Keeping a Good Thing to Myself...

[Daphatman]

I would love some feedback!

I am a "strictly legit" massage type of guy, but I love having a good relationship with my provider. And I've made some interesting connections and friendships with a few workers, to the point where they feel comfortable talking to me about pretty much everything.

What I've concluded, even for many of the so-called legit places, for regular or long-term customers, services are available! DIY, Happy Endings, a bit of OTC and some UTC roaming! All this happens with the utmost discretion! Some guys even bring their wives! She is getting a massage in one room while he is getting "serviced" in the room next door! And there have been a few occassions, based upon what I've heard from some girls, is that discrete full sex happens! As one girl put it, it is not just the money, sometimes I'm bored!

Here's the thing... You guys receiving these services keep it yourselves! Yes? No?

I know someone who made the mistake of dating and falling in love with a worker who he thought was a "legit" service provider only, only to discover that this "exception" applies to her as well! I've met so-called legit workers who were married to former customers, and still doing stuff discretely with other customers! I even know one situation where the worker's relatives work in the same store, and they are all convinced nothing happens, even though this worker has told me a lot of things that did happen!

No details, but I would love to know if you all find this to be true! How many of you "legit" massage seekers are getting discrete services, and keeping a good thing to yourself (and BTW, if she is doing you, you are not the only one!)

 

[codev]

Well consider how many reviews you see of “legit” providers that provide extra you see on this site. I’m sure many that receive that sort of service are aware of the need to be discreet

To be clear, you’re speaking about Hand and Stone, Massage Envy type of legit establishments?

 

[stinkweed56]

If you find a beautiful quiet fishing place with lots of fish, you tell all your friends and next time you go its littered with people and all the fish are gone.

I have had MANY UTR situations, I ALWAYS keep it to myself

 

[dynamohum]

Not unlike stores that are known entities, YMMV is even more relevant at legit and/or UTRs…chemistry, connection, happenstance, discretion and more are all part and parcel to special outcomes of varying degrees.

 

[MikePapa]

I had a potential situation years ago. I got frisky and was feeling up her legs, but then I got freaked out and worried about her telling her boss who would then call the police, too much to lose… I always got good vibes from her, but was afraid to take it to the next step.

 

[Daphatman]

Well consider how many reviews you see of “legit” providers that provide extra you see on this site. I’m sure many that receive that sort of service are aware of the need to be discreet

To be clear, you’re speaking about Hand and Stone, Massage Envy type of legit establishments?

Actually, still talking AMPS.

 

[codev]

Actually, still talking AMPS.

In that case the point still stands lol. I feel like I’m those type of situations where one has shared the info it ends up in the girl leaving that location for some reason or another and ruins it for everybody. I can think of a recent similar situation of info shared through PMs on this board.

 

[Daphatman]

If you find a beautiful quiet fishing place with lots of fish, you tell all your friends and next time you go its littered with people and all the fish are gone.

I have had MANY UTR situations, I ALWAYS keep it to myself

By the number of likes your post got, I think the point is a lot of guys are fooling themselves thinking UTR is really UTR. A few times I've found a girl who gives a great massage, which is what I want, only to discover later her soft hands have been places I don't want to think about!!! It's also a little embarrassing when you get those looks from her other customers and the girls as you leave!!! Lol. There really are no secrets and none of us customers are so privileged to be the only one!

 

[dynamohum]

And you can respectfully speak for yourselves!

 

[markkennedy]

Grandfather always said, if you fish with one line, you may eat today or you may starve, but if you put in 1000 lines, well, you never go hungry a day in your life! I BFE mostly every female I ever meet, and that includes at Hand and Stone. There are SO MANY of these places where you can put your big boy YMMV pants on and have a good time, but there is SO MUCH risk of course. Licensed massage therapists will defend their license and their profession in a way that is similar you what happens when you are hunting and accidentally break line of sight between a mother bear and the baby she just bore last week. If you have game, it's not that difficult to get a handjob at every spa that exists. And of course, gentlemen who enjoy extras always keep to themselves. Have to understand and have correct mentality, that it's entirely possible and or likely that despite what she says or what you think, you are not the only one.

