Legit Massage That Crosses Boundaries

[Adventuring2021]

I live for these experiences. My reviews explore and harvest these experiences. A veteran once encouraged me to be persistent, a few tips and direction and this has become my game.

Since then, I have had bJs at three fully legit spots in nj/ny. And hot, groping sessions, numbers exchanged. It’s a wonderful facet of the hobby. Like gfs without the commitment.

Bjs are VERY few and far between, and blue balls def part of the game, but I see it as energy. Pure red wing verve.

Loyalty pays off. Good tipping pays off. Gentleman habits pay off. Compliments pay off. And most importantly, a strong massage hand pays off.

8/10 girls will recoil. They are trying to do their job and get you gone.

2/10 melt. They are hard working and desire the attention.

takes an investment, but those bjs were awesome.

No kiss and tell.

Excellent advice. Thank you. The BBBJ is something I have yet to achieve.... But now I have something to aspire to. I have made out and had a hot session kissing while she finished me. Raising my head to see her leaning over, only 2-3 inches from my face to whisper a question about the massage was unexpected and hot -- it was impossible not to kiss her, and then make out.

I have learned to embrace and enjoy the anticipation and possibilities of what might happen in these places. It comes down to all that you wrote -- being a gentleman, tipping, consistency - a little bit of chemistry or attraction, and some good luck (is the boss gone that day?).

 

[Adventuring2021]

Not finding a listing online. Does anyone have the URL or phone? Location??

I am not a member, but Rubmaps is probably the best resource.

 

[Nycrva]

I live for these experiences. My reviews explore and harvest these experiences. A veteran once encouraged me to be persistent, a few tips and direction and this has become my game.

Since then, I have had bJs at three fully legit spots in nj/ny. And hot, groping sessions, numbers exchanged. It’s a wonderful facet of the hobby. Like gfs without the commitment.

Bjs are VERY few and far between, and blue balls def part of the game, but I see it as energy. Pure red wing verve.

Loyalty pays off. Good tipping pays off. Gentleman habits pay off. Compliments pay off. And most importantly, a strong massage hand pays off.

8/10 girls will recoil. They are trying to do their job and get you gone.

2/10 melt. They are hard working and desire the attention.

takes an investment, but those bjs were awesome.

No kiss and tell.

Any chance you have recommendations of legit places in the city with hot girls as the masseuses? Would like to try this haha

 

[이 회장님]

At a legit place, my main goal is to do DFK.

I lay naked. The girl will put a cloth or towel or whatever you call it over me. I will do small talk such as “Nice to meet you.”, “What is your name?”, “Where are you from?”, “I love hot pot.”, etc and say a few nice things in Chinese to help break the ice.

Ten mins later, I’ll play dumb and tell her that it’s too hot so I like the towel removed from me. If she removes it, then it’s a good sign.

20 minutes later, I’ll tell her to lay down and I’ll give her a massage. The girls will enjoy it. I’ll say, “Don’t worry just masageee.” or “Only for you.” If they laugh, then that’s another good sign.

Once I see that the girl is very comfortable, I will slowly remove her pants or yoga pants. If she has a thong on, then I know she’s open minded. I’ll massage and kiss her butt cheeks. Some of them will get aroused and start moving their ass up and down.

Once they get up, I’ll LFK with them which always leads to DFK.

Of course it’s hit or miss but I enjoy the hunt and the challenge.

 

[sxpm]

At a legit place, my main goal is to do DFK.

I lay naked. The girl will put a cloth or towel or whatever you call it over me. I will do small talk such as “Nice to meet you.”, “What is your name?”, “Where are you from?”, “I love hot pot.”, etc and say a few nice things in Chinese to help break the ice.

Ten mins later, I’ll play dumb and tell her that it’s too hot so I like the towel removed from me. If she removes it, then it’s a good sign.

20 minutes later, I’ll tell her to lay down and I’ll give her a massage. The girls will enjoy it. I’ll say, “Don’t worry just masageee.” or “Only for you.” If they laugh, then that’s another good sign.

Once I see that the girl is very comfortable, I will slowly remove her pants or yoga pants. If she has a thong on, then I know she’s open minded. I’ll massage and kiss her butt cheeks. Some of them will get aroused and start moving their ass up and down.

Once they get up, I’ll LFK with them which always leads to DFK.

Of course it’s hit or miss but I enjoy the hunt and the challenge.

How many hits?

 

[Adventuring2021]

At a legit place, my main goal is to do DFK.

I lay naked. The girl will put a cloth or towel or whatever you call it over me. I will do small talk such as “Nice to meet you.”, “What is your name?”, “Where are you from?”, “I love hot pot.”, etc and say a few nice things in Chinese to help break the ice.

Ten mins later, I’ll play dumb and tell her that it’s too hot so I like the towel removed from me. If she removes it, then it’s a good sign.

20 minutes later, I’ll tell her to lay down and I’ll give her a massage. The girls will enjoy it. I’ll say, “Don’t worry just masageee.” or “Only for you.” If they laugh, then that’s another good sign.

