what about if you are 64, have 1.4 million in assets (not including a home) and hit this place on your way home from the beach still wearing your bathing suit, have sand on your feet and have a scent of sun tan lotion? Basically presenting the "this is me, not pretending to be anyone but myself" look? Isn't that more real that dressed up with hair slicked back, a real or not real rolex, and a wad of cash that doesn't mean much?