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Asking out a provider

Quincast1

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Was thinking about asking the girl I see weekly out to a dinner date but don’t know how to go about it. Do I ask after the session is over? Over text? And what is she says no? Has anyone ever done this with a provider?
 

SingleMalt

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Just ask like a normal person. They will have no problem saying no to you. They say no all the time.

Just keep in mind that going out can be as friends. If you’re looking for more that’s a very complicated road to walk where you and her don’t end up pissed and unhappy. Most don’t listen but keeping it casual like fwb vibes are best long term. She’ll be a better ride but you should not try to skimp out on paying unless she specific talks about it. Otherwise they will be very offended any vengeful - justifiably.
 

BroBear

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Done it a few times, usually go out for foods and drinks, or some kind of activity, nothing unusual or sexual, unless the girl initiates. Really up to the girl, some might lead you on, because they're too afraid to say no, because they think they might lose your repeat business, but you just gotta take the hint if that's the case and leave it be. The times you do score a date, be a gentleman about it. You should figure, they're providers for a living, doubt they care to do it on their off day, they probably just want some normalcy. They might be grateful in return.
 

WanderingHands

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Yep, If you have been with a girl a few times and developed a chemistry, then it can be very nice to go out for dinner or something.
I have asked out a couple of providers, and some other providers have asked me out.
I just had dinner at the spa with one girl. They are like anyone, enjoy a good laugh, talk about travel and enjoy hugs.
If she says no to dinner, then fine. You still have the weekly meetings plus she understands that you like her.
Have fun, be respectful, it is all good.
 

green2

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FWB seems the course. Anything else is likely a disappointment as these ladies have a distorted view of men (at least the ones who've been providing for 6 or greater months)
 

AutomaticSlim

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Was thinking about asking the girl I see weekly out to a dinner date but don’t know how to go about it. Do I ask after the session is over? Over text? And what is she says no? Has anyone ever done this with a provider?
If you're paying her by the hour I'm quite sure she'll be thrilled.

FWB seems the course. Anything else is likely a disappointment as these ladies have a distorted view of men (at least the ones who've been providing for 6 or greater months)
In all honesty, after 35 years of "mongering", my view of females is quite distorted as well. Meh...
 

wil1985

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From my experience providers don’t really offer fwb cause they are fucking all day long and last thing they want to do is have sex.
2. Some won’t take you seriously as a bf because they don’t like that you know about their “secret”
3. It does work out you are in for a lot of drama. I was once chatting up with a girl at her place who wasn’t working that day and mama called her in as a last minute thing. I saw her go upstairs with a guy (she was renting the basement of the establishment) felt like a total scrub
 

이 회장님

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Was thinking about asking the girl I see weekly out to a dinner date but don’t know how to go about it. Do I ask after the session is over? Over text? And what is she says no? Has anyone ever done this with a provider?
Ask her in person. If she says no then you move on to the next girl.

Many girls have around 5 to 7 days off every month due to their period. The first few days of their week off, they catch up on sleep and run errands. So your best bet is to meet her after her period ends and she has a couple of days left before going back to work.

Be yourself, be nice and have fun. :)
 

eldiago12

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i dated a indie korean provider i mean aa friend for dinner and talk, never mixed personal life with business, as for the op is you mean a date for dinner and more than that doubtful because she knows it's all business and if something goes wrong she knows she will lose a regular if you know what I mean so in my experience they don't mix personal/business relationship. My opinion though is nice to have dinner with them even if the convo is fake lol
 
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