How much does provider age really matter?

[Seconda]

For me, age is shorthand for looks, as anyone who has watched any k-drama, makeup can do crazy things. When I say 20s, I mean skin is generally smooth, no deep wrinkles, etc.
Objectively, I know that if I look for it, with their skill level, skin elasticity, and bone structure/density; there is no way they are really in their 20s, so I choose not to look for it. Hell, some of the ladies have so much work done that they haven't changed in a decade, lol.

However, I see debates on the board and I'm wondering why mongers are trying so hard to burst their own bubble? It's like calling BS on whether a lady orgasms; what's your endgame here?
There was an old review where a monger called a provider "unni" in response to being called "oppa". How does this improve your experience?

As far as I can tell, it's seems to be an ego thing for some guys to believe that they are actually able to pull young, hot, kgirls?

So, how much does the biological age of the provider actually matter to you all?

 

[KalvinHobbs]

Well said. As long as I’m attracted to them. That’s good enough for me. I ask sometimes to see what they say. Some give realistic numbers but most do not lol

 

[Resoroam]

Most girls are older then me. I don’t mind it at all. On the contrary all my best experiences have been with a partner that is older then me. As long as I get mine, I am good. Like @KalvinHobbs said I’ll still ask to see what they say. I always tell them they look young, pretty etc and they seem to like the praise. As long as I find them attractive their age is irrelevant. I like girls my age, milfs, gilfs etc.

If I continue this, I might start carrying about their age. I totally understand the thought process behind it. Why wouldn’t you like to be with a young attractive person, life is short and it ought to be enjoyed. I also have an ego but I am never an asshole to them in the reviews or at least I don’t think I am. Sometimes those harsh reviews are needed, saves some people the time and money. Personally now that I have found a couple of girls I like, I might only see them and occasionally see other girls and toftt.

 

[DuncanIdaho]

I think since the departure of Allison... *moment of silence* — it doesn't quite matter anymore.

Just pure sexual attraction.

From seeing Ceroni in her prime during her early 20's on her first tour to the near grandma's at GFEI, I don't really care anymore.

 

[AutomaticSlim]

A lot.


But that's just me...

 

[Cool_Jazz]

For me age is not that important as long as there is an attraction. The girls are providing a fantasy service so why does it matter? Do you really think they will tell you the truth? Besides I'm older so everyone appears younger than me.

 

[SFGiantsLuv]

I didn't care for a while. But, as I get older (52) I ask myself, 'How young is too young?'
I saw some young girls last month from Pie and Sexy K shop and I felt like I was with one of my son's friends (he's 21)...that freaked me out and told myself to stick with the ladies that are really 40 but look like early 30's....

Just my 1/2 cent opinion

 

[Seconda]

I think since the departure of Allison... *moment of silence* — it doesn't quite matter anymore.

Just pure sexual attraction.

From seeing Ceroni in her prime during her early 20's on her first tour to the near grandma's at GFEI, I don't really care anymore.

"Prime" is an interesting concept, as there is a the peak physical hotness/youthfulness and the sexual peak with great skills/enjoyment as well as comfort in their own bodies. I think this may be the main difference between guys who care about age vs. not; which peak are you aiming for.

 

[Menchu]

What matters to me about age is not the number itself, but rather, the age estimate. It's annoying when people confidently list a girl as being 10+ years younger than she realistically is. Then, when you actually have younger girls, they're being placed in the same age category as people much older than them. The impact of age as a distinguishing factor is lessened as a result.

 

[MantisToboggan]

Girl must be between 2160 and 3285 days younger or older than me otherwise its a no for me.

 

[s1917_dec]

For me, age is shorthand for looks, as anyone who has watched any k-drama, makeup can do crazy things. When I say 20s, I mean skin is generally smooth, no deep wrinkles, etc.
Objectively, I know that if I look for it, with their skill level, skin elasticity, and bone structure/density; there is no way they are really in their 20s, so I choose not to look for it. Hell, some of the ladies have so much work done that they haven't changed in a decade, lol.

However, I see debates on the board and I'm wondering why mongers are trying so hard to burst their own bubble? It's like calling BS on whether a lady orgasms; what's your endgame here?
There was an old review where a monger called a provider "unni" in response to being called "oppa". How does this improve your experience?

As far as I can tell, it's seems to be an ego thing for some guys to believe that they are actually able to pull young, hot, kgirls?

So, how much does the biological age of the provider actually matter to you all?

You had several disconnected points here so not trying to answer everything.

Are you asking the Orgs the same question "So, how much does the biological age of the provider actually matter to you all?"