 

[Rustyshackleford]

By the number of likes your post got, I think the point is a lot of guys are fooling themselves thinking UTR is really UTR. A few times I've found a girl who gives a great massage, which is what I want, only to discover later her soft hands have been places I don't want to think about!!! It's also a little embarrassing when you get those looks from her other customers and the girls as you leave!!! Lol. There really are no secrets and none of us customers are so privileged to be the only one!

Every adult woman in the world has had their hands in places you don’t want to think about at one time or another.

 

[Upanddown]

Daphatman: My personal 2 cents on this is as follows: I've know many Married Women who service Married Men. I've also known many Single Women who service Married Men. And knowing them closely like you say you do, ( I actually believe you! ) and knowing what they tell you about that "no one" else knows actually does feel like you have a sort of "one-up" on the rest of the mongers doesn't it? ( I'm not belittling anyone here, It's just the best analogy I could come up with!) I also like you.... have some of those same relationships and connections to the point that I actually see my "friends" without even asking for or getting a massage or service of any sort. I know many married women who have told me that if their husband knew what they did it would be tragic. And of course If anyone's significant other were to find out about us/we who partake in this hobby, we might have our own tragedies! Here's my actual 2 cents: Be Comfortable in the shoes that you wear. I'm a little older and when I was young my dad would say "you made your bed and now you have to lie in it". Personally my shoes are comfortable and I sleep very well. Discretion is exactly what it means isn't it?

 

[Nuttingham Palace]

Grandfather always said, if you fish with one line, you may eat today or you may starve, but if you put in 1000 lines, well, you never go hungry a day in your life! I BFE mostly every female I ever meet, and that includes at Hand and Stone. There are SO MANY of these places where you can put your big boy YMMV pants on and have a good time, but there is SO MUCH risk of course. Licensed massage therapists will defend their license and their profession in a way that is similar you what happens when you are hunting and accidentally break line of sight between a mother bear and the baby she just bore last week. If you have game, it's not that difficult to get a handjob at every spa that exists. And of course, gentlemen who enjoy extras always keep to themselves. Have to understand and have correct mentality, that it's entirely possible and or likely that despite what she says or what you think, you are not the only one.

Sounds like gramps had quite the fishing pole collection and the bear analogy to boot!

 

[Johnnylovesmassages]

I would love some feedback!

I am a "strictly legit" massage type of guy, but I love having a good relationship with my provider. And I've made some interesting connections and friendships with a few workers, to the point where they feel comfortable talking to me about pretty much everything.

What I've concluded, even for many of the so-called legit places, for regular or long-term customers, services are available! DIY, Happy Endings, a bit of OTC and some UTC roaming! All this happens with the utmost discretion! Some guys even bring their wives! She is getting a massage in one room while he is getting "serviced" in the room next door! And there have been a few occassions, based upon what I've heard from some girls, is that discrete full sex happens! As one girl put it, it is not just the money, sometimes I'm bored!

Here's the thing... You guys receiving these services keep it yourselves! Yes? No?

I know someone who made the mistake of dating and falling in love with a worker who he thought was a "legit" service provider only, only to discover that this "exception" applies to her as well! I've met so-called legit workers who were married to former customers, and still doing stuff discretely with other customers! I even know one situation where the worker's relatives work in the same store, and they are all convinced nothing happens, even though this worker has told me a lot of things that did happen!

No details, but I would love to know if you all find this to be true! How many of you "legit" massage seekers are getting discrete services, and keeping a good thing to yourself (and BTW, if she is doing you, you are not the only one!)

I have had a few Larry David moments where the therapist just decides to "finish me off"

 

[petemoss]

A few years back there was a papi called Danny. I have been his customer for many years. I've seen all the girls and never asked for anything other than covered fs. One day I bumped into one of dannys girls at another spa and she told me all the girls were doing bbfs. LOL, I was young and naive and didn't think that was going on.