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falling in love with a provider

Rubel98

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Have similar thing going on but she has or had a big crush on me. I was playing it cool enjoying each other at the spa then we went together out of spa maybe first mistake! Had great times even went to her apartment in ny overnight. Now she is far away I thought would be good for me but it’s harder to communicate with her always busy. I just think of how good she does her jobs and the lucky customers she is doing all day.
 

Rubel98

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Have similar thing going on but she has or had a big crush on me. I was playing it cool enjoying each other at the spa then we went together out of spa maybe first mistake! Had great times even went to her apartment in ny overnight. Now she is far away I thought would be good for me but it’s harder to communicate with her always busy. I just think of how good she does her jobs and the lucky customers she is doing all day.
O ya I’m married n have told that I’m not a good boyfriend
I know she is banking some major coin Wish me luck
 

Evans12

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Falling in love with a provider
I fell in love with a provider. She is really pretty, and very good at her job.
I have been mongering around, and it is my first time I fell in love.
My brain told me – move on, our lives are too different. I really don’t know when she will get out of the business or even after that, whether she will actually love me.
My brain told me to move on and find a regular woman.
However, even after 2 years, I still love her. I still think of her.
What should I do?
Unless you’re loaded move on as providers want a dude good looking or ugly with lots and lots of money.
 

Valida

A big cuddly teddy bear
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Falling in love with the woman-of-the-moment is the goal, the point, and the value. If I didn't need the emotions that belong with sex, I could handle the sex mechanics all by myself. But I want to meet, and play with, and adore, a real woman sometimes. I want that enough to pay the price.

The key is to fall out of love quickly enough, before doing something stupid in a pink haze. Before your next session, for sure. Before your next serious conversation (about anything) with your wife, for sure.

I cannot comprehend guys who pay a hooker "just to get a nut". Nuts are handy, free, easy, and without risk of sin or crime. Why complicate things if that's all you want?
 

Don Hollinger

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Falling in love with the woman-of-the-moment is the goal, the point, and the value. If I didn't need the emotions that belong with sex, I could handle the sex mechanics all by myself. But I want to meet, and play with, and adore, a real woman sometimes. I want that enough to pay the price.

The key is to fall out of love quickly enough, before doing something stupid in a pink haze. Before your next session, for sure. Before your next serious conversation (about anything) with your wife, for sure.

I cannot comprehend guys who pay a hooker "just to get a nut". Nuts are handy, free, easy, and without risk of sin or crime. Why complicate things if that's all you want?

Totally agree. With the right companion love is possible. I mean, they're there to fall in love. And I am too----I'm letting go every restraint. Clothes, inhibitions, money, everything. And of course they love me, bearing gifts and money. And when they swing into the act, with proclamations of love, squealing with passion...well, it's that moment in time to be savored. I've walked out of their places completely enamored, happily disoriented. Like the rest of you I'll send a 'thank you, see you in a few weeks' text. But I'll send texts to the other gals I see for future encounters. For the same kind of fun love. If I can "love" one gal, I can easily "love" three.

But a gal half my age who looks like a Kpop star, who wants to date me OTC either has other motives or should have her head examined. Those darn optics will get you every time.

I understand but don't agree with a guy who shells out a few hundred to "get a nut." There's no afterglow, just a cleanup on aisle 3.
 

charliebrown

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I cannot comprehend guys who pay a hooker "just to get a nut". Nuts are handy, free, easy, and without risk of sin or crime. Why complicate things if that's all you want?
I know exactly why. When I started this hobby, I realized why I started it with all the clarity in the world. I asked myself how many times I had jerked off before entering this hobby because of exactly what you said. Now, I keep asking myself this one question, how many times did I jerk off before I got completely and utterly tired of it. The exact number is a mystery. Am I really going to spend my entire life fanaticizing about having sex with a woman or am I going to live my life to the fullest and have sex with a woman at a normal rate for a man my age. If by chance, it happens with an 18 year old woman or a 70 year old woman does not carry a ton of weight to me as much as it is having sex with a woman.

Unfortunately for me an MANY others, we are married to women who do not appreciate, desire and/or even care about sexually satisfying their husband.

What shocks me is the number of young men in this hobby. I never had to deal with this crap until my SO reached mesopause. The fact that there are a ton of young and middle aged men in this hobby does not bode well for the population as a whole.
 

xxxooz

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The Queensbridge public housing (the projects) or the Queensboro Bridge?
... Better yet.. from a top floor balcony on 40 Rd in Flushing.. Reprise of a cold December night some years ago... adds to the screenplay dynamic and revives a sad story about the business ..
 

onlydoforyou

SpaHunter
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Imagine an older gentleman, perhaps a widower, up in age who can afford to visit every so often, just wants to feel the touch of a woman, good massage and a HJ, keeps him going. He may not love his provider or be in love with her, but loves the hour or so, gets him by until the next time. There are other activities he can do, but nothing compares to the pampering he gets from a lovely.
 

Valida

A big cuddly teddy bear
Messages: 188
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Imagine an older gentleman, perhaps a widower, up in age who can afford to visit every so often, just wants to feel the touch of a woman, good massage and a HJ, keeps him going. He may not love his provider or be in love with her, but loves the hour or so, gets him by until the next time. There are other activities he can do, but nothing compares to the pampering he gets from a lovely.
Well said! He gets much more form his hour than "just a nut", whether he nuts or not.
 
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