going to amps IS addicting. No question about it. If it was free I would probably go a few times a week for a good massage and a non FS experience. But spending $500 or so for multiple visits per week would not go unnoticed. Not getting caught by the SO is the best deterrent there is IMO. I know a number of people in recovery from substance use (alcohol and drugs) and they tell me it is a daily struggle for them. I get it. I have some "free time" where I can get away and about $150 in my pocked and the urge is very strong. I delay that urge with online porn and that keeps it in check for a bit.