Buzz kill or just move on?

[Woodstockln62]

Hey fellow mongers. Just wanted ur opinion abt a situation I ran into and wanted to see what others wld have done?

To preface this, let me begin by saying:
1. I monger a decent amount both pre and post covid, I am a regular at a few of the more prominent places that are reviewed in NYC and Flushing.
2. I had seen this particular gal at another agency 2yrs back
3. We speak the same language other than English

So I enter the spa, go thru covid precautions and am greeted by the gal. Its been 2yrs so she takes a bit to notice and then quickly bursts into laughter and communicates in our common language.

Post shower we go for some nice bbbj action and then all of the sudden things go South.

The gal keeps preventing me from any form of mutual fun(she washed me from head to toe in the shower) but wont let me touch her(my hands were clean and i usually use rubber to finger pros so that I dont hurt them)
Then, After some back and forth abt mutual play NOT being on the menu, I just say fck it and ask for the cover.
The. For the final icing on the cake, the gal puts the cover on me but keeps trying to explain how she needs an extra $ for the penetration....

I was FURIOUS. She knows I use this spa often and yet she had the balls to try and upsell me on the spot... TOTAL BUZZ KILL for me. I just quietly climbed off and started to put my clothes on. She kept asking for another chance and I just said forget it and walked out.

Ended up super blue balled lol
but left me curious, what was the right move?

 

[Freakedoutnow]

Walk out. Call MMS and ask for an explanation.

 

[The REAL Bxbrown]

@Woodstockln62 you played this the right way.

 

[br2k]

You made the right move.

 

[T8t8t]

Sometimes, you just have to cut your loses.

 

[Shonuff]

My honest move would have been bailing and calling up PH immediately...already did it 3 times. Night saved!

 

[이 회장님]

Everyone here is right— cut your losses and move on.

Unfortunately, sh*t happens to all of us.

 

[Uniquelyme]

@Woodstockln62 at a spa where the mms is there. I wouldve called out for the mms while I was there. I would've told mms I want my money back and have seen another pro there.

She's trying to get over cause she knows you are not going to do much about it.

I get ymmv but this is another level. Especially being you are a regular.

 

[Woodstockln62]

Thx for those of u who provided support! Glad that the “monger power houses” that are regulars among these threads felt the same as I did.
For the record, I did ask mms but she was just as confused and we spoke on the phone after to resolve a few things....

for those of you that were kind enuf to comment, PM me and happy to share where and who this happened with so you can avoid the same issue!!
Thx again all!

Btw @Shonuff , I have done that a bunch of times as well to head to PH but just cldnt get in that day.... ended up trying to walk into a few other spots and eventually gave up ha

 

[Freakedoutnow]

You gave up? No dedication in you.

 

[Alvin Lee]

You did it right - you don’t want to kick too hard - the mms talks to other places - you could be black listed as a trouble maker - the girl will say anything to the mms to keep her job - say you stole money or hurt her- you were smart to just leave -

And smarter if you doubled down and called GoGo

Last week I got the call you don’t want - contact tracer someone I know got kissed with the bug - I’m on day 9 of 14 day quarantine - got tested don’t have it - at least it’s too cold for mongering next five days ....

Hey what happened to Hannah at GoGo ? She gone gone?

 

[PapaChen]

Ah. Tough spot you found yourself in.
You leave and burn that bridge with that provider or talk to her and see what changed, if the reason is valid your next move is to accept it and try to save the hour or make the decision to walk.
I understand that it was an upsetting situation and a disappointment as well especially since when she saw you, you thought this was going to be great based on your history.
you know her well, could she had an off day?
not making excuses, just trying to relate and understand why she acted that way.

Will you go back to that place to see another provider?

 

[Homegrownmonger]

Hey fellow mongers. Just wanted ur opinion abt a situation I ran into and wanted to see what others wld have done?

To preface this, let me begin by saying:
1. I monger a decent amount both pre and post covid, I am a regular at a few of the more prominent places that are reviewed in NYC and Flushing.
2. I had seen this particular gal at another agency 2yrs back
3. We speak the same language other than English

So I enter the spa, go thru covid precautions and am greeted by the gal. Its been 2yrs so she takes a bit to notice and then quickly bursts into laughter and communicates in our common language.

Post shower we go for some nice bbbj action and then all of the sudden things go South.

The gal keeps preventing me from any form of mutual fun(she washed me from head to toe in the shower) but wont let me touch her(my hands were clean and i usually use rubber to finger pros so that I dont hurt them)
Then, After some back and forth abt mutual play NOT being on the menu, I just say fck it and ask for the cover.
The. For the final icing on the cake, the gal puts the cover on me but keeps trying to explain how she needs an extra $ for the penetration....

I was FURIOUS. She knows I use this spa often and yet she had the balls to try and upsell me on the spot... TOTAL BUZZ KILL for me. I just quietly climbed off and started to put my clothes on. She kept asking for another chance and I just said forget it and walked out.

Ended up super blue balled lol
but left me curious, what was the right move?

Four words...same passport, new owner

 

[Woodstockln62]

sry to hear abt the call. Hope you are safe @Alvin Lee

 

[Shonuff]

You did it right - you don’t want to kick too hard - the mms talks to other places - you could be black listed as a trouble maker - the girl will say anything to the mms to keep her job - say you stole money or hurt her- you were smart to just leave -

And smarter if you doubled down and called GoGo

Last week I got the call you don’t want - contact tracer someone I know got kissed with the bug - I’m on day 9 of 14 day quarantine - got tested don’t have it - at least it’s too cold for mongering next five days ....

Hey what happened to Hannah at GoGo ? She gone gone?

she is working there today. You can never really rely on the website to see if a girl quit or not. All you can do is check the twitter and see what they have for the day.

PS it is never ever too cold to monger ffs!

 

[Alvin Lee]

sry to hear abt the call. Hope you are safe @Alvin Lee

I’m ok just it’s a tad scary

 

[Alvin Lee]

she is working there today. You can never really rely on the website to see if a girl quit or not. All you can do is check the twitter and see what they have for the day.

PS it is never ever too cold to monger ffs!

Twitter good idea