I got propositioned by the hotel manager!!!

[sushiman]

First, do NOT delete her text messages if possible. Save it just in case as a little insurance policy, you never know. Then stay away from that hotel. Politely tell her you're afraid of this scenario and would not want you to get jealous and something happen to both of us we might regret. Find another hotel. Scope out the desk area, elevators, doors, etc. Test the new hotel once or twice. Take notice of who is working the desk, the doors, anyone hotel related.

I know you from the other boards, we have PM'd each other, and have seen the same providers in the past. You're a sharp guy. Sometimes an inconvenience is better than something that's easy to do. Protect yourself from this scenario...

Good luck!

 

[Perfecto]

NEWS FLASH: I was just texting with her and explained that I didn’t want things to get super awkward between us due to other girls. She was very understanding…she said that she is always professional/discreet but appreciated my honesty.

She told me to keep booking at the hotel and she will continue to take care of my reservations…like she always has and said “you know where to find me if you change your mind.”

She was totally cool about it…it’s probably for the best. Thanks fellas…

 

[hamilton2015]

NEWS FLASH: I was just texting with her and explained that I didn’t want things to get super awkward between us due to other girls. She was very understanding…she said that she is always professional/discreet but appreciated my honesty.

She told me to keep booking at the hotel and she will continue to take care of my reservations…like she always has and said “you know where to find me if you change your mind.”

She was totally cool about it…it’s probably for the best. Thanks fellas…

I like that she is so cool about everything and kept the door open just in case!

 

[NScrabble]

I love how the opinions are dividing into two distinct camps. I suspect Perfecto is quite perplexed about what to do.
Here’s an idea: meet her for lunch and interview her. Tell her exactly what you want and don’t want. You say you’re an excellent judge of character; suss her out.

this would be what i would vote for also, if he has time. How it has worked out also sounds ok. We'll stay tuned.

 

[The Anal Thermometer]

She was very understanding…she said that she is always professional/discreet but appreciated my honesty.


She was totally cool about it…it’s probably for the best. Thanks fellas…

I don't want to nitpick but she said is always professional/discreet. She didn't say she *would be* professional/discreet. This could be her using English whimistically, but maybe she's not the sweet innocent single mother she's portraying herself out to be.

(For the record, I'm in Team Do It, because I love Latina puss and she has something to lose as well, but you probably made a prudent decision.)

 

[sugarmaster]

I’m not advising against it. I’m just saying, there is a risk of doing this and he should switch hotels. What Perfecto is doing is a risk to begin with. This is an added risk but it could be worth it. Or it could be a huge mistake. But he faces that risk with all the ho’s he sees; this is simply a more enhanced risk.

I speak from experience as I have been burned by an SB who had my info and came close another time. The thing is, they can seem normal, and you can think they will be logical and recognize they have something to lose and nothing to gain, but they also have mental health issues that can cause them to snap if they feel betrayed or abandoned.

Just remember, 99% of women who come anywhere close to this thing of ours have mental illness.

 

[Dynaguy]

The risk makes it more exciting. Just don’t be stupid — have an exit plan.

 

[Lovecheeks889]

She may be blackmailing you. And may not be alone in plan. Find another hotel.

Information is powerful. Especially in NYC , either she wants $ which is fine as in there Colombia culture or she targeted OP for a very very specific reason. Depends on what additional info OP has given to hotel and can be looked up

 

[Perfecto]

Fellas, it seems that she might be professional/discreet based on her last message to me (see attached) but this doesn’t account for a few things.

1. Human Emotion - Once I started “using her” and fucking the shit out of her…she is most certainly going to start to feel something. All non-pros do…and some pros as well.

2. It was never discussed but she still has a ton of personal information on me from the hotel reservations….full name, email, cell, home address, credit card info, etc. I have to be careful!!!

3. She’s a solid 6-7+…not an 8-9, so it’s probably not worth it, although it’s exciting that I got propositioned by a non-pro civilian.

 

[sugarmaster]

Fellas, it seems that she might be professional/discreet based on her last message to me (see attached) but this doesn’t account for a few things.

1. Human Emotion - Once I started “using her” and fucking the shit out of her…she is most certainly going to start to feel something. All non-pros do…and some pros as well.

2. It was never discussed but she still has a ton of personal information on me from the hotel reservations….full name, email, cell, home address, credit card info, etc. I have to be careful!!!

3. She’s a solid 6-7+…not an 8-9, so it’s probably not worth it, although it’s exciting that I got propositioned by a non-pro civilian.

Well, there you have it - she's a pro. She is zaftig, however, I get you could perhaps get a lower rate out of her. All in all, I think it is a pass since she has your personal info. Like I said, I would switch hotels.

 

[southernheat]

Hey man if she just needs a friend, I can be her friend I just moved to the city, looking for something casual and consistent while I settle my roots here

 

[rogueseal]

Never casually fuck (not for pay) someone who has less to lose than you do!

 

[fishmonger69]

You made the right call… she said she is always professional, but how professional is it to use your personal info at the hotel to do what she did? Incredibly reckless and inappropriate, and speaks to a lack of self-control and potential danger in the future. On the other hand, one side of my brain would be as intrigued as you were… but you made the right choice.

 

[hamilton2015]

I find it interesting that she mentioned she is in to girls too...this woman could be a sex demon in the room, just saying.

 

[Whizzard]

I find it interesting that she mentioned she is in to girls too...this woman could be a sex demon in the room, just saying.

She just threw a bigger, fresher piece of bait in the water on purpose. She knows what she’s doing and it spells trouble. Run OP, run!!!

 

[hoofhearted-u?]

Sounds like she opened the door to be with you and one of your girls!
She said she’s into girls.
I’d throw that out to her for the threesome!!!!

 

[Dawgs730]

My 2 cents….

She sounds like a professional based on her text. Like she is in the business since she said “It was a business proposal”.

So I think it was more about money than anything. I think she knew what you were doing and wants in for that extra cash.

That being said, since you are married, I wouldn’t risk it. If you were single or just in a relationship that won’t cost you half (and don’t know if you have kids), I wouldn’t do it.

But you should tell her you have friends who hobby who might be interested. I’m sure someone here would take her for a ride.

 

[Gorby]

Seems to me if she could blackmail you later she could blackmail you now!

 

[Nutopia1]

Perfecto .. I would not touch this with a 10 foot pole.
You are totally vulnerable with a lot to lose.
Too many other girls to fuck risk free .
I'd even change hotels. Lots of choices.

 

[hoofhearted-u?]

Pussy is like life insurance
It’s better to have it and not need it rather than not having it and needing it!