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Embarrassed to Ask for this Kind of Recommendation (hear me out)

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angryman82

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Been mulling over this and figured to post while there's an ounce of audacity...

I could make this a 12 paragraph 'dear diary' but I'll spare you that and preface with bullet points so you can get why I ask...

*diagnosed w/severe depression
*numerous hysteria meltdowns
*two antidepressants
*touch deprivation
*loneliness
*deaths
*racing thoughts including suicide
*self inflicted psych pain

(Yeah 2020 sucked)

...which leads me to ask...

in the central NJ area are there any amp places that you can recommend where you really felt legit 'tenderly nurtured' and *that aspect* superceded the ummm ..'the extra stuff' typically sought after on here?

just ...tired of a cold world...the 'single servingness' of things (Fight Club reference, yeah) ... looking for comfort but in a different way ...

I'm indifferent as to if 'extras' are a definite or not at all
 
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headsup

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I think you are referring to GFE (Girl Friend Experience). I would hint at what you want over the phone and be prepared to make a decent presentation and required offering in person. Good luck, there is never a guarantee on what the experience will be like. Just like real life.
 
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tbonewilly

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Sorry to hear of your situation and this past year has been rough on a lot of people. Professional help might be better suited before searching for comfort. The wrong amp girl can do more damage , eat you alive and push you over the edge. Guys use a million different lines to therapists so if you tried telling them your situation , they might just think it's another line. But at the same time you never know but when your talking about one's life , it can be a big risk to take . If this is a route you wana take , i would say go with a indy with lesser traffic and this way possible not be rushed and can possible connect a little better . With limited amps , you might just be part of the rush and can even worsen your mentality or confidence
 
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jimmythegreek

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your better off with a provider. several offer a 2 hour date that is dinner then some fun after. that would get you out of your funk. even a 90 min or 2 hr hotel visit with some food brought would work good for you. amp is service but not girlfriend type
 
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tbonewilly

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jimmythegreek said:
your better off with a provider. several offer a 2 hour date that is dinner then some fun after. that would get you out of your funk. even a 90 min or 2 hr hotel visit with some food brought would work good for you. amp is service but not girlfriend type
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Additional valid points to see a provider/indy , forgot to even mention that , couple hours of 1 on 1 time can help and would be better and you will be more of a focus point then part of an assembly line
 
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I’m going to disagree with the provider route to start and suggest a legit, albeit sensual 2-hour massage with no extras, then work your way up to provider. Consider Patty at Golden Hands.
 
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tbonewilly

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sxpm said:
I’m going to disagree with the provider route to start and suggest a legit, albeit sensual 2-hour massage with no extras, then work your way up to provider. Consider Patty at Golden Hands.
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Somewhat agree but he shouldn't put himself in a situation with limited boundaries just in case , you can still do the 2/3 hour sensual massage with many providers and hold off on the extras but in that long period of time there might be an urge for more so the option still exists. And again we do not know the severity of this guys situation, not to be insenitive but no reviews so don't really know his experiences or much about his demeanor so this makes this an odd situation , for some one to come on here and ask for this kind of help under his bullet points needs professional help out of all honesty. We can all give good advice on the strength of our experiences(and a 2 hour sensual massage sounds great right now , I envy them) and what makes us happy and keeps our mentality sane but a cry like this warrants a doctor
 
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sxpm

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Or, a sex therapist. They serve a wide variety of needs in and around intimacy.

I wasn’t aware an Indy provider could provide a professional level therapeutic sensual massage. I’d love some leads. I’ll reach out.
 
