Breaking in a Provider

[Sharkey1]

Anyone lose interest in a girl after breaking her in?

For example I was going to a semilegit place for a while. Spent a lot of time with one girl, who didn’t even do HE. Over time, got her to give HE - was able to tell it was her first because she was nervous from the noise tearing off a sheet of paper towel to cleanup. Then started DFK, and then playing with and licking nips a few sessions in.

Eventually got her to give BBBJ. Was able to tell it was her first time because it was horrible - didn’t feel much, just fit my head, and had to assist with a HJ to finish the job. She didn’t seem to know what to do after CIM.

Went back sometime later, and she gave BBBJ again, but this time she knew exactly when I was going to shoot, and pulled out so I shot over her shoulder - did it twice in the same session. So I figure after I broke her in, she applied these skills to others to earn more cash. Lost interest in getting extras after that - following session I declined all extras. Then just stopped seeing her.

Perhaps it’s not fair to expect services to remain exclusive.

 

[SuperLoverN]

Never expect that any of these girls are not doing the same or more for other guys as they do for you.

 

[mayfair2]

There are 10 of us getting the girls to do more and more…. You’re welcome lol

Don’t tell me that you believe “only for you”.

 

[SuperLoverN]

And, there may be more on the menu than you’re aware. I recently told a repeat girl (Indy) - I got the sense you’re not into Greek last time. She’s like no I love it. 20 min later I was tapping that A. WITH NO UPCHARGE!

Be a caveman - I got a fat juicy beast I just hunted and killed, you want to eat, back it up.

 

[gaga273]

Indy provider? flushing? queens?
where is the review?
i travel for good talent....

 

[mayfair2]

Psychology of a monger who “broke in” a provider on sharing.

1. it’s a semilegit place and not the norm to get extras so sharing could cause problems

2. He doesn’t review her because he wants to keep it on the DL. For the girl and so he can continue to enjoy her as it’s just for him and no one else

3. Now that he’s “done” with her, he may share but then see #1

 

[OnTheHunt1980]

Anyone lose interest in a girl after breaking her in?

For example I was going to a semilegit place for a while. Spent a lot of time with one girl, who didn’t even do HE. Over time, got her to give HE - was able to tell it was her first because she was nervous from the noise tearing off a sheet of paper towel to cleanup. Then started DFK, and then playing with and licking nips a few sessions in.

Eventually got her to give BBBJ. Was able to tell it was her first time because it was horrible - didn’t feel much, just fit my head, and had to assist with a HJ to finish the job. She didn’t seem to know what to do after CIM.

Went back sometime later, and she gave BBBJ again, but this time she knew exactly when I was going to shoot, and pulled out so I shot over her shoulder - did it twice in the same session. So I figure after I broke her in, she applied these skills to others to earn more cash. Lost interest in getting extras after that - following session I declined all extras. Then just stopped seeing her.

Perhaps it’s not fair to expect services to remain exclusive.

I can't believe I am reading this. Were you born yesterday???

 

[CaptainBoner]

I am going to be as kind as I can.

It is naive to think that a woman who offers physical comfort to a man in exchange for money, would only offer it to one man.

On the HIGHLY unlikely chance that the TC actually 'broke the seal' and got a legit massage therapist to give extras for a fee... once you break that seal, it's broken for good. Prior to being "broken in" she probably viewed doing extras for money as 'dirty' and 'beneath her' she probably thought she would think less of herself for doing it.

But congratulations you broke her in and she now doesn't view doing extras as a bad thing... so now she views it as a way to make money. Well why would she limit her ability to make money to just one man.

If you want a woman who will only do extras with you get a wife or girlfriend (she might not either). But with these ladies if she does it for 1 she does it for 10 (at least).

 

[TKA9]

I am going to be as kind as I can.

It is naive to think that a woman who offers physical comfort to a man in exchange for money, would only offer it to one man.

On the HIGHLY unlikely chance that the TC actually 'broke the seal' and got a legit massage therapist to give extras for a fee... once you break that seal, it's broken for good. Prior to being "broken in" she probably viewed doing extras for money as 'dirty' and 'beneath her' she probably thought she would think less of herself for doing it.

But congratulations you broke her in and she now doesn't view doing extras as a bad thing... so now she views it as a way to make money. Well why would she limit her ability to make money to just one man.

If you want a woman who will only do extras with you get a wife or girlfriend (she might not either). But with these ladies if she does it for 1 she does it for 10 (at least).

So, so true as many mongers need to believe their favorite provider only gives extras to them and fail in seeing that if a provider gives extras to just three clients a day at 6 times a week for 100 that’s 1800 a week or close to 100k a year.

