About 2 to 2 1/2 years ago while on SH, a SO sent me a PM, without going into the whole long story, she found out of her husband’s spa visits, he promised to stop, he lied, started back up, she wanted to know why he made visits to “Asian women”.
She provided her personal email and phone number, I entered her number on Facebook, got a look at her and as she described herself, she like many others weren’t aware by entering a phone number you could find someone, she was was afraid of getting divorced, was still in love, she wasn’t or isn’t the only spouse aware of AMP sites. I shared my experience with a couple trusted SH friends, mainly for an opinion, I just didn’t reveal who she or her monger husband was, I gave my word. You may have gotten by, you just haven’t gotten away with it, as the saying goes.