Dating Providers

[Shakedown]

How do you guys start dating providers? Do you just ask them out during a session?

Yes

 

[East Lake II]

Dated a couple never at the same time and none during covid. I tend to enter relationships and just be with one woman at a time. I don't know some juggle more than one.

One provider was from Hong Kong. Dated for a few months and avoided the AMP she worked from. Took her out during her birthday weekend not knowing she was going back home soon. Never said goodbye. We still communicate thru wechat.

Another was Korean. I knew this relationship was ending when she gifted me a nice pair of dress boots.
https://www.gone2korea.com/5-korean-superstitions-you-should-probably-know-about/#:~:text=1.,away' from their significant other.

Interesting read. Thanks. Giving shoes must mean something different to the Chinese. One gave me some shoes and said, it’s time for you to walk a different path, a path with only me.

 

[East Lake II]

It happened to me. I went to spend a weekend with another provider I knew from nyc and she actually knew one of the ones I was dating. They live in the same flushing neighborhood and my name came up. This was back in January so pre-covid. I’m recently separated so having a bit of fun for now.

You would be surprised who knows who and how fast information travels. I’m always amazed to find out that one I have seen once knows those I have seen several times over many years.

 

[East Lake II]

For me amp talent tends to get "attached" and i ve had better luck with indies who arent jaded and more americanized.

Good point. They are either already attached or looking to get attached. Those looking to get attached will latch on quite fiercely and become very demanding very quick. Demanding of your time.

 

[East Lake II]

How do you guys start dating providers? Do you just ask them out during a session?

That’s one way, often they will ask you out.

 

[MikenoLegend]

what are indies ? where can i find them lol

No mp... should have added agencies also

 

[Dev3800]

That’s one way, often they will ask you out.

Maybe if you’re very good looking haha

 

[luvduv80]

Good point. They are either already attached or looking to get attached. Those looking to get attached will latch on quite fiercely and become very demanding very quick. Demanding of your time.

I think a lot of them want out of the game and simply want to hitch onto someone who they “like”. One of the ladies I wouldn’t say that she was jealous - she would drink a lot and then text call text some really bipolar shit. Some of them like to drink a lot but that’s another line of discussion I guess.

 

[Dev3800]

I think a lot of them want out of the game and simply want to hitch onto someone who they “like”. One of the ladies I wouldn’t say that she was jealous - she would drink a lot and then text call text some really bipolar shit. Some of them like to drink a lot but that’s another line of discussion I guess.

Are the women you’ve dated typically older (40-50)?

 

[luvduv80]

Are the women you’ve dated typically older (40-50)?

No. All under 40.

 

[이 회장님]

Dated a couple never at the same time and none during covid. I tend to enter relationships and just be with one woman at a time. I don't know some juggle more than one.

One provider was from Hong Kong. Dated for a few months and avoided the AMP she worked from. Took her out during her birthday weekend not knowing she was going back home soon. Never said goodbye. We still communicate thru wechat.

Another was Korean. I knew this relationship was ending when she gifted me a nice pair of dress boots.
https://www.gone2korea.com/5-korean-superstitions-you-should-probably-know-about/#:~:text=1.,away' from their significant other.

The shoe-giving superstition doesn’t exist among the younger generation (under 40). Get a Korean girl a pair of Gucci’s and she will be giving you a BBBJCIM while you’re watching NBA highlights on TNT. lol.

But the other superstitions mentioned in the link does still exist.

 

[Sewage2003]

A little off topic but these posts got me thinking.
I’ve had two SW chicks try and latch on to me. One was an Indy provider originally from São Paulo Brasil. The other was a Colombian civvie who danced part time. Both went after it with gusto. Texting daily, voracious sex drive, cook for me, everything ... for 6 weeks. Then they moved on. Hope for a green card and a chump with Benjamins is a powerful motivator.

Dating AMP girls sounds like swimming with sharks.

 

[ScoobyDooFan]

I had one that I’ve seen a few times ask me to take her home. She would say take me to visit your family. I will cook for you and clean your house. This was an Amp that was strictly R&T, but I’m sure I could’ve gotten FS from her. I always thought she was kidding, buy after reading these responses, I’m not so sure. The other girls there wouldn’t even let you grab their boob, this one would take off her bra and shove her nipples in my mouth.

 

[East Lake II]

I had one that I’ve seen a few times ask me to take her home. She would say take me to visit your family. I will cook for you and clean your house. This was an Amp that was strictly R&T, but I’m sure I could’ve gotten FS from her. I always thought she was kidding, buy after reading these responses, I’m not so sure. The other girls there wouldn’t even let you grab their boob, this one would take off her bra and shove her nipples in my mouth.

Based on what you shared, she was dead serious.

 

[East Lake II]

“Hope for a green card and a chump with Benjamins is a powerful motivator.”

For some, It’s the prime motivator.

 

[Toaster456]

“Hope for a green card and a chump with Benjamins is a powerful motivator.”

For some, It’s the prime motivator.

If she wants a green card from me, she has to pay me. At least $10k just in case she leaves me. Nothing personal, only business.

 

[luvduv80]

A little off topic but these posts got me thinking.
I’ve had two SW chicks try and latch on to me. One was an Indy provider originally from São Paulo Brasil. The other was a Colombian civvie who danced part time. Both went after it with gusto. Texting daily, voracious sex drive, cook for me, everything ... for 6 weeks. Then they moved on. Hope for a green card and a chump with Benjamins is a powerful motivator.

Dating AMP girls sounds like swimming with sharks.

Agreed!

 

[js9854]

How do you guys start dating providers? Do you just ask them out during a session?

You'd be surprised at how some of them would be willing to "meet outside." I've been asked out a few times but didnt take them seriously at the time as it was my first few times mongering. I would advise never to bother with a single provider. The possessive/bipolar thing is definitely real. If she's married, its much easier since it usually wont go anywhere beyond fun.

 

[이 회장님]

If she wants a green card from me, she has to pay me. At least $10k just in case she leaves me. Nothing personal, only business.

The market is now at $70K. You get $35K upfront and then the remaining $35K after she receives it.

A year ago, the market was at $50K.

 

[Steampipe]

The market is now at $70K. You get $35K upfront and then the remaining $35K after she receives it.

A year ago, the market was at $50K.

wow! I need to get one of those lined up.