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Gifts for holiday?
- Thread starter Mickyblue
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Save your gifts. They just put in on a shelf in the kitchen area and re gift back to “really good customer”. Bottles of wine bottles of alcohol, candy, cakes, food whatever you guys are giving chances are 95% of the time they either don’t like it nor care about it. They may seem genuinely excited when you bring the gift, but I assure you they bring it in the back and throw it on a table or shelf and make a face. If you buy them jewelry they throw it in a storage container, and when you show up for your appointment they dig through it for the one you gave them out of many many others out of the storage bin what you gave them and wear it like they love it and never take it off.
I wouldn’t tell you this if I didn’t witness first hand all the time. I have eaten more candy and food brought then I care to remember. Taken home more bottles of wine thrown on the shelf. I have seen sometimes as many as 20 bottles on the shelf they beg me to take, I am not really a wine drinker so I will take them to shut them up and then re gift them myself.
I am telling you all this because I I feel kinda bad guys are spending sometimes a decent amount of money for the misconception that it is appreciated.
I wouldn’t tell you this if I didn’t witness first hand all the time. I have eaten more candy and food brought then I care to remember. Taken home more bottles of wine thrown on the shelf. I have seen sometimes as many as 20 bottles on the shelf they beg me to take, I am not really a wine drinker so I will take them to shut them up and then re gift them myself.
I am telling you all this because I I feel kinda bad guys are spending sometimes a decent amount of money for the misconception that it is appreciated.
I suppose the exception to the ‘it’s pointless to gift’ rule would be when it’s your current atf and you actually know some specific things she’d like based on your conversations.
On a more generic note, when I used to visit independent Lulu in her actual apartment I often brought flowers. Who doesn’t appreciate fresh flowers in their living space?
On a more generic note, when I used to visit independent Lulu in her actual apartment I often brought flowers. Who doesn’t appreciate fresh flowers in their living space?
I suppose it is relevant. I can’t answer that. I suppose if you give her something she enjoys than that should be good. If your atf is Korean than it better be something valued at easily over $1K dollars, if it’s not again they don’t care. In a very weird way they equate monetary to how much you feel for them or care about them. I know it’s sad in our culture it’s about the thoughtfulness of the gift, but not with with them. But trust me I have been with Koreans and this is how they think. So moral of the this is be very prepared to spend some serious money on gifts for them or they truly won’t be happy.
I remember my first gift to my Korean girl I am with now. I had heard they liked luxury items and I was used to white woman gifts so I upped it more than I ever previously bought. Got her a $700 Gucci wallet thought I hit a home run. She seemed to kinda be like ehhhhhhhhh thanks. I learned my lesson quickly
Yup…. Read my earlier post. If it’s under 1k they look at it like not very valuable and they don’t care. It is 100% a cultural thing, they are actually not being mean at all it’s all they know. Just google dating a Korean girl and what to expect. It’s one of the first things “they expect expensive gifts”. Again if you are entering into a emotional relationship with a Korean be forewarned. The flip side is they are very very caring people and treat you like a king literally. Complete opposite of a white woman, truthfully I have never been treated so well. They constantly cook for u, clean, buy h things as well, are thoughtful, just a different world than we are used to.