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Seeking genuine emotional support from a woman in a industry where cold hearted mercenaries thrive seems a bit misguided. I would seek legitimate psychotherapy. Finding the right fit takes patience. A competent one would try to wean you of the meds. Also a personal program of physical fitness (at least one hour a day) does provide a physical and mental strengthening. I’ve been close to where you are. Also stay away from alcohol. It’s a depressant. This isn’t a game. It’s your life. YOUR
 
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this can be a very dangerous area . if you become attached to a particular girl you can experience high degrees of jealousy or bipolar type fantasies and spend 1000 a week on a girl which she will most likely take advantage of your situation , you could start stalking at night seeing how many guys are going in and developing all types of scenarios of what your girl is doing inside . keep away and go for professional help asap . she is not going to help ! if its 2am and you become uncomfortable go to the emergency room . they are not looking for clients they will help you on the spot . best of luck .
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<<if you become attached to a particular girl you can experience high degrees of jealousy or bipolar type fantasies and spend 1000 a week on a girl which she will most likely take advantage of your situation , you could start stalking at night seeing how many guys are going in and developing all types of scenarios of what your girl is doing inside>>

So you’ve heard... :)
 
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I almost want to suggest seeing a kind loving MMS. If you can find one. In their many years they have seen and experienced it all. They are also very good at showing customers kindness.
 
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East Lake II

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OlderGuy77 said:
Seeking genuine emotional support from a woman in a industry where cold hearted mercenaries thrive seems a bit misguided. I would seek legitimate psychotherapy. Finding the right fit takes patience. A competent one would try to wean you of the meds. Also a personal program of physical fitness (at least one hour a day) does provide a physical and mental strengthening. I’ve been close to where you are. Also stay away from alcohol. It’s a depressant. This isn’t a game. It’s your life. YOUR
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Where cold hearted mercenaries thrive, is absolutely correct and something to keep in mind. Doesn’t mean they all are, but there are enough of them. They will feign concern but really they are concerned about one thing.
 
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Gentle Jim

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Depression is a tough one and with the Covid ramping up again only more people will suffer from it. There are some great medications out there that can really help you. Also mentioned was perhaps a casual non sexual massage . While getting massaged try to talk to the masseuse , frequently complimenting her . At the completion of the service both you and her should feel better. Good Luck !
 
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crankyankee

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angryman82 said:
Been mulling over this and figured to post while there's an ounce of audacity...

I could make this a 12 paragraph 'dear diary' but I'll spare you that and preface with bullet points so you can get why I ask...

*diagnosed w/severe depression
*numerous hysteria meltdowns
*two antidepressants
*touch deprivation
*loneliness
*deaths
*racing thoughts including suicide
*self inflicted psych pain

(Yeah 2020 sucked)

...which leads me to ask...

in the central NJ area are there any amp places that you can recommend where you really felt legit 'tenderly nurtured' and *that aspect* superceded the ummm ..'the extra stuff' typically sought after on here?

just ...tired of a cold world...the 'single servingness' of things (Fight Club reference, yeah) ... looking for comfort but in a different way ...

I'm indifferent as to if 'extras' are a definite or not at all
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I think amps will only make your condition worse honestly. I would recommend a good therapist or some sort of spiritual guidance... try meditation, watch some alan watts videos, this is a good one
this is the best introduction to meditation i know of
good luck
 
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angryman82

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headsup said:
I think you are referring to GFE (Girl Friend Experience). I would hint at what you want over the phone and be prepared to make a decent presentation and required offering in person. Good luck, there is never a guarantee on what the experience will be like. Just like real life.
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Yeah that's true. Knowing me of be embarrassed as heck to be like "hey pretend to b
tbonewilly said:
Sorry to hear of your situation and this past year has been rough on a lot of people. Professional help might be better suited before searching for comfort. The wrong amp girl can do more damage , eat you alive and push you over the edge. Guys use a million different lines to therapists so if you tried telling them your situation , they might just think it's another line. But at the same time you never know but when your talking about one's life , it can be a big risk to take . If this is a route you wana take , i would say go with a indy with lesser traffic and this way possible not be rushed and can possible connect a little better . With limited amps , you might just be part of the rush and can even worsen your mentality or confidence
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Hmm. That's a deep answer. I appreciate that. And I can see what you mean. A couple times I've learned in to rest my head against their shoulder just really yearning for that only to hear *fap fap oh baby oh yeah* while trying to block it out my mind.
 
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