Have you ever fallen in love with a provider?

[Chefboyar_g]

I fell hard for a provider, we were together for a few years, it was a good relationship, treated each other well. It was a good two way street. Thinking back it was more of a relationship of convenience. We spent time in and out of the store and it was fun. By the end I probably needed her more than she needed me. It’s over now but I’m still stuck on her…my take is if it makes sense for go for it and take it for what it is, have fun while you’re in it. And break it off once you stop having fun or feeling good about it.

 

[xxxooz]

I fell hard for a provider, we were together for a few years, it was a good relationship, treated each other well. It was a good two way street. Thinking back it was more of a relationship of convenience. We spent time in and out of the store and it was fun. By the end I probably needed her more than she needed me. It’s over now but I’m still stuck on her…my take is if it makes sense for go for it and take it for what it is, have fun while you’re in it. And break it off once you stop having fun or feeling good about it.

Every relationship has an expiration date. whether it’s “ ‘till death do us part” or “the thrill is gone”. What goes on in between is the heart of the matter..Enjoy the ride and remember that there is more to a relationship than just carnal desire..

 

[pingan]

I've heard a few times on this board saying Green card is the best option to have long-time relationship with them.

A green Card gives the "Husband" a degree of power in a marriage but remember we ane living in the #MeToo era and that can complicate things with INS, the IRS and the Courts if she leaves ..Don't go there unless you are ready and mentally prepared for a lot of Bureaucratic BS and hassle.. aside from the Personal dynamics on "when ithe Honeymoon is over".. You need to have the serious discussion and agreement about marital expectations well before putting a rings on your fingers..Personally I would avoid a G/C relationship like the plague.. but every situation varies butI have never known a GrCd arrangement to work out..

 

[vortex14]

Some good solid advice from many seasoned hobbyist. At the end of the day it is entirely up to you no one can tell you how to feel or what is right and what is wrong unless you believe in it. If you continue and there is no money involved enjoy the ride while it last. BUT always keep in the back of your mind were it all started... very good chance it could finish there as well. Good Luck

 

[boominggems]

Would you be open to marring a provider?

Woah now that’s a good question. Never really thought about that

 

[boominggems]

Some good solid advice from many seasoned hobbyist. At the end of the day it is entirely up to you no one can tell you how to feel or what is right and what is wrong unless you believe in it. If you continue and there is no money involved enjoy the ride while it last. BUT always keep in the back of your mind were it all started... very good chance it could finish there as well. Good Luck

Really appreciate it, thanks

 

[Sgtanand]

Well, im not here to judge anyone ….but sometimes we make basic things complicated… question here is “ Have you ever fallen in love with a provider?”. There is nothing wrong in falling for a provider…it’s quiet natural…specially when you experience a deep intimacy with her and she keeps on telling- you are the only one… however we need ask ourselves whether it’s a love or infatuation or obsession or just a pure lust…love is based on honesty … and in this business honesty lies with money….whether a provider has a feeling for you? … may be she likes you..the way you spend money on her or the way you make her wet…my experience- if you treat them with respect and pay regular visits with decent tip they will definitely feel happy to see you again…

But, lets say, if someone truly loves a provider … I’d say..enjoy that feeling because she may feel the same way about you… but it’s good to keep it within those 60-90 minutes boundaries …dating/ marriage with her is a mirage … socially and economically it doesn’t add up…
My experience …if you treat them with respect no matter what and pay decent tip…they will definitely happy to see you again and return the favor… I have made few good friends with whom I can have a quick bite or a smoke , drink coffee after the session.

PS: there are few mongers who has lover in every single shop… I envy them… they are real Casanova’s…

 

[beerguy]

Well, im not here to judge anyone ….but sometimes we make basic things complicated… question here is “ Have you ever fallen in love with a provider?”. There is nothing wrong in falling for a provider…it’s quiet natural…specially when you experience a deep intimacy with her and she keeps on telling- you are the only one… however we need ask ourselves whether it’s a love or infatuation or obsession or just a pure lust…love is based on honesty … and in this business honesty lies with money….whether a provider has a feeling for you? … may be she likes you..the way you spend money on her or the way you make her wet…my experience- if you treat them with respect and pay regular visits with decent tip they will definitely feel happy to see you again…

But, lets say, if someone truly loves a provider … I’d say..enjoy that feeling because she may feel the same way about you… but it’s good to keep it within those 60-90 minutes boundaries …dating/ marriage with her is a mirage … socially and economically it doesn’t add up…
My experience …if you treat them with respect no matter what and pay decent tip…they will definitely happy to see you again and return the favor… I have made few good friends with whom I can have a quick bite or a smoke , drink coffee after the session.

PS: there are few mongers who has lover in every single shop… I envy them… they are real Casanova’s…

Well said. But I'm sure most of us don't believe the line "you are the only one", as the doorbell rings for her next only one.

 

[sxpm]

<<specially when you experience a deep intimacy with her and she keeps on telling- you are the only one… however we need ask ourselves whether it’s a love or infatuation or obsession or just a pure lust…>>

True. And, I have asked myself, self-reflectively, and the answer is power and control. I didn’t want to lose, I wanted to conquer. The fact it didn’t work out was a blessing, the whole thing was an illusion based on fantasy and desire.

But, that’s all love, too, in the Shakespearean sense, the Elvis sense, the pop music sense, I can’t live without you, I’m dying…

Love is a many splenderous thing, it’s also chaos in the belly.

 

[error434]

Well said. But I'm sure most of us don't believe the line "you are the only one", as the doorbell rings for her next only one.

I'm the only one. Until the next one.

 

[East Lake II]

Every relationship has an expiration date. whether it’s “ ‘till death do us part” or “the thrill is gone”. What goes on in between is the heart of the matter..Enjoy the ride and remember that there is more to a relationship than just carnal desire..

Agree, sometimes they start talking about destiny and try to play that card. Enjoy and be respectful.