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Do any of you guys seriously date providers with the intention of having a long term serious romantic relationship?
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Yeah, the longest was with a totally legit masseuse but I had another with a provider who was not Chinese but had been educated in China and we clicked politically. She had legitimate reasons for choosing a quick but dodgy means of earning money. Ultimately I just gave up on this hobby, too many such cases. My only advice would be for somebody paying, more than the house fee at least. They should reexamine.
What I have noticed is if you are seeing an amp worker and you take the relationship to the next level, you get sex for free but not the massage. Over the years I've dated 3 different girls, I've had a lot of fun. I think some of the girls are looking for a green card and maybe some want a steady boyfriend. I think once they spread their legs once it becomes easier for them to do it for the money. If you're willing to accept the fact that she is having sex with other guys enjoy the time you have together. Don't get to caught up in the relationship because one day it will end, some sooner than others. Ps It's all about the money with these girls. If you're paying for it you are not dating them.
Dating these women cost far more than paying for sex. At least that cost is capped and is transactional. If you date them, you have to pay for the restaurant, the activity (like a couples massage and the cost of the hotel).
In my experience, you dont date them to save money. When there is some connection other than money, the sex is way better (for both parties).
In my experience, you dont date them to save money. When there is some connection other than money, the sex is way better (for both parties).
Never cost me a lot of money, they would pay for the restaurant and we would go back to my house and fuck all night. Now after they are done for the night she comes back to my house showers and we have sex and go to sleep, I take her back to the spa in the morning. It's a good relationship if you can get it. I'm in a relationship that I know is temporary so I enjoy the moment, I know when she is working she is having sex with other people I'm not planning on marrying her so it's all good.
Assuming the girl in question is young thin and pretty, it's really not something that a guy can alter unless he is willing to lower his standards.
The only way she will like you more than you like her is if she thinks she can't do better than you.
Meaning that she finds you so attractive that she is not interested in other guys.
If a guy is in the 10/9/8 range, this is easy. Or, I suppose, if he is a 1%er with a mansion and a yacht. Or if she has a fetish for certain types and you happen to meet it (musician, criminal, club manager, etc...).
If not, then the only way a girl will like him more than he likes her is if she is less attractive then he is.
And I think most guys who routinely pay for sex would not want a 6 or below or some middle aged woman - as he could get that for free if he wanted it.
Just IMO of course.
The only way she will like you more than you like her is if she thinks she can't do better than you.
Meaning that she finds you so attractive that she is not interested in other guys.
If a guy is in the 10/9/8 range, this is easy. Or, I suppose, if he is a 1%er with a mansion and a yacht. Or if she has a fetish for certain types and you happen to meet it (musician, criminal, club manager, etc...).
If not, then the only way a girl will like him more than he likes her is if she is less attractive then he is.
And I think most guys who routinely pay for sex would not want a 6 or below or some middle aged woman - as he could get that for free if he wanted it.
Just IMO of course.
Most amp workers are middle age, Asian women usually look younger than they are. There is nothing wrong with a good looking middle age woman especially since I'm a little older than middle age. Happy hunting and don't get to emotionally involved, enjoy what you have while you have it. When it ends so be it and on to the next adventure.
I had a local AMP girl that would really DFK me and tell me she wanted me to be her BF as we had something special. Said she hasn't had sex in years and wanted to visit me at my house. Her shop was R&T only. So she did start visiting and I guess she really needed it, but no massage only what she wanted and she would ask for payment. So I told her from now on if you come to my house not is because I am your fill-in BF (I am married) and I am not paying you. When I visit at the shop I will pay and tip as normal. She visited one more time for free, then only wanted to see me in the AMP. Kind of funny and I bet she found another safe guy to visit for her fun and get paid. She keeps texting me when will I visit her.
Certainly not in the beginning. But, life happens. You start doing little things for them; they show their appreciation in many small and big ways. You start spending time with them out of the spa and they start trusting you with more and more. You spend extended time with each other and before you know it feelings have developed. Most often her feelings for you or her need of your assistance is more than you feel her.
So I'm reading this topic now for the last week or more, and it's been in my head. I kind of thought like why would anyone get sucked into this kind of nonsense, trying to date a provider, trying to change a provider, kidding themselves that a provider wants to be dating. But in the last month, a specific provider i have been seeing for a few months in her store has been sucking me in.
Began with some chatting, then personal chatting, both at her store, then texting during business hours, then texting after business hours, sometimes for hours. Ok, this is not so bad, of course. But last two visits, something is different. You guys who have either willingly or not been sucked into GFE that became a real date, and ended either when you realized she was making it realer than you want, or you realized you thought it was realer than it was, pls advice me.
Now, she does things in her store with me that I have not seen in any review or heard in any PM or any discussion. As well, she calls me pet names, not like "baby" or the usual AMP-names. And then this last visit, it turned into her cooking me dinner in her store, and a shower together in her store after closing, and then she invited me, I can't be positive that she was serious, to follow her to her home. I played it off and she didn't pursue, and I went home. She texted me profusely for the rest of the night, lots of super sexual things.
I'm not stupid, I've been doing this a long time and fended off many girls who seemed more interested than I was. But I am interested in this one, and I don't care that she jerks dudes off, and I have no interest in changing her situation or mine. Am interested in dating her, but I have strict limits, i.e. I'm married and that is not going to change. I wonder, any of you who have been in this spot, sure there are many of you, am I wrong in pursuing, am I reading her wrong and she just wants to have additional pay sessions outside her store, should I just go for it and enjoy then ghost her if I don't like where it's heading? PM if is more appropriate. Thanks in advance.
Began with some chatting, then personal chatting, both at her store, then texting during business hours, then texting after business hours, sometimes for hours. Ok, this is not so bad, of course. But last two visits, something is different. You guys who have either willingly or not been sucked into GFE that became a real date, and ended either when you realized she was making it realer than you want, or you realized you thought it was realer than it was, pls advice me.
Now, she does things in her store with me that I have not seen in any review or heard in any PM or any discussion. As well, she calls me pet names, not like "baby" or the usual AMP-names. And then this last visit, it turned into her cooking me dinner in her store, and a shower together in her store after closing, and then she invited me, I can't be positive that she was serious, to follow her to her home. I played it off and she didn't pursue, and I went home. She texted me profusely for the rest of the night, lots of super sexual things.
I'm not stupid, I've been doing this a long time and fended off many girls who seemed more interested than I was. But I am interested in this one, and I don't care that she jerks dudes off, and I have no interest in changing her situation or mine. Am interested in dating her, but I have strict limits, i.e. I'm married and that is not going to change. I wonder, any of you who have been in this spot, sure there are many of you, am I wrong in pursuing, am I reading her wrong and she just wants to have additional pay sessions outside her store, should I just go for it and enjoy then ghost her if I don't like where it's heading? PM if is more appropriate. Thanks in advance.
