Giving New members info

[Albotonight]

Curious if anyone else is torn between giving info like donation rates, service, etc to new members or keeping quiet. My reasoning for keeping quiet is the LEO aspect and not wanting to give info to shut down spots i enjoy visiting. Thoughts?

 

[BobLaublaw11]

I think we underestimate LE. I’m fairly certain they are fully aware of the activities at our favorite spas.

But it certainly doesn’t hurt to exercise cautious discretion here.

 

[L8yPleaser]

... and for someone to establish a little "street cred" by contributing.....

 

[Szilagyi]

Curious if anyone else is torn between giving info like donation rates, service, etc to new members or keeping quiet. My reasoning for keeping quiet is the LEO aspect and not wanting to give info to shut down spots i enjoy visiting. Thoughts?

Your concerns are unfounded. LEO has a plethora of mechanisms to source relevant information such as donation/ service, and they certainly don't have to private message directly for that information when it's sprawled out across online forums.

Don't mistake laziness/ trifling behavior as indicative of LEO presence.

 

[Ellocohombre]

Read their reviews and comments and get a feel from them. Then send them.an answer and tell them politely your concern that they need to establish credibility.

 

[charliebrown]

Always be polite to everyone. That being said, my approach is to ask two questions for every one question they ask me. I literally asked one guy 20 questions before he faded away.

 

[njlefty]

Over the years, I have gotten questions out of the blue from people with very little activity and no posting history. And generally the questions are: what did you get there and what did it cost? Generally speaking, unless you know the person from longtime interaction, these questions are not kosher.

 

[BIGBOB62]

I don’t usually answer anybody’s questions about rates because I’m tired of being told how much to give. As to details, if it belongs in a private section of a review I won’t give them unless the asker has a solid published review themselves and some message posting continuity. I’m very aware LE lurks on these sites and very protective of my girls.

 

[easy2please]

I don’t usually answer anybody’s questions about rates because I’m tired of being told how much to give. As to details, if it belongs in a private section of a review I won’t give them unless the asker has a solid published review themselves and some message posting continuity. I’m very aware LE lurks on these sites and very protective of my girls.

With rates I usually tell people if it's that big of a deal they probably can't afford it. With newbs I will often give very general info or even snarky replies. Not so much due to LE concerns, I just have a low tolerance for laziness and enjoy being a dick sometimes