I am also trapped in CNJ but try to add an AMP stop when working in NYC. My company does summer Fridays (half days) and confess that I gave jumped on a train to the city.
Where I am, the pickings are slim with mostly older women. Although some are very fit/attractive, I have not found any GFE spas here.
Although a bit cheaper in CNJ, I gladly pay the up charge fir better quality/service. With summer over, have to bear NJ until I can get to NY about once a month