What a sad, pitiful dude you are. You just basically said you want to pay to treat them like shit but that they should like it. Guess what bozo, that's actually not their job. Their job is actually whatever the fuck they define it as, and if you don't like it, take your money elsewhere. I've seen a couple girls at elite that gave excellent service with no negotation or upsell. I bet you're the same kinda guy that goes to a bar or restaurant, acts like a jerk, doesn't tip, and says "it's their job to serve me." Pretty bad when you're the most jaded dude on a board like this.