If, I think you are saying age doesn't matter or shouldn't matter, why not have the orgs do the following:
1. Post much closer ages, stating someone is 22 and they are 39 is misleading at the very least. Many (not all) are at least 10-15 years older than the stated ages. Are you saying you are in agreement with this? At a minimum, should be within 3 years.
2. Post less PS pics, some are not even 30% close to real life. Post 80%+, mask the face.

Let me know what the orgs say to these two requests... afterall your premise seems to be it's an ego thing, shouldn't matter

 

[Don Hollinger]

There will be an org someday that will feature providers with recent photos and stats. And they'll do just fine because they respect their potential clients.
If the ladies could just trust us guys a little bit.

A guy should be able to get what he wants without using hooker algebra in calculating her actual age, weight, stats and upsell. Oughta be a law.

 

[Warrior Geek]

I think the bottom line when two men are alone talking about a woman in whatever context it might be, The question invariably comes up: “Is she doable?” Yeah definitely, or Nah she’s not doable. And of course the shortened version is “She’d get it”

 

[Seconda]

You had several disconnected points here so not trying to answer everything.

Are you asking the Orgs the same question "So, how much does the biological age of the provider actually matter to you all?"

If, I think you are saying age doesn't matter or shouldn't matter, why not have the orgs do the following:
1. Post much closer ages, stating someone is 22 and they are 39 is misleading at the very least. Many (not all) are at least 10-15 years older than the stated ages. Are you saying you are in agreement with this? At a minimum, should be within 3 years.
2. Post less PS pics, some are not even 30% close to real life. Post 80%+, mask the face.

Let me know what the orgs say to these two requests... afterall your premise seems to be it's an ego thing, shouldn't matter

Why would I ask the orgs that? To me that is a false advertising problem, which has many more factors (safety, privacy, etc) than a review-board focused discussion on subjectivity of attractiveness. In general, I agree that ads should be more representative of the provider.

But even if the orgs posted true ages, I doubt the accusations of false advertising would end, as perception of age is subjective. My point was that if the 39 y/o is as hot as a 22 year old, does it make a difference what her bio age is? We all know she is probably 30/40s, but my ego comment is for the dudes that seem to be trying very hard to find wrinkles or point out imperfections, so much so that a young bio age itself is a need, not just attractiveness.

 

[Joshinyi]

Well in my perspective being in my mid twenties, I enjoy girls my age or younger, but have had great experiences with girls in their 30's+.

Joy from lks is young and attractive so is Lucy and ella but the problem arises when someone's pics that look as young as Lucy or Joy, was taken 10+ year ago and not how they look now. The reason we have this conversation in the first place is that what we are being sold is not what we want to buy.

It's like ordering a steak that's medium rare and they give you a well done; look, I still like steak and i'll eat it but this isn't what I asked for.

 

[jamesH55]

The thought excites me seeing the younger one's. then its how they perform with their A and S that counts in the End. I find it amusing when old one's like me are complaining about a 30 yr old being too Old!! LOL

 

[KGirlLover]

I like younger women so a lot. That’s why it is imperative we help each other out by being 100% honest. Some of you are way off basis with the age. Someone once said they felt Tina from LSC was late 30’s, which is preposterous

 

[KalvinHobbs]

Some ppl are just bad at guessing age and some probably just add like 10 year buffer cause they know Asians are older than they look lol

 

[KGirlLover]

Not always, but I’ve seen some malicious ones. I remember avoiding Bonnie bc someone said she was shaped like a telephone pole, and just as thick, or something of the sorts

 

[Don Hollinger]

Well in my perspective being in my mid twenties, I enjoy girls my age or younger, but have had great experiences with girls in their 30's+.

Joy from lks is young and attractive so is Lucy and ella but the problem arises when someone's pics that look as young as Lucy or Joy, was taken 10+ year ago and not how they look now. The reason we have this conversation in the first place is that what we are being sold is not what we want to buy.

It's like ordering a steak that's medium rare and they give you a well done; look, I still like steak and i'll eat it but this isn't what I asked for.

I get what you're coming from completely. And you seem to be able to see the forest for the trees even though you'd rather enjoy younger bushes. But as much as I understand your perspective I wonder if seeking out civvie gals your age might be a better use of time and money.

This is a lifestyle that spoils the crap out of men of all ages. And yeah, I'm doing stuff in my 60's that my 20 year old self would be amazed at.
But for the most part I'm just happy to be having steak once I put my dentures in.

Mongering is one of those things that favors older men like me, a demented pervert who loves the fact that a young lady showed interest in me-after I forgot that I just gave her a white envelope...I'm as delighted with a 40+ as I am with a 25 year old.