Okay, I've done some research, spoken to several of you off-line and consulted a Pro who I made friends with but have never met her. I'm not a professional client by any means but this is what I'm thinking after wasting $250 during my last cuddle session where I got a hotel as well. Some things to think about:
--Very very few of these host as most want a lot of money and expect you to either host in your place or get a hotel. Both bad options for me for many reasons including the last place taking my drivers license and god knows what else
--You cannot ask what type of services as they will ban you and the girl so due diligence is tricky. It's a 100% waste of time to show up blind hoping for a good session. These girls can entice you into thinking more is available and several hundred dollars later, you may get lucky or more likely not as the charter of the site is plutonic only. -I'm not willing to leave my hard earned money to chance. I don't mean to be a jerk but we all work hard for our money and as long as both sides are going in eyes wide open as to the business transaction, I'm good with it. I'm very respectful to all of them and adore to their boundaries. However, I have my needs as well and both sides to be happy as this is make no bones about it, a business transaction
-while a plutonic cuddle is very nice, it's not so nice when you are paying hundreds of dollars to hold someone. From experience, I'm not interested in that and feel like shit afterwards so I no longer want to be dissatisfied.
-Suggestion: Converse online with the provider. Feel them out and then let them know that you are going to book something further out just so you can exchange numbers and have a due diligence call. If they don't agree to a due diligence call or want to be paid to speak for 5 mts. walk away from them. Many will agree to the due diligence all as it's for both your safety. During the call, ask all your questions respectfully to ensure all sides understand the upcoming session and what one can expect. Everyone's expectations are different and as long as you are comfortable with the promised services, move forward with the cuddle session. If you don't like what you hear, simply cancel the appointment and make sure there are no cancelation fees.
-be respectful and hopefully this can work out to a good business transaction for both parties.
-Please private message me with your findings and I will gladly share what I discover
