I saw Kia too, I think at New Century. I guess it was late 90s, early 00s, because I remember I still wore a tie. During one of her stage shows, she called me up from the front row, strapped a dildo on me over my suit pants, and had me enter her in front of the audience. Then she pulled me down and whispered how to angle my new appendage for her best sensation. Another time, I followed her into a booth, and she gave me a lesson on DATY technique (keep the tongue soft, loose and be gentle) - I've kept it in mind ever since. The last time, we had a session in her room across the street. She lit the room with candles all over, and unlocked the door so I could just walk in. She stood across the room, wearing a see through nightgown and heels, and looked at me with that sultry look. The across the room perspective with the candlelight burned an indelible image in my mind.