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Helping A Provider
- Thread starter hamilton2015
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There is a lot of negativity in this thread.
Some of these women are indeed batshit crazy, and some are devious and deceitful. On the other hand, many are very good people. Some really care about the men they see, and some have the proverbial heart of gold. I have had experiences with a few providers who went out of their way to help me without asking for anything in return.
The point is that every person is different, and you have to use your best judgment to figure out the right way to handle each situation. Assuming that every provider is a crazy lying criminal is not a healthy way to go through life. If you hate everyone you sleep with, you will probably end up hating yourself.
Some of these women are indeed batshit crazy, and some are devious and deceitful. On the other hand, many are very good people. Some really care about the men they see, and some have the proverbial heart of gold. I have had experiences with a few providers who went out of their way to help me without asking for anything in return.
The point is that every person is different, and you have to use your best judgment to figure out the right way to handle each situation. Assuming that every provider is a crazy lying criminal is not a healthy way to go through life. If you hate everyone you sleep with, you will probably end up hating yourself.
What!!! Every provider is a crazy lying criminal! LOL. Crazy in that they sleep with 5-10 strangers a day. Lying by pretending they love and care for you (so you return) and criminal that they get compensated (tax free) with soooo much of your money!
I think its important to keep everything in perspective and acknowledge each other's motives. Providers are in it to hustle money. They are not in it for sex, you, or a relationship. Guys are in it because they are missing something: companionship, self esteem, fantasy, whatever. Two completely different reasons bring the provider and monger together. It works fine in the short term. Beyond that, you are probably looking for trouble.
I think its important to keep everything in perspective and acknowledge each other's motives. Providers are in it to hustle money. They are not in it for sex, you, or a relationship. Guys are in it because they are missing something: companionship, self esteem, fantasy, whatever. Two completely different reasons bring the provider and monger together. It works fine in the short term. Beyond that, you are probably looking for trouble.
Best sentence in this entire thread. I've had a couple of brief trysts, off book, with a provider. I got them gifts (luxury ones), they would meet me at a hotel and fuck the shit out of me for a few hours every week.
One started getting weird (texting and sending me pictures) and I ghosted. For the record, I had nothing to worry about here. I'm widowed and single af, but the familiarity was a bit too much for me.
The other started asking for very expensive, extravagant gifts and I ghosted her, too. Particularly, once, after we fucked three times on an evening, in which I had sent her for a $300 spa day and bought an expensive dinner, she asked for a Rolex if she got me to pop for a 4th time in 2 hours.
These girls were both extremely attractive, fairly intelligent and pretty cool to chill with. But consider: at the end of the day, you can always drop $300-$500 and fuck an absolute knock out for an hour. You can also drop $140 and fuck a desperate asian girl after she massages you. These next level relationships need to be well managed and not-even-a-little-bit personal. If you can't handle that, don't do it.
One started getting weird (texting and sending me pictures) and I ghosted. For the record, I had nothing to worry about here. I'm widowed and single af, but the familiarity was a bit too much for me.
The other started asking for very expensive, extravagant gifts and I ghosted her, too. Particularly, once, after we fucked three times on an evening, in which I had sent her for a $300 spa day and bought an expensive dinner, she asked for a Rolex if she got me to pop for a 4th time in 2 hours.
These girls were both extremely attractive, fairly intelligent and pretty cool to chill with. But consider: at the end of the day, you can always drop $300-$500 and fuck an absolute knock out for an hour. You can also drop $140 and fuck a desperate asian girl after she massages you. These next level relationships need to be well managed and not-even-a-little-bit personal. If you can't handle that, don't do it.
"Honestly I go to do my sexual thing with them and would rather not know much about their personal lives circumstances etc."
Maybe if you DID engage with them on an out of the spa basis you would understand why some of us who know them best generally have a rather low opinion of their personal character.
Maybe if you DID engage with them on an out of the spa basis you would understand why some of us who know them best generally have a rather low opinion of their personal character.
My goodness...she text me today again asking if I can help her. I responded if she has her resume together and she doesn't reply. She states that she just needs help with anything I can help her with. So, I reply: are you asking for me to help in exchange for spending time together or just helping with whatever I can with nothing in exchange.
She replies, just helping her with her gas bill with whatever I can with nothing in exchange. Mind you, she sends me a picture of the bill with her last name blacked out. Im thinking how are we "friends" with you blacking out your name and how can you feel comfortable asking me for help without meeting up with in a hotel or anything.
I feel really insulted. Like is she even thinking how this makes me feel or is just thinking about herself/what she needs.
She replies, just helping her with her gas bill with whatever I can with nothing in exchange. Mind you, she sends me a picture of the bill with her last name blacked out. Im thinking how are we "friends" with you blacking out your name and how can you feel comfortable asking me for help without meeting up with in a hotel or anything.
I feel really insulted. Like is she even thinking how this makes me feel or is just thinking about herself/what she needs.
