After many sessions with the same provider for over a period of year, She begin to call me and ask me if I could take her to Walmart and pick up a few supplies. I did oblige. She actually lived at the spa and did not drive.. She would ask me to come over have dinner on occasions that she prepared in the back room where a make shift kitchen was set up. I was akin to a small efficiency apartment. She did have a bedroom, in the corner of the spa with just a small twin bed and a dresser with a small closet. I was single so I had no issues with doing this. She ask me to help her with her taxes and at the time the government was giving out stimulus checks and she ask me to help her to see if she got hers. It was quite odd because of the language barrier. She showed me her W-2 form, and I will tell you, the owner was not paying her squat. so I assume all the money she did earn was from the tips she received . She was a really nice person. There is so much more to this story, but I really wanted to write a bit of this to see if anyone else has had this experience. I am sure some have.
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Date a provider.
- Thread starter Mbennett
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You're single, she's single. If you guys truly hit it off and get into a romantic relationship, I see no problem with it - provided you can handle her continuing her job, or you are able to provide for her and she can leave the job.
It is a sad story that the therapists are paid very little and absolutely rely on tips to survive.
It is a sad story that the therapists are paid very little and absolutely rely on tips to survive.
There's nothing wrong with spending time with the girls that work at the spas. I have been exclusively dating massage girls for the last 15 years. There are a couple rules that I always stick to. Once I make the connection and feel like there's something mutual going on that is the end of the financial transaction. Once we decide to go out and date I do not go back to the spa and pay her for the service as a client. Secondly I do not allow myself to fall in love with these girls. I usually at any given time have 3 to 4 girls that I spend time with. It's very easy to manage the relationships because for the most part they do not drive and they live at the spa so there's nobody popping in or surprising you you can manage your time very easily with them. If they're staying with me for a week that is our time together and we act any other couple that lives together. When that time is up she goes and does what she has to do and I go and do what I have to do and there's no questions. The toughest obstacles are of course the Christmas holidays and Valentine's Day but once you get past them it's clear sailing. Some of the girls I've known for over 6 years and we have a great relationship. You just have to be careful with these girls because they are and can be amazing actresses and they really need somebody in their life because of the language barrier. I've met some very nice good hearted women that are truly amazing and I've also known other ones that just want money. You can usually weed them out pretty quickly. So I would say absolutely go for it if you make a connection but just be smart about it. Good luck
I'm not a tax expert - so I could be way off - but how do you receive a W2 and file federal income taxes without a social security number?
I assume (probably inaccurately) that most AMP workers arrive on the shores of America with a work/student/vacation VISA granting them temporary permission to be in America, not pay wage taxes.
I assume (probably inaccurately) that most AMP workers arrive on the shores of America with a work/student/vacation VISA granting them temporary permission to be in America, not pay wage taxes.