Once I see that the girl is very comfortable, I will slowly remove her pants or yoga pants. If she has a thong on, then I know she’s open minded. I’ll massage and kiss her butt cheeks. Some of them will get aroused and start moving their ass up and down.

Once they get up, I’ll LFK with them which always leads to DFK.

Of course it’s hit or miss but I enjoy the hunt and the challenge.

Well, I don't know about anyone else but I'm fully erect, lmao.

Getting BBBJs and massaging the girl semi-naked has not happened.... Yet. But I am learning here.

 

[이 회장님]

Well, I don't know about anyone else but I'm fully erect, lmao.

Getting BBBJs and massaging the girl semi-naked has not happened.... Yet. But I am learning here.

Better odds of getting extras if you’re at the very end (away from the others) and not next to each other because then you can hear each other.

For example at Good Luck Spa in Bayside, I do not go to any of the three rooms you see on the left because they are all next to each other (lack of privacy). I’ll go to the room at the very end (straight ahead). You have more privacy.

I also refuse the lady at the counter who answers the phone. The last thing I want is her answering the phone while I’m pulling down her pants. lol

 

[이 회장님]

How many hits?

At a legit place, one out of three times I’ll get DFK.

At a HE place, two out of three times, I’ll get DFK.

 

[Verantz]

There's a time and place for it. I know this website is for HE and FS experiences, and that's all good. I like that as well, but some guys may not want to deal with the shame and guilt they feel if they are married or have a gf, or they may be on a budget, or may actually want a legit massage with some light teasing -- and there's no reason to worry about being raided, etc. I try not to judge. To each his own.

THIS. I have a wife who has acknowledged that a manual HE can make sense as an extension of a regular massage. But I know that a general acknowledgment is not an endorsement for me specifically to regularly partake. And of course what’s funny (and sometimes a little frustrating) is that some of these middle-aged massage ladies are more likely to feel comfortable with casually getting handsy with the middle-aged easygoing married version of me than with the younger and single version with desperation and blue balls. If I didn’t care or if I felt full permission, it would be rather awesome. But the shame and guilt factor is real, and it SUCKS.

However, some nice teasing within bounds on top of a good legit and therapeutic massage? Perfect.

 

[Jefjet]

In recent weeks I have gone for legit massage at decent asian places that don't have a reputation or reviews for HE, but in both cases it progressed there and was still a lot of fun w/o the HE finish. Call it blue balls but it was nice to get a quality 60 min massage from a young asian woman that included deep tissue /strong massage and also a light, sensual teasing. In one case, she had very short cut-off Jean shorts and I was sliding my fingers up under her shorts and feeling her panties and even close to what I really wanted before she pulled away, and later, playfully climbed on top to straddle my face as she was massaging my chest and belly.

No words were spoken outside of a smile here and there to acknowledge that it was okay. Also, these were two different massage places that I walked into. I later researched and they have no reviews on Rubmaps or anywhere else.

It's made me realize that the tease is just as much fun, especially when you walk away feeling like you had a great massage also. And my wandering hands were welcomed (or at least tolerated) in both cases.

Where is this? Thanks!

 

[Happymassage1999]

Also sent a note! Asking for a friend.

Lol. Send me please

 

[sxpm]

AMP HOUSE FORUM

I’m traveling without family. Caring for elders. Took a break for a much needed legit massage. Found a clean legit spot. Full rooms. Paid $80, lady is alone. Good pressure. Starts asking questions. Keeps asking. Too many questions. I just want a massage. 5 mins in she starts funny business. Sigh. Really? Session turns weird. Someone enters lobby and she darts out. He didn’t speak English. Takes him to a room and then she tells me, “I’ll just be about 5 mins”. I took that as an opportunity to dodge a bullet. She was a bit of a troll after all. Asked for $40 back and got dressed. She: “but I’ll fuck you!!” Gross. Took the money and ran.

Went to a more seedy place. Now that I’m torqued up, why not? Dinky place but SUPER CUTE sexy girl. Check this, I lay down, she massages my right ankle with one finger for 30-seconds and says so watchu want? I said, a massage!!! She was so sexy but not trying. Just like you know oh my gawd. Gag me with a spoon. She lifted her top and pulled down her pants with the passion of a recital exam. Started blowing me with condom. Teeth. No technique. No response. Guys keep entering. Bell keeps chiming. Pulls her clothes together. Leaves. Come back. Lifts shirt. Drops trou. Then door rang for the 4th time and I got dressed. Demanded $40 back.

This time went to a for for sure legit spot. Old ladies getting foot rubs. 45-year-old man behind counter. Phew!! Next to a bank. Stretch pants. Finally. And I proceed to get an AWESOME massage. Really worked the travel outta me. I turn over and she massages my face. Then chest. Then oils her self up, pulls down the sheet says sshh and - dude - I have never ever EVER had a hand job like that. Probably what Tina up north in NJ is like. Fuck. I hit the ceiling with my jam. Sorry. But it’s true.

