It depends on the party but the city usually has a bunch around the city. Some are hit or miss, depends on the week and the type of party. Queens has a club called caligula, that one is pretty good during the summer. I haven't been to one since the pandemic so not sure how they are now. You can check fetlife for events for the whole week. You will be paying around $120 from 10-4am usually, or at least that's how I remember. Some places let you take a bottle Some don't, some charge for bringing a bottle, but you would leave it at the bar. Depending on the type of party or night, you will see singles or couples. Sometimes the best looking girls come with a guy. Some are open to play with single guys, some only with couples, so if you have a female friend who is willing to try you have a bigger chance. As long as you're not being a creep and respect boundaries, girls will be open to play with you, doesn't mean you will have luck all the time. These places tend to attract a lot of guys, so there's always more guys than girls.