I work at an Asian Spa (Ask me anything)

[BBC_for_your_wife]

Hi, I just signed up for this site, but have be a visitor for 3+ years.

Spas know about review sites (some more than others). So now's your chance to know about them . But keep in mind, all spas are not equal and are run very differently (so if I say something that contradicts what you are familiar with, keep that in mind).

I'm not Asian, I'm a Black guy (I workout, and security is my primary duty...). But everyone else in the spa is Asian, and they barely speak any English. I won't name the spa, but it's in Queens.

 

[kenan]

Thanks for this!
If you know, generally, how/why do the girls start? And what are some of the main reasons they leave/move from the spa?

 

[Mickyblue]

Do you get discount sessions?

 

[BBC_for_your_wife]

Thanks for this!
If you know, generally, how/why do the girls start? And what are some of the main reasons they leave/move from the spa?

From the girls that I spoke to, they usually start because they don't speak much English, so job opportunities are very limited for them. Others, it's just the easy way to make money.

Although I meet girl who arrived in the US for 3 days, her English was very good. She claimed she never did this before, but came from Dubai. I suspect she was lying and was working there. However, she says it was 3 years since she banged anyone (I kind of believe there, because when I banged her she was kind of rusty), and she was very clueless as to what to do. She was very defiant with the guys, and quit after 3 days.

They usually leave because they get bored working the same place, I want more money (thinking the grass is greener on the other side), don't like her the owners/other girls (typical girl drama), got married, got a regular job, don't like doing this work anymore, went back to their country, etc...

 

[Cholo54]

whats the best way to build a repore with a working girl?
is morning really the best time to go?

 

[BBC_for_your_wife]

Do you get discount sessions?

Yes. Free, depending on who it's with (with the owners). Or just a discount: no house fee, and I pay about 50% - 80% of the tip (usually only about 80% off, but it depends on the girl and how I get along with her).

 

[Pop_pop]

What’s the pay structure, do they really get so little (or nothing) of the house fee?

 

[Mickyblue]

Yes. Free, depending on who it's with (with the owners). Or just a discount: no house fee, and I pay about 50% - 80% of the tip (usually only about 80% off, but it depends on the girl and how I get along with her).

Wow. Awesome. Can’t imagine how often you get it in with that kind of discount!

 

[BBC_for_your_wife]

whats the best way to build a repore with a working girl?
is morning really the best time to go?

This is highly dependent on the girl's personality, and how much game you you have. Some are open to building a relationship with you, other girls don't want any part of it.

Before working here, I was able to get some girls to bang for free. She was a very young spa owner and she invited me to her new apartment. When we were done, she wouldn't accept the money. She did this quite a few times. I was able to pull this off because I saw her weekly (she only "worked" when she didn't have girls, but she would always accept me), and I was hitting it right. Hitting it right, is easier said than done, especially when they've seen it all...

For the best time, usually in the morning when they first open up, or just before the official opening time.

If it's a 24-hour spa, the time doesn't matter, girls are always banging. Guys always show up at 4am or so, thinking that no one else has that idea. When the girl bangs at those late hours, she may look like she just woke up, but it's just from a cat-nap. They wake up, bang, then go back to sleep, repeat... And obviously when they say it's not busy, it's to make you feel better.

 

[BBC_for_your_wife]

What’s the pay structure, do they really get so little (or nothing) of the house fee?

The spot that I work at, the house fee really goes go to the house. The girl don't get any of it, they only keep their tips. But if you bang an owner, she's double dipping...

 

[BBC_for_your_wife]

Wow. Awesome. Can’t imagine how often you get it in with that kind of discount!

Just to clarify, when I bang the owners, I will occasionally pay them (at a discounted rate). And when I'm at home, the owners occasionally call me in, specifically just to bang them.

 

[Pop_pop]

Just to clarify, when I bang the owners, I will occasionally pay them (at a discounted rate). And when I'm at home, the owners occasionally call me in, specifically just to bang them.

So the claim that “you’re too big” is a lie?

 

[BBC_for_your_wife]

So the claim that “you’re too big” is a lie?

It's usually a lie. Basically, if she lets you keep going, you're probably not too big for her.

But some will go through with it, even if it's painful, you can see the pain on their face. Sometimes it's not the tightness, sometimes you're going to deep, hitting their cervix or just making them feel uncomfortable deep inside (where most guys can reach).

Sometimes for blowjobs, they complain it's too big. You can tell because their mouths are stretched to the max, almost lockjaw.

For anal, sometimes they'll tell even the smallest guys they're too big, because it's simply uncomfortable for them.

 

[Pop_pop]

I just stereotyped you as being big, and her calling you over time and again means she likes your size (if my assumption is right)

 

[BBC_for_your_wife]

I just stereotyped you as being big, and her calling you over time and again means she likes your size (if my assumption is right)

I'm big, but I don't think most Asians don't want the extra size, but they'll almost always size me up to their arm.

I used to go to different spas in Flushing, specifically to make the girls scream (Back in the day, I've been banned/blacklisted from some spas). But now I focus on their pleasure, not my own. This tactic has worked for me in many ways, including the owners I work for calling me in sometimes to get their rocks off. They call me about twice a month. I think they would call me often more, but I think they're somewhat embarrassed about it (in front of the other girls).

 

[Pop_pop]

So here comes this question, do they enjoy being banged repeatedly or is it just the owners that doesn’t get any D?

 

[BBC_for_your_wife]

So here comes this question, do they enjoy being banged repeatedly or is it just the owners that doesn’t get any D?

This varies from girl to girl. But in general, they fake as if they're enjoying it. I'm pretty cool with these girls, and have asked them directly if they enjoy it. They basically see it as a "business transaction" (direct translation from what they tell me), and nothing more. They're happy to see regulars, because they want their money. They need money, and guys need relief, this is their philosophy for the most part.

This doesn't mean they never enjoy it, but they don't sex as something to look forward to doing.

As for the owners, they feel the same way. But they view me a little differently because of my sex-technique/game combo (but mostly the game I kick to them). Without the game I kick, I wouldn't be getting the calls. With these girls, they have sex so frequently. It's not special to them anymore. But what is special, is having a bond with someone. If you have game, they'll form a bond with you. Respecting them is a big part of the game (but not like a simp)

 

[bronzeharbor]

When they seem like they dropped their guard around you,
Is that just an elaborate act?
I've had more run ins with these actresses and they do a convincing job

 

[BBC_for_your_wife]

When they seem like they dropped their guard around you,
Is that just an elaborate act?
I've had more run ins with these actresses and they do a convincing job

Yes, it's a good act that they play on the guys. But remember, some girls are open to having feelings with you, most will pretend, and some will want no parts of it.

Pro tip: When talking/texting with these girls (with the intention of convincing them to offer sex to you), NEVER mention sex stuff. Trust me, they've heard of all from other guys already. You have to know what to say, when to say it, and when to be quiet.

 

[Captunderpants78]

Yes, it's a good act that they play on the guys. But remember, some girls are open to having feelings with you, most will pretend, and some will want no parts of it.

Pro tip: When talking/texting with these girls (with the intention of convincing them to offer sex to you), NEVER mention sex stuff. Trust me, they've heard of all from other guys already. You have to know what to say, when to say it, and when to be quiet.

Hoe many spas hire security? I've never seen any, unless they are real ninjas. Or secret room?! Thanks.