If that is your game plan, I think it will come off as trying to bang for free. (Despite how much it costs for going out, etc.) It's one thing if your trying to get a girlfriend or wife, but I think it is another thing to just want a fuck buddy. If you were still willing to pay when you guys bang, I think you will be able to have a gaggle of providers wanting to be friends with extras, but remember that the sex aspect is largely part of their business. Maybe you will get a discount or a few freebies here and there, but I don't think you should make it a "quid pro quo" if you want a fun, natural, and uninhibited type of friendship/relationship. Sounds more like your looking for a sugar baby without having to shell out the sugar. Lol
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Asking a provider out?
- Thread starter justinlindaddy
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I know of quite a few white indie providers who have gotten together with clients and left the business to be with them. I‘ve actually told a few providers who were really hot that I knew their days were numbered because some guy would take them off the market.
I think you should see her and ask for her private number, then just start texting her and see where it goes. There is a chance that she will want to date you, and really no harm in trying, as long as you take it slow. Just make sure to read the room.
I think you should see her and ask for her private number, then just start texting her and see where it goes. There is a chance that she will want to date you, and really no harm in trying, as long as you take it slow. Just make sure to read the room.
You’re right, some of them are high maintenance (especially the Koreans). lol. Korean amp women love to play golf.
I’ve met many Chinese and Korean amp women from all of the popular FS establishments in Manhattan, NJ and Philly and most of them are laid back, humble and just want a friend to talk with, grab a bite and drink, get some fresh air and go for a drive.
I would avoid the amp women who have an addiction to gambling. That is one very bad habit that they can never seem to get rid of.
I’ve met many Chinese and Korean amp women from all of the popular FS establishments in Manhattan, NJ and Philly and most of them are laid back, humble and just want a friend to talk with, grab a bite and drink, get some fresh air and go for a drive.
I would avoid the amp women who have an addiction to gambling. That is one very bad habit that they can never seem to get rid of.
For what it's worth, keep in mind that these women can be pretty vulnerable too
I had been a semi-regular with a popular CT girl and we were just casually chatting (via translator) after a session
I asked her if she wanted to (platonically!) hang out and we watched a movie at my place and she slept over, but she actually put the moves on me we fucked around a bit. She slept over and I made her breakfast but then she seemed to suddenly realize that there were women's clothes and bags, shoes, etc in the apartment
(I'm in an open marriage and my wife was with her girlfriend that weekend)
She honestly just sorta shut down, packed up her shit, left, and ghosted me
I think she was really hurt
Tried to explain the idea of non-monogamy to her via Google translate but I don't think it connected.
I still feel bad about it
I had been a semi-regular with a popular CT girl and we were just casually chatting (via translator) after a session
I asked her if she wanted to (platonically!) hang out and we watched a movie at my place and she slept over, but she actually put the moves on me we fucked around a bit. She slept over and I made her breakfast but then she seemed to suddenly realize that there were women's clothes and bags, shoes, etc in the apartment
(I'm in an open marriage and my wife was with her girlfriend that weekend)
She honestly just sorta shut down, packed up her shit, left, and ghosted me
I think she was really hurt
Tried to explain the idea of non-monogamy to her via Google translate but I don't think it connected.
I still feel bad about it
not for the purpose of swatting a hornets' nest! but if not too private, @justinlindaddy would you mind briefing us if you ever pursued that??
Ask her out, grab a bite and drink, have fun and go with the flow.
I have hung out with many amp women and they are all cool girls.
Just one thing to remember—if you piss her off then you are all over WeChat and Kakao news among the girls. lol.
I have hung out with many amp women and they are all cool girls.
Just one thing to remember—if you piss her off then you are all over WeChat and Kakao news among the girls. lol.
You have to feel it out. The ones I spent extra curricular activities with would feel a type of way when I visited their work and gave them tips. They would fight accepting, and one could tell they were torn. I’ll say after hours activities were always free depending on the success of the dates and it felt they were trying to make up the difference. Though, I admit the dates weren’t cheap either, ie Restaurant Guy Savoy in Vegas, fancy multi course meals, etc. Closer to real dates but you’ve already seen each other’s o-faces.
Last week I hung out with an amp girl 3x since it was her period week & never paid for her time. I took the train to flushing all 3 days. We got Chinese hot pot the first day, and she tried to split the bill. NEVER LOL. Put that wallet away. Day 2 we got kbbq buffet and while I was in the bathroom cleaning up she paid the bill, and wouldn’t accept any money from me. She then took me to her shared apartment without telling the other girls. Light cuddling & kissing here and there. Didn’t push for more since I knew she was on her time of month. Date 3 took her to a hookah lounge (she loves the nic vapes) so I wanted to show her something different and she loved the hookah lounge and then boba tea. We had a great time.
Today I see her back in her store and will tip extra to cover her paying the kbbq bill.
Getting the date wasn’t easy since she lives in her store but she was willing to spend time with me on her off week for multiple days. So start there and remember there’s a very low chance it will turn into a regular relationship, so tread lightly and enjoy the company.
Today I see her back in her store and will tip extra to cover her paying the kbbq bill.
Getting the date wasn’t easy since she lives in her store but she was willing to spend time with me on her off week for multiple days. So start there and remember there’s a very low chance it will turn into a regular relationship, so tread lightly and enjoy the company.
I was seeing a Russian Indy in her late 30s. She texted me to come see her & said she would pay me for my time (can you imagine?). Of course I didn't take any cash from her. It was a great booty call or about a year until out of nowhere she texted me that she was going back to Russia. She needed to leave because she knew the rules and broke them. She never contacted me again. What a great no strings relationship that was while it lasted.
Absolutely not. I understand that there are guys who are so lonely and desperate for companionship that they actually do pay women to hang out with them platonically; but I think that's pathetic, and I say that with compassion rather than with derision. If I see a provider socially, I treat it like a date with any other girl, which means I pay for whatever we do because I'm a gentleman. In my opinion, if a girl will only spend non-sexual time with you if it's compensated, she has zero interest in you except as an income source, and she just views your time together as another paid date, just without any actual sex.