Apologies if these points were already made, but not reading the whole thread just to chime in. This is a no-brainer, because you’re married and she has all your info AND you’re not even attracted to her enough to make it a tougher choice. Same answer if she were a 10, but just much harder not to follow through, anyway. Absolute best-case scenario is you only lose the hotel, which you probably already have, because even if you walk away politely, she’s still gonna get hurt and pissed every time she sees you there with anybody else. Since she has your info, I think I’d just find a new hotel. Save all her texts and whatnot in case even that prompts her to go crazy and make any kind of veiled threats, in which case, you’d let her know that you never delete texts and would reciprocate for any complications she brings into your life. If she never sees you again, she’ll probably just worry about her mistake, but she won’t really have any motivation to fuck with your life. The chances of her fucking with your life increase tremendously if she keeps seeing you back there and increase exponentially if you follow through. The chances of her being totally cool fucking you and seeing you there with other women are about the same as finding a GF who’s cool with you banging other women on the side.
Worst-case scenario, and probably the most-likely scenario if you follow through, is once she makes that noise (Eddie Murphy), you definitely can’t ever use that hotel again, whether you continue seeing her or only see her once; either way, you’re gonna be getting nothing but weird responses anytime she sees you and maybe fucking texts like “OMG she’s so ugly!!” while you’re in the elevator with someone else. I’d take it as a compliment, politely tell her you thought about it more and you’re flattered but you just aren’t comfortable with this...and never even go back there at all.
Worst-case scenario, and probably the most-likely scenario if you follow through, is once she makes that noise (Eddie Murphy), you definitely can’t ever use that hotel again, whether you continue seeing her or only see her once; either way, you’re gonna be getting nothing but weird responses anytime she sees you and maybe fucking texts like “OMG she’s so ugly!!” while you’re in the elevator with someone else. I’d take it as a compliment, politely tell her you thought about it more and you’re flattered but you just aren’t comfortable with this...and never even go back there at all.