 

[Maple Garden]

I’ve lost interest when a really good legit provider starts offering more and gets upset when I tell her all I want from her is a good massage.

 

[johnny5live]

I broke in my go-to for the last 10yrs, took about a year and half to go from HE to full GFE love making... loved her ever since.

 

[AmituofoNY]

sounds like you were hustled into spending thousands of dollars to get a BJ from a lower volume middle age'd pro...

 

[Sharkey1]

I am going to be as kind as I can.

It is naive to think that a woman who offers physical comfort to a man in exchange for money, would only offer it to one man.

On the HIGHLY unlikely chance that the TC actually 'broke the seal' and got a legit massage therapist to give extras for a fee... once you break that seal, it's broken for good. Prior to being "broken in" she probably viewed doing extras for money as 'dirty' and 'beneath her' she probably thought she would think less of herself for doing it.

But congratulations you broke her in and she now doesn't view doing extras as a bad thing... so now she views it as a way to make money. Well why would she limit her ability to make money to just one man.

If you want a woman who will only do extras with you get a wife or girlfriend (she might not either). But with these ladies if she does it for 1 she does it for 10 (at least).

Think this is exactly it. I guess there’s the thrill of being the first one (if that really was the case). Then move on.

 

[AmituofoNY]

Think this is exactly it. I guess there’s the thrill of being the first one (if that really was the case). Then move on.

The thrill was from her breaking you in.

 

[BigBootiesMakeMeLoco]

definitely been thru something like this but I wasnt naive enough to think I was the first. So after 5 visits, once every 2 weeks, each session going a tad bit further with a better tip each time.....she broke character!

 

[jjchobby]

You are never the first to do anything with these girls. Once I realized that, it made this much more transactional than anything else.

 

[TKA9]

You are never the first to do anything with these girls. Once I realized that, it made this much more transactional than anything else.

Amen! Yes, some customers get a slight discount or better session with DFK but no provider is only let one customer cim, dfk etc.Never fall in love ir think you’re special because right before you enter the spa one of us just cim of your special provider.I remember one provider telling me she would never date a client and twice I saw her with older dudes at Park Sude-lol.

 

[Sharkey1]

I agree that most of these women have done many deeds with multitudes of men in the past. But in the case I mentioned, she was extremely cautious of any noise she made, including tearing paper for cleanup (interesting to note that the second time she gave BBBJ, she had pre cut paper towels for quick access). Maybe she did this at a prior spa and didn’t know the lay of the land there (she was actually the first that went beyond therapeutic for me there). She was late 20’s when I met her, so even if I didn’t “break her in,” still not a bad experience.

 

[Pags]

Well, I guess I’m special…..lol….I was going to a place every couple of weeks and I picked the same girl 3 times in a row. Each time getting more “extras”. On the next & fourth time visiting this place & picking her, I came prepared with a condom just thinking like we all do, she is now comfortable with me to do more. And we did more. We fucked….like lovers but trying to keep the noise down. I had never gotten more than a HJ in this place from anyone. Strictly a rub-n-tug. I continued going to this place a few more times and I always picked her and we would fuck. We exchanges numbers & I would call her to tell her I was coming and sometimes she would call me asking me to come by. One of her coworkers left this place to work some where else and I had a session with the ex coworker at the other place. This girl called the girl I was fucking and told her that I had a session with her, what we did,HJ, and even the amount of tip. Well, the girl I was fucking told me not to see her anymore, called me a cheater and a “cad” and I should lose her number. Weeks went by of my trying to get with her again. She would refuse to have me as a customer when I would go to the shop, arguing with her boss about it when her boss told her she had to and me walking out as I was offered other girls instead knowing that she would get more upset with me. Finally, after a few months, I hit her up on wechat, talked a bit and I met her for lunch outside of the shop. She told me she doesn’t have sex at work, only hj’s which she hates doing but the money is right and she only had sex with me. She said when she was told I visited her excoworker, she was hurt & embarrassed because she actually confided to her ex co worker as a friend. We started fucking again, but not at the shop. I took her to hotels a bunch of times. No money was asked. It ended because I started to actually have feelings, but not enough to blow up my life(married, 2 kids). …..so, it is possible to be the only one

 

[BIGBOB62]

Never forget that these girls are fundamentally actors. If they can pretend that they are climaxing, that they are enthralled with having sex with a man 50 years older than them and 50 pounds overweight, they can also pretend that they are a virgin, or that they never have done a particular sex act before. If you want to pay for that fantasy of being convinced that a girl that sucks off 5 guys a day is only doing it for you, who's to stop you? But you need a reality check if you're spending more because you think she only does for you.