Hot girls at the gym

[PorterD]

...muscles, six packs, etc. - sure that's obvious; let me add this to the notion: Dad Bod is a look a lot of hot young babes are attracted to. Check this from the New York Times: https://nypost.com/2021/03/25/dad-bods-are-the-biggest-turn-on-for-singles-amid-pandemic/

I am of a certain age and while I joke about it, let's be real, I don't have the need, time or energy to hit the gym multiple times a week. Soft in the middle is a realistic description of my body type. I am in the presence of younger and/or mature attractive women on many levels very frequently and experience as many flirting glances, conversations and outright advances as ever.

People hating themselves because they don't look like an underwear model is the biggest thing that holds them back. Women smell your low self esteem and lack of self confidence a mile away.

Be your best version of yourself today, right now. Incrementally move toward anything you might want to be, but be happy with who you are right now, and practice your karate, you're going to need it.

Totally agree self esteem is still as important or more important than looks and the Dad bod is a thing for some women.

I look like Anthony Perkins circa 1974. White, thin as heck, aging compared to my 20’s but not old looking. The one thing I notice is Asian women are way more into me than white women and it’s not just a fake notion I’ve developed due to the spas. It’s a real life thing.

 

[856mixr]

women love muscles and six packs, chiseled jawline. Etc. But it’s all about how it makes them FEEL. They get turned on by male strength. The male bulge is of no interest. Again they certainly love how it makes them feel; but no one wants to sit around looking at that.

I disagree. I have talked to chicks that mentioned chatting with thier girlfriends about dick prints like how guys talk about v-prints. I’m not saying they’re going to cream thier pants staring like how some of these guys act around women. But they notice And if they like what they see they may brag to thier friend. They just don’t like creeps they go out thier way to show off. Women are different from guys for sure but they like to have sex too. They just aren’t mindless horny like most guys.

 

[Heyjoe]

Echoing a previous comment but there is a spectrum. Do I check out some ladies at the gym. Sure. I have a pulse. There is a huge gap between that and sitting there slack-jawed eye-fucking them.

There are many girls at my gym that spend the whole time flirting with guys and take selfies next to them. Men doing the inverse also. They are on the same machine or bench for over an hour. They have every right to do that and nobody makes them feel uncomfortable, but they are looking for attention.

I got my mind on a million other things, including my workout, but my eyes wander. You should think about the clergy if yours don’t.

The clergy? Hell, priests (the ones who aren't molesters), imams, pastors, rabbis, etc. have more access to the ladies than anyone else. Some even take advantage.

 

[Heyjoe]

I disagree. I have talked to chicks that mentioned chatting with thier girlfriends about dick prints like how guys talk about v-prints. I’m not saying they’re going to cream thier pants staring like how some of these guys act around women. But they notice And if they like what they see they may brag to thier friend. They just don’t like creeps they go out thier way to show off. Women are different from guys for sure but they like to have sex too. They just aren’t mindless horny like most guys.

My future ex-wife told me that she specifically wanted to meet me after she saw me perform (this was years ago when I was the lead singer for a salsa band) and she liked my red pants, especially the front. I was, to say the least, flattered and flabbergasted at the same time. I had no idea that women even noticed stuff like that.

 

[yh33]

Whats stupid is how many men hold themselves back fearing they will be creepy. Throughout some of my youth girls came on to me, but I was too timid and shy. Not outgoing enough, felt I could be shot down, too aggressive in nature or creepy.

Be who you want and don’t let fear hold you back. Stare at a beautiful girl for however long you’d like. If she questions you, be outgoing, introduce yourself, and strike a conversation. Pay her a compliment perhaps. Never let the fear of life grab you by the horns. It’s too short.

The girl next door walking down the street, shopping in the mall, working out at the gym… She could be yours just as easily as the one you paid 2.0 for.

 

[PintOrQuart]

I watch a little porn right before I go into the gym. Gets the ‘T’ pumping a bit.
The PF I work out at has a good mix of hot 20-something’s and some really hot middle age MILFs. It depends on what time of day you go. But overall I think about how a sweaty snatch is not my bag so the conundrum continues….I’ve had some women get on a treadmill right next to me and they smelled like an onion hoagie, forcing me to relocate.