It start off with surfing various escort sites like Listcrawler, Callescort.org, Harlothub, BP, escort fish, Eros.com, Slixa, Adult look, Tryst.link, TNAboard, and Private delights. I surf some sites more frequently than others. Most importantly it depends on the ad not the site. On the reputable sites it's just more quality providers than the non reputable sites! Those of you that think on the reputable sites. All the girls are legit you're sadly mistaken. Most probably are but shiesty providers do exist on reputable sites. When I look thru the ads the first thing that jump off the page to me. Is if her ad pics looks real. A pic is worth a thousand words. Then what the ad say. Is she in my price range which is 300 roses for a hr of pleasure. When I come across a provider I want to meet in person. I google the #. I'm looking for her to be on multiple sites especially reputable ones. I'm also looking for reviews, visibility via social media, and onlyfans. I send a text saying how much for a meet up in a discreet way. I don't sleep with providers when I first meet them in person. I say I got to see how attractive you are to me in person, how we vibe, and if it's safe. I ask for a massage or strip tease. Most providers chose to do a massage. I met 3 or 4 strippers that I had dance for me privately. That session is a QV which lasts about 15 mins. We all know most providers don't use their real pics or recent pics. I met a couple of providers that look the same in the face but in person are 50 to 70 lbs heavier than in the pic. To some guys that's a red flag. I got to see if we hit it off in person and can we have a great conversation. While having a convo I'll find out what is your inner thoughts, feelings, and content of her character. That's what a person's energy is. On the safety level. What do my instincts say do I feel safe or not. They say follow your instincts in life. Is her incall location safe. Most meet ups are in hotels. I'm trying to see if the hotel is decent and if it's a hotspot or not. If it's a private residence it got to be in a good neighborhood. A private residence is way more safer than hotels. People use hotels for all kinds of stuff. I'm trying to find out if she's independent or do she got a pimp. The girls with pimps all hid it because it's bad for business for various reasons. I've done a dinner date before and will do more in the future. I got to feel 100% comfortable with the provider before we do anything else. I will figure all those things in 15 mins of being with the provider. If I come back a second time than I'm a regular. If I'm not interested than they'll never see or hear from me again.
In general you should get to know a person a little bit better before you slept with them. Especially a escort and if your going to have unprotected relations. It's crazy how people running around having unprotected casual relations. I'm not attracted to White or Asian women. I deal with Latina's and black women. Which is more dangerous because majority of them come from disadvantage backgrounds and has a hood mentality. They know people who into all kinds of criminal activity. Whether she's independent or got a pimp. So a provider nationality plays a factor in your safety. Also beware of the whole illegal Latina circle in jersey. What comes with that is pimps, human and sex traffic, their meet up location can be a hotspot which attracts LE. So be aware of the dangers of dealing with certain nationalities like providers do. Some girls are classy and some are ratchet. I deal with classy providers. They're more discreet and safe. I don't like ratchetness. The chicks that show videos of themselves on their ads and social media smoking weed, popping pills, pulling out guns. Is a turn off to me. The only way I should know if you got a weapon if you got to use it to protect yourself. Other than that it's uncalled for to show a weapon. I prefer girls with clothes on or in lingerie in their ad pics. No nudity. AD is short for advertisement. Are you advertising class or ratchetness. My vetting process is very thorough. How do my fellow hobbyists vet their providers? Let me know what you think of my vetting process. Let's have a great debate!
In general you should get to know a person a little bit better before you slept with them. Especially a escort and if your going to have unprotected relations. It's crazy how people running around having unprotected casual relations. I'm not attracted to White or Asian women. I deal with Latina's and black women. Which is more dangerous because majority of them come from disadvantage backgrounds and has a hood mentality. They know people who into all kinds of criminal activity. Whether she's independent or got a pimp. So a provider nationality plays a factor in your safety. Also beware of the whole illegal Latina circle in jersey. What comes with that is pimps, human and sex traffic, their meet up location can be a hotspot which attracts LE. So be aware of the dangers of dealing with certain nationalities like providers do. Some girls are classy and some are ratchet. I deal with classy providers. They're more discreet and safe. I don't like ratchetness. The chicks that show videos of themselves on their ads and social media smoking weed, popping pills, pulling out guns. Is a turn off to me. The only way I should know if you got a weapon if you got to use it to protect yourself. Other than that it's uncalled for to show a weapon. I prefer girls with clothes on or in lingerie in their ad pics. No nudity. AD is short for advertisement. Are you advertising class or ratchetness. My vetting process is very thorough. How do my fellow hobbyists vet their providers? Let me know what you think of my vetting process. Let's have a great debate!
