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How many of you frequent AMPs to fill a void in your relationship?

kantuchdis

kantuchdis

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The point is guys have choices more than just divorce the wife for a hot sex kitten to match your sex drive, or try not to think about sex and accept she's fine with once a month. Let her stay in her world of control and continue to ignore your desires for sex, it keeps her happy. You go find some sex and increase your serotonin levels and report back to your buddies on Ampreviews.net what you found!
 
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craigslust40

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All of this is great unless/until she finds out. As for my wife, she'd probably be far more upset about the amount of money I'm spending than about the sex (not sure she'd believe me that I pretty much limit it to HJs, but still she knows we almost never have sex, and not because I don't want it - of course, most of them want it both ways, i.e., they never give you sex and you don't have the right to get it anywhere else either).
 
samspade

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Going to amps since the mid 90's and was married most of that time. After the divorce, she told me that she was pretty sure that I was getting something on the side. Her cultural background made it acceptable as long as it never interfered with family. I did it, not because I was trying to "fill a void", but because I was a man with a strong sex drive. That and I like Asian women.
 
Eserbalac1965

Eserbalac1965

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It's all the same for me. I am in my 50s and my wife is in her 60s. It was all fine until menopause. I was mostly happy with once a month for many years, until that went to every other and now 2 to 4 times a year. she has no interest and with her arthritis in her hips and whole body there's that to deal with too. So i went to the AMPs and escorts. Started weekly and now 1 or 2 times a month. I wish I could tell her and be open about it, but it would end us. I live with guilt and broken vows but what else can I do? Someday I will need to take something to drastically reduce or eliminate my libido but I can't yet. not yet... My biggest fear is STDs. I get tested every other month and hope my wife does not want sex in between tests. I cant exactly tell my wife to use a condom since we never did, not once in 24 years. Life sucks but its better than dead.
 
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Voodoo66 said:
You don’t want to be in a hospice with 3 weeks to live and regret you didn’t do this or that. No need to be a martyr. If your married life is horrible for whatever reason, fast forward to the hospice. Do you want to be that guy? Probably not. The hobby at times has allowed me to stay sane. Sane is better than the alternative. Sane makes a much better husband also. Don’t give a shit what anyone thinks either. I was judged by a guy who found me out. He turned out to be a Furry...He gives and takes it up the ass from dudes in animal costumes. Go figure. Never did anal, but if I did it’s going to be giving it to S. Philly Julie, not some dude in a squirrel costume.
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ROFLMAO!! Hahaha... agree man. All sides! General comment, I think it's natural to feel guilt. My SO is not "denying me" and overall we are good in most areas, even the sex is still pretty good after 15+ years just not often enough for me. So of course I feel bad about it. But what's worse... full blown affair "with feelings" or AMP visits? Sure ideally you wouldn't need to do either but look how many men are in the same boat. Does this make us bad people? Maybe. But (and I know this is probably just rationalizing) I think of all the bad things you could do it's pretty harmless... as long as you don't get caught. Something you can't ever be sure of 100 percent but take the right steps and the chance is small. Maybe we need a thread on sharing those steps to help others increase their safety!
 
JayPh

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my ex girlfriend hated sex.

she's pregnant and I get the not being in the mood thing but when I offered to perform oral on her, she wasn't even interested in that
 
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ricochino215

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Voodoo66 said:
You don’t want to be in a hospice with 3 weeks to live and regret you didn’t do this or that. No need to be a martyr. If your married life is horrible for whatever reason, fast forward to the hospice. Do you want to be that guy? Probably not. The hobby at times has allowed me to stay sane. Sane is better than the alternative. Sane makes a much better husband also. Don’t give a shit what anyone thinks either. I was judged by a guy who found me out. He turned out to be a Furry...He gives and takes it up the ass from dudes in animal costumes. Go figure. Never did anal, but if I did it’s going to be giving it to S. Philly Julie, not some dude in a squirrel costume.
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LOL..... This had me dying! Great comment! We only live once!!!
 
Eserbalac1965

Eserbalac1965

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Cowsandchickens said:
Those of you in a committed relationship doing this are pretty fucked up. Never gone to an amp while in a relationship and I never will. It’s wrong.
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So your saying that someone like myself, who has a wife who I love and is loved by but is physically unable to have sex for years now and it will most likely be a chronic condition that will probably last for the rest of her life means that I only have 2 choices— divorce or become celibate? One choice would kill an otherwise good marriage and the other would bitter it to the point were divorce would be a godsend. Sure there’s a third choice to have an open relationship but that never works.
This don’t ask don’t tell relationship we now have seems to work. Does my wife suspect? Probably. After all I never shaved my balls before and my toe nails look good all the time too. LOL. But I still feel guilt and will but it’s less than the guilt of living with the void.
 
Theysayiamgood

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Cowsandchickens said:
Those of you in a committed relationship doing this are pretty fucked up. Never gone to an amp while in a relationship and I never will. It’s wrong.
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So is being married to the love of my life, being there for her every whim, providing a good life, etc.......and not having sex for the last 15 years. But I’m wrong..........
 
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Cowsandchickens

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If you’re going behind your spouses back to have sex with other people, yeah I think that’s pretty wrong. They probably wouldn’t approve.

If your spouse knows and is ok with it then that’s a different story.

Those of you who can’t get it from your wife just cause she doesn’t want it....must not be that masculine to make her desire you lmao. You’re too far down the middle aged beta male rabbit hole and I feel bad for you.

I’m sure this post wont be popular cause most here probably are cheating on their SOs.

I just fuck because I’m single, can afford it, and it’s easier then dating. I don’t want a relationship I’m in the spread my seed phase of life. Why play the dating fame wasting time and energy to make a woman think I want a relationship if I only wanna fuck?
 
fffinster

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My wife and I have a good sex life, and we are swingers, so my AMP visits are actually for therapeutic purposes - with an added bonus of a good release. That's why I strive to find a provider that is good with massage. (((It's true, guys. Don't dog me)))
 
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Cowsandchickens

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fffinster said:
My wife and I have a good sex life, and we are swingers, so my AMP visits are actually for therapeutic purposes - with an added bonus of a good release. That's why I strive to find a provider that is good with massage. (((It's true, guys. Don't dog me)))
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This is totally acceptable. If y’all are into that, then by all means fuck as many people as you want.

I just don’t think it’s right and it is creepy to me all the men who cheat on their wives doing this hobby.
 
fffinster

fffinster

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Cowsandchickens said:
I just fuck because I’m single, can afford it, and it’s easier then dating. I don’t want a relationship I’m in the spread my seed phase of life. Why play the dating fame wasting time and energy to make a woman think I want a relationship if I only wanna fuck?
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You sound like one of the delightful single guys that my wife and I avoid in the lifestyle.
 
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kgmspa

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Cowsandchickens said:
This is totally acceptable. If y’all are into that, then by all means fuck as many people as you want.

I just don’t think it’s right and it is creepy to me all the men who cheat on their wives doing this hobby.
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Why u think its wrong for a guy to seek pleasure from another woman when u do the same? Does u being single change what married or committed relationships seeks?
 
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Cowsandchickens

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kgmspa said:
Why u think its wrong for a guy to seek pleasure from another woman when u do the same? Does u being single change what married or committed relationships seeks?
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This makes literally no sense. I’m not in a relationship. I can bang whoever I want. If you’re fucking married it’s not right to bang other people ....unless your spouse knows about it and it’s ok with them.

There’s this term called CHEATING. Its in a dictionary if you don’t understand it...
 
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