 

[solomon_456]

AMP HOUSE FORUM

I’m traveling without family. Caring for elders. Took a break for a much needed legit massage. Found a clean legit spot. Full rooms. Paid $80, lady is alone. Good pressure. Starts asking questions. Keeps asking. Too many questions. I just want a massage. 5 mins in she starts funny business. Sigh. Really? Session turns weird. Someone enters lobby and she darts out. He didn’t speak English. Takes him to a room and then she tells me, “I’ll just be about 5 mins”. I took that as an opportunity to dodge a bullet. She was a bit of a troll after all. Asked for $40 back and got dressed. She: “but I’ll fuck you!!” Gross. Took the money and ran.

Went to a more seedy place. Now that I’m torqued up, why not? Dinky place but SUPER CUTE sexy girl. Check this, I lay down, she massages my right ankle with one finger for 30-seconds and says so watchu want? I said, a massage!!! She was so sexy but not trying. Just like you know oh my gawd. Gag me with a spoon. She lifted her top and pulled down her pants with the passion of a recital exam. Started blowing me with condom. Teeth. No technique. No response. Guys keep entering. Bell keeps chiming. Pulls her clothes together. Leaves. Come back. Lifts shirt. Drops trou. Then door rang for the 4th time and I got dressed. Demanded $40 back.

This time went to a for for sure legit spot. Old ladies getting foot rubs. 45-year-old man behind counter. Phew!! Next to a bank. Stretch pants. Finally. And I proceed to get an AWESOME massage. Really worked the travel outta me. I turn over and she massages my face. Then chest. Then oils her self up, pulls down the sheet says sshh and - dude - I have never ever EVER had a hand job like that. Probably what Tina up north in NJ is like. Fuck. I hit the ceiling with my jam. Sorry. But it’s true.

Now that’s what you can really call a happy ending

 

[Black_equus]

If you spend enough time in the game, you realize that pretty much every therapist has worked at a happy ending spot at some time in their career.

So even at legit spas, HE's are available under the right conditions.

The house sets the rules determining what and what isn't allowed. But the girls decide what they can and can't get away with.

So if you do happen to flip a girl at a legit location, the quickest way to get her fired is by sending a stream of horny guys to that location asking for "Lisa" or whatever her name is.

Mamasan knows what's up.

 

[Adventuring2021]

If you spend enough time in the game, you realize that pretty much every therapist has worked at a happy ending spot at some time in their career.

So even at legit spas, HE's are available under the right conditions.

The house sets the rules determining what and what isn't allowed. But the girls decide what they can and can't get away with.

So if you do happen to flip a girl at a legit location, the quickest way to get her fired is by sending a stream of horny guys to that location asking for "Lisa" or whatever her name is.

Mamasan knows what's up.

I agree. I also think the "legit" massage places have secret code... like, I've met about 25 women named "Coco". And recently, while at a place that NEVER offered HE and even discouraged me touching their leg (I always went for a deep/strong massage), I got a new masseuse and she gave an incredible teasing, light prostate teasing, and HE. When I asked her name, she looked at me, paused (I could tell she was inventing a new name), and said "--------" .

I'm realizing that the lines are far more blurred than I ever realized.

 

[roo22]

Any tips on finding legit places with decent looking girls, preferably under 40s. Any legit place I have gone to is usually asian grannies.

 

[sxpm]

Any tips on finding legit places with decent looking girls, preferably under 40s. Any legit place I have gone to is usually asian grannies.

Yeah. It’s tough, but you can try joining some kind of online forum dedicated to reviewing these types of places. You can find all sorts of information about providers and spas and everything associated with the hobby. There’s one in particular you should check out. I can’t recall the name. Try using the search engine above and type in “AM Previews”.

 

[newish]

Are the “legit” places where extras can be found the likes of places like bliss or massage envy, or are we talking mostly about tui-na store fronts?

 

[maximus799]

This is pretty much how I got into mongering. Used to go to a Thai massage place with my girlfriend at the time (now ex) for couple massages. As many of you know, Thai massages incorporate a lot of stretches. Ended up going alone one time, and had a very attractive masseuse. During the stretching portion, we'd end up very close, legs locked, and led to more almost-teasing. Got hard, I'm sure she noticed, and I ended up asking for a time extension. Nothing ever came of it, I don't think we even exchanged more than a few words, but it was a wrap for me. Started going to other massage places, found rubmaps, and worked my way up the chain to FS. Even now there's a certain thrill to finding an especially attractive legit masseuse and seeing how much I can get. It's an expensive experiment though that usually ends up in blue balls.

 

[Adventuring2021]

Are the “legit” places where extras can be found the likes of places like bliss or massage envy, or are we talking mostly about tui-na store fronts?

I have not personally tried those higher end "franchises". I would never expect this at, say, Equinox. The ones I have been referring to are small, family run places that don't have any reviews or reputation for HE. Those do exist but as shared above, but it seems clear that the boundaries get blurred -- and, most importantly, these are not attractive young massage girls. That just isn't who they are or what they do, cause sex is not their main focus.