I told one of my friends about it and he said I had to warm her up more before to get her in the mood. I have a hard time with that. Escalating and getting her in the mood to be sexual is confusing to me and I find it hard to be calm.
I've been thinking about doing this. I was seeing a therapist a few months ago but left cause I had to pay it out of my own pocket and it was expensive. He was a great therapist though so I might go back. I feel so impatient and want to fuck somebody already. I literally think about it 24/7. Maybe I'll get a fleshlight and go back to that therapist.
This has been one of the most convincing responses I've gotten. This is exactly what I want to avoid. This site has convinced me that AMPs are designed to lure people in again and again -- evil.
Thanks for this reply. I don't plan to stop lifting ever but I need to work on my bulking, its difficult. I haven't lost all hope, I definitely think I can fuck a girl one day but I feel so impatient because it's already taken this long and I'm horny as fuck! Admittedly, I've always been lazy with talking to girls on the phone. I try to set up a date and take them out as quickly as possible. I don't have a car and my parents won't let me bring girls home so that also gets in the way of me getting girls in bed. The only way I can get a lay is to get a girl to take me back to her dorm room (I commute, I don't dorm). My goal is definitely to learn how to fish instead of buying fish. Do you think an escort could help me gain sexual confidence or is it just gonna hinder me in the long run? I want to redirect this energy into bulking and becoming the best version of myself but I've been finding it hard to find the motivation...
Thank you. I don't care for a girlfriend personally, I just want to have sex with as many girls as I can in my life. However, I definitely could be more patient. On all the dates I've been on, I'm only ever thinking about what I could say or do to get her to fuck.
This message has stuck with me and I've thought about it a lot the last few days. I don't want to cheat myself. I also feel like it'd still feel like an accomplishment when I lay my first civvie. But thank you for this. All the rejections I've been having have really just killed my motivation.
I've been feeling like Jekyll and Hyde recently. I've been changing my mind multiple times a day every day. I was thinking of maybe continuing to work on myself and trying to pick up girls until I turn 22 in 2 months and if not, I'll lose it to an escort. I keep expecting someone to give me an answer that'll help me make up my mind but I just gotta make a firm decision and stick with it. This is my life and only I got the answers. Thanks again everyone for the great replies.
I think weight gain is not so important as simply being in good shape.
Maybe the kid is built like Manny Pacquiao.
Girls are not really interested in bulk. How many groupies do the My Olympia guys get?
Cool. Very brave of you to admit that.
I realize I am late in posting on this thread, but here are some past comments I have sent to guys with a similar situation o yours.
Have a read.
https://www.ampreviews.net/index.php?threads/why-do-you-go-to-amps.23705/post-169993
https://www.ampreviews.net/index.php?threads/should-a-virgin-do-it.42664/post-340782
https://www.ampreviews.net/index.ph...ngers-that-are-35-and-under.17454/post-136241
All I will say is YES, mongering CAN turn into a way of life. The only way of life.
Not saying it has too, just that it can.
Don't let it.
Best of luck to you.
Maybe the kid is built like Manny Pacquiao.
Girls are not really interested in bulk. How many groupies do the My Olympia guys get?
Cool. Very brave of you to admit that.
I realize I am late in posting on this thread, but here are some past comments I have sent to guys with a similar situation o yours.
Have a read.
https://www.ampreviews.net/index.php?threads/why-do-you-go-to-amps.23705/post-169993
https://www.ampreviews.net/index.php?threads/should-a-virgin-do-it.42664/post-340782
https://www.ampreviews.net/index.ph...ngers-that-are-35-and-under.17454/post-136241
All I will say is YES, mongering CAN turn into a way of life. The only way of life.
Not saying it has too, just that it can.
Don't let it.
Best of luck to you.
During college I had TWO very good friends who were in same boat as you, my friend. They were 21, going to bars and sometimes talking to chicks, never ever ever closing or even getting anything other than numbers, and not calling. Anyway, I took them out and showed them the way.
Things like, look forward to rejection, take it like a man and learn from each one, and build on your game.
Set goals in a reasonable way. If you are a 21 year old virgin, and have no chatting game or make out game, you are like 5 years behind the alphas, and you ought to settle for say 6's and 7's, or 5's, the friends of the chicks you are currently trying to get and failing. I am getting on to 50 now, and I am proud to recount the number of 5's 6's and 7's I excitingly let take me to their home, never be ashamed, never set goal so high you can't get it. Plus, practicing on girls who may be as unconfident as you are will surely give you game. If one of my pals sees a picture of a mommy I took out last week, and says something stupid about her beung a little curvy or chubby, or having a weird face or something, I remind them that she let me buttfuck her or cum in her hair, or let me shoot my load on her wedding ring, and then I ask him if his wife is still sleeping in the guest room.
