Guys:
I used to dabble in the hobby, would indulge a small handful of times a year for about 10 years when I was single, when I was in a relationship I didn't really have the need to monger. During the pandemic I was single for almost 18 months. Once these places opened I was going often, really got into it, budgeted it, and loved it. I have been with a great girl for 6 months and I was being satisfied regularly.I love this girl but like all relationships things wane. I shouldn't complain, still going at it about twice a week. With this drop I've felt a strong urge to work in some mongering again.
This girl is open and European. She knows I used to engage in the hobby up until we started dating and had 0 problem with it. She's also not an uninhibited libertine freak on a leash, conservative and professional woman. I don't like to cheat and wouldn't. I'm considering asking her for permission to monger again. I honestly don't know how she will react. Have any of you guys had this conversation with your wife or girlfriend? Do any of you have an arrangement in your relationship? Is this just a terrible idea?
I'm 32, she's 34 and we are both conventionally attractive.
I used to dabble in the hobby, would indulge a small handful of times a year for about 10 years when I was single, when I was in a relationship I didn't really have the need to monger. During the pandemic I was single for almost 18 months. Once these places opened I was going often, really got into it, budgeted it, and loved it. I have been with a great girl for 6 months and I was being satisfied regularly.I love this girl but like all relationships things wane. I shouldn't complain, still going at it about twice a week. With this drop I've felt a strong urge to work in some mongering again.
This girl is open and European. She knows I used to engage in the hobby up until we started dating and had 0 problem with it. She's also not an uninhibited libertine freak on a leash, conservative and professional woman. I don't like to cheat and wouldn't. I'm considering asking her for permission to monger again. I honestly don't know how she will react. Have any of you guys had this conversation with your wife or girlfriend? Do any of you have an arrangement in your relationship? Is this just a terrible idea?
I'm 32, she's 34 and we are both conventionally attractive.