Indie verification process getting intrusive?

[nyctech]

This is an indie, new to tryst, no reviews that I can find, donation well above what i can type easily here and still count. Sorry if it's off the AMP topic, but for those that like the indie variety as well, this seems crazy. And donation.

Deposits
When you email or text, please introduce yourself properly with the following: Name, preferred date & time, duration, 2 references/verification methods below.
For my safety,screening is REQUIRED for all new acquaintances.
Verification Methods Examples: - 2 well reviewed provider references (Name, email, website) - A Selfie w/ photo ID and health insurance card - A Selfie holding Passport - Pic of logged-in LinkedIn Acct.(min 400+ connections) - Active Social Media Acct. - A selfie w/ todays date -A simple “Hello” email from your work email Minimum of 2 verification method
Screening is required prior to arrangement.
$200 deposit is also mandatory (in which goes towards donation)

 

[Mrfreeze]

So many red flags….
Way too much info than what I like to provide
Hard pass for me

 

[Pop_pop]

Never ever give out personal info, so many of them are mentally and emotionally unstable, look at how they post ppls info on Twitter b/c he said an incorrect word

 

[Cholo54]

we need to establish a REVERSE criteria for providers . lol.

1. must have internet presence of at least a year.
2. must have 10 reviews on trusted websites....no erotic monkey.
3.must have 90 % approval rating.
4.must be known to repsond to emails/texts in a timely manner.
5.must match pictures in appearance and age.

 

[Pop_pop]

we need to establish a REVERSE criteria for providers . lol.

1. must have internet presence of at least a year.
2. must have 10 reviews on trusted websites....no erotic monkey.
3.must have 90 % approval rating.
4.must be known to repsond to emails/texts in a timely manner.
5.must match pictures in appearance and age.

Well we have review boards for that if we go to an unreviewed one and we fall for their crap it’s on us

 

[Mrfreeze]

There is also sometimes a “no internet phone number” request too.

I also find it hard locating decent providers these days at a reasonable cost for the type of service but such is life. Just wish there were more to hunt for I guess.

 

[nyctech]

we need to establish a REVERSE criteria for providers . lol.

1. must have internet presence of at least a year.
2. must have 10 reviews on trusted websites....no erotic monkey.
3.must have 90 % approval rating.
4.must be known to repsond to emails/texts in a timely manner.
5.must match pictures in appearance and age.

Maybe I;ll send that list of questions to her. I suspect I'd get zero response.

 

[mikeykun34]

whoever gives this info out is down horrendous

 

[Bakr]

It’s beyond intrusive as the provider will never share that same info she requires of us. I recently reached out to a provider on P411 and I received an email from her asking for my given name with work verification and/or LinkedIn. I politely declined and gave her my reasons. Which she responded that she would erase any info after she reviewed it. Never, ever happening. I don’t give out my personal cell. I use a burner and texting apps. Foolish is the person who gives out that info.

 

[jtuck]

You guys would be horrified at the shit they say on the sexworker subreddit. It's a circlejerk where they all encourage each other to get progressively more intrusive and unreasonable. Most all of them push to require deposits for example. I got a throwaway account banned for suggesting the majority of providers there were being unrealistic for requiring deposits.

 

[whtwrth]

The passport pic is a new one and totally unreasonable. Also a lot of people (especially 50's+) will not have very active social media or linkedin accounts. I have 200 linkedin connections and it feels like a lot.

 

[bertie123]

she's either bellucci-level
or don't give a shit if you decide to pass

imo, it's always a buyers market

 

[Ankle_Socks]

This is an indie, new to tryst, no reviews that I can find, donation well above what i can type easily here and still count. Sorry if it's off the AMP topic, but for those that like the indie variety as well, this seems crazy. And donation.

Deposits
When you email or text, please introduce yourself properly with the following: Name, preferred date & time, duration, 2 references/verification methods below.
For my safety,screening is REQUIRED for all new acquaintances.
Verification Methods Examples: - 2 well reviewed provider references (Name, email, website) - A Selfie w/ photo ID and health insurance card - A Selfie holding Passport - Pic of logged-in LinkedIn Acct.(min 400+ connections) - Active Social Media Acct. - A selfie w/ todays date -A simple “Hello” email from your work email Minimum of 2 verification method
Screening is required prior to arrangement.
$200 deposit is also mandatory (in which goes towards donation)

If your really stupid do it.....then again the fact that you even asked.....

 

[hohohokus]

one of the reasons SA is good, you don't need to give much info. meet once for coffee, meet next time at a hotel to fuck. just make sure your name isn't on the tv (or if it is, hide the remote).

 

[nyctech]

If your really stupid do it.....then again the fact that you even asked.....

Nice response, read the post closer. I wasn’t asking “hey should I do this”. I was posting a frustration over the type of info we re being increasing asked for, as well as higher and higher donations.

 

[Ankle_Socks]

Nice response, read the post closer. I wasn’t asking “hey should I do this”. I was posting a frustration over the type of info we re being increasing asked for, as well as higher and higher donations.

Once you saw that you should have just skipped, clearly it is a scam, you didn't have to get to the deposit part to realize that

 

[bertie123]

Nice response, read the post closer. I wasn’t asking “hey should I do this”. I was posting a frustration over the type of info we re being increasing asked for, as well as higher and higher donations.

not trying to start up something but i have to agree with ankle socks. why even waste your time or give it 1 iota of your time. my immediate response to these info requests is "fuck you, you aint getting shit from me". she's self imposed a screen. it's frankly her business and IMMEDIATELY not mine

 

[Defyeler]

The only ones I will consider are the ones who will meet you in person. I've had two meet me in person. One works in the 50s in Manhattan, the other travels across the US.

I've only been served by the one in the 50s. The one that travels is crazy high-end, and we only had coffee when we met up. She called me back this past Monday saying she's coming back to NY next Friday. I quit mongering (it's been over 2 months now), so I don't think I'm going to.

I may or may not get back into it during the wintertime, but the summer civvie scene has been great for me.

 

[Zuckerman]

If Olivia Wilde herself offered to fuck me in exchange for my ID, I would tell her to get lost.

Well, maybe in that case I would go get a fake ID made.

 

[hostilearchitecture]

If Olivia Wilde herself offered to fuck me in exchange for my ID, I would tell her to get lost.

Well, maybe in that case I would go get a fake ID made.

Yeah, there's no reason not to pass fake verification info to providers. I've never given one any truly identifying information, and you can ship a SIM card to any old abandoned house and register it from public Wi-fi with any info. Nobody's checking.