Keep up that body work, as others mentioned. You don't have to look ripped like a muscleman, that usually scares off all but the top high maintenance chicks anyway. But you have to look like a dude that a female would get wet over, at a club or bar. If you're like skin and bones and your wrists are the size of hers, good luck. If your chest is flat and they can see your clavicle, no way. Chicks, at least ones your age who you may meet at a bar or club, have body image in mind of a guy with a good strong body. Work out, keep it up, make those gains.
Grandfather told me many years ago, relating fishing to fucking. If you fish, and have one rod and put one rod in lake, can wait all day to get a fish. If you have twenty rods, and put all twenty into three different lakes and rivers, can eat fish until you choke to death. As I mentioned above, don't be afraid to get rejected. Ask EVERY girl, as long as you aren't harrassing them or doing creepy shit.
Chat them up, ask them about things chicks like to talk about. They love to bitch about their coworkers, or friends, or whoever is a bitch in their mind; you listen to them, ask them about those bitches, and after every sentence, say things like "that fucking bitch", or "holy shit did you slap her", or whatever she might like you to say. Don't be a simp, but chicks get all wet when dudes ask them about themselves and then let them talk, and the dudes reply in agreement but don't attempt to fix it.
Go out with Chad from your work, wing man can always get the friend. And if you are any kind of student, you will see how does he do it.
Last, as other said, please try and exhaust all possible ways to win the game yourself, on your own, rather than peeking at the answer in the back of the book. Mongering is addictive. I used to do it 20 years ago, and was able to stop, mostly because of going to the war, but here I am now, right back to it, and totally addicted. And I have no problem whatsoever picking up ladies. I'm just so addicted to the hobby, I wish I had never gotten back to it. There's just something about ladies that literally don't say no to anything, or at least the game of knowing that there is a very good chance that this woman will let you do anything to her.
Things like, look forward to rejection, take it like a man and learn from each one, and build on your game.
Set goals in a reasonable way. If you are a 21 year old virgin, and have no chatting game or make out game, you are like 5 years behind the alphas, and you ought to settle for say 6's and 7's, or 5's, the friends of the chicks you are currently trying to get and failing. I am getting on to 50 now, and I am proud to recount the number of 5's 6's and 7's I excitingly let take me to their home, never be ashamed, never set goal so high you can't get it. Plus, practicing on girls who may be as unconfident as you are will surely give you game. If one of my pals sees a picture of a mommy I took out last week, and says something stupid about her beung a little curvy or chubby, or having a weird face or something, I remind them that she let me buttfuck her or cum in her hair, or let me shoot my load on her wedding ring, and then I ask him if his wife is still sleeping in the guest room.
Keep up that body work, as others mentioned. You don't have to look ripped like a muscleman, that usually scares off all but the top high maintenance chicks anyway. But you have to look like a dude that a female would get wet over, at a club or bar. If you're like skin and bones and your wrists are the size of hers, good luck. If your chest is flat and they can see your clavicle, no way. Chicks, at least ones your age who you may meet at a bar or club, have body image in mind of a guy with a good strong body. Work out, keep it up, make those gains.
Grandfather told me many years ago, relating fishing to fucking. If you fish, and have one rod and put one rod in lake, can wait all day to get a fish. If you have twenty rods, and put all twenty into three different lakes and rivers, can eat fish until you choke to death. As I mentioned above, don't be afraid to get rejected. Ask EVERY girl, as long as you aren't harrassing them or doing creepy shit.
Chat them up, ask them about things chicks like to talk about. They love to bitch about their coworkers, or friends, or whoever is a bitch in their mind; you listen to them, ask them about those bitches, and after every sentence, say things like "that fucking bitch", or "holy shit did you slap her", or whatever she might like you to say. Don't be a simp, but chicks get all wet when dudes ask them about themselves and then let them talk, and the dudes reply in agreement but don't attempt to fix it.
Go out with Chad from your work, wing man can always get the friend. And if you are any kind of student, you will see how does he do it.
Last, as other said, please try and exhaust all possible ways to win the game yourself, on your own, rather than peeking at the answer in the back of the book. Mongering is addictive. I used to do it 20 years ago, and was able to stop, mostly because of going to the war, but here I am now, right back to it, and totally addicted. And I have no problem whatsoever picking up ladies. I'm just so addicted to the hobby, I wish I had never gotten back to it. There's just something about ladies that literally don't say no to anything, or at least the game of knowing that there is a very good chance that this woman will let you do anything to her.
Escort will not give you the right confidence you can learn a few things from it but its not real its to easy. Nothing good in life is easy once you start setting up those dates and getting laid that's a real confidence because if you do it once you will do it again. Think about it once you get laid from a escort and see how easy it is why would you even want to talk to regular chicks if you know you can get it easy it will mess you up. Your almost there your working out, getting numbers your this close from a lay. Keep self improving find some guys that get laid regularly and hang out with them go out with them once or twice a week it will take a while but it will happen. This hobby is an addiction/battle and losing your virginity this way will wreck you. Good luck.