The other thing that stands out to me, since being on this site and formerly on SH, many more guys here have a better grasp as to dealing with a favorite or provider’s in general, least seems like to me. I read on a couple other sites where guys are looking for a provider that will accommodate a specific act, for example, if a provider will do Greek, bbbj or multiple pops per session, from my experience, I’ve only had one girl suggest anal, this was after seeing her multiple times. Other than her I’ve never once had a provider or Indy offer Greek as standard menu. I’ve had girls accommodating my request many times, even when initially saying “don’t do.”
Seems like unless someone posts a review, many guys don’t have an idea how to go about getting a much better session or beyond standard extras.
Listing the specific services offered does seem to be fading ou though in the USA, likely because of the cat and mouse game with LE. Its completely normal still in Europe and Asia for them to list and differentiate between their girls right on the website in terms of things like who provides A-Level, and who provides BBBJ ,CIM or COF.
But I agree that there are many guys that dont seem to be able to manage getting the best of their sessions. It took me a long time to come around to this myself, but the way I think about this nowadays:
1. many guys still forget that this is a business and get lost thinking she is doing these sex acts because she enjoys them, or that she enjoys being with him. By and large neither of these are the main reason she does it. She's doing it for money.
2. the trick is to align the service you want (anal for instance) with the money you offer. Your choices are to either offer alot more money to get her to permit it on a one time basis, or to establish that you could be a good regular customer, but that you'll wander elsewhere if your desires arent met, even though you "like her best".
I've normally taken the approach that:
1. i'm a nice polite clean guy.
2. i want these services and will pay extra for them
3. i will go to another spa (disappear for a month) if she doesnt offer them
4. I'm not going to give her rough treatment, nor am I ever going to let other girls or mongers know that she gave me these services.
and its rare for me to have an FS girl who is not offering anal or BBBJ after a couple visits.