Anyone get a personal number before?

[Stallion00003]

The other day I was at a spa with an older provider and it was amazing. After we were done, she started telling me about her personal life and her future plans for herself. She made a point to tell me she was single. On the way out she kissed me and gave me her real name and personal number.

Not believing it was real I researched a bit and her name was real and it brought up her personal Facebook account simply by putting the number and name into google. I’ve been to many spas and this has never happened before. Has this happened to anyone else? I’m not thinking much into it but she did ask me not to share her name or place of work in any review. So I’m a little confused on what I should do with this at this point.

 

[markkennedy]

If you are no strong in your mind and the position you are within your life, I'd throw that number away and don't go back to that place. Many of the ladies have ulterior motives, and if you aren't as above, is no hard to find yourself fucked or heartbroken.

That said, go for it! I've had spa girls and MMS take me to Atlantic City for a week end or to the mountains or skiing or whatever else, and SHE PAID. Many many times. Remember as much as we can pretend in our minds, the girls are real people, and have real needs like we do. If she really IS single, or is married at home but single here, she may want what some of us want when we go to massage, someone to touch you in a gentle way with a smile, or someone who we might be able to trust with conversation, or whatever we have in our hierarchy of needs. Again be careful to keep your personal world away from her. Your job, your home town, your real phone number, even your real name, she doesn't get these. People HAVE actually fallen for spa girls and even married them and converted them, but get out a notepad and write down your plan for how to get from today to that point. Just enjoy having a FWB!

 

[SummerBreeze1010]

As long as you don’t have any expectations when engaging in relationships outside of the spa, you’ll be fine. However, like mark said, a strong mind is needed to keep yourself in check. They are human just like us and sometimes they just want an actual personal connection. Just go with the flow and enjoy the ride.

 

[Robosharkss]

I've had it happen a lot of times. Like the girls say to just contact them when they are off work in flushing so we could have dinners or hang out. I've never actually went through with it personally or contacted them because I know there is two sides of it. The ones that do come off as genuine though sometimes I do think back about it , like even as friends it'd be a fun experience lol

One side of it is, they just want you as a regular and to contact you to see when youre coming next. ( those are really easy to notice because theyll just ask about when you are coming etc )

The other side is the more genuine ones where they really do just wanna hang out and do other things when they are not working, as I said I never personally bit with this one since you can easily get suckered in by these girls lol. You have to realize that a lot of these girls say the same things to like hundreds of guys and theres tons of SIMPS out there. If youre not good at judging character, I would just be very careful to get suckered into anything.

 

[24returns]

@Stallion00003 This happens all the time!

 

[Stallion00003]

Thank you for all of this insight! I figured this must happen a bunch and I def don’t want to get suckered into anything. Have a FWB is ideal since the sex was amazing but thank you all for this advice. It seems like she is looking for FWB situation as well but I haven’t shared any personal info on my end and don’t plan too. I’ve heard of guys actually taking things further outside of the spa experience but never took that leap so I’m hesitant.

 

[Kdog33]

I've had it happen a lot of times. Like the girls say to just contact them when they are off work in flushing so we could have dinners or hang out. I've never actually went through with it personally or contacted them because I know there is two sides of it. The ones that do come off as genuine though sometimes I do think back about it , like even as friends it'd be a fun experience lol

One side of it is, they just want you as a regular and to contact you to see when youre coming next. ( those are really easy to notice because theyll just ask about when you are coming etc )

The other side is the more genuine ones where they really do just wanna hang out and do other things when they are not working, as I said I never personally bit with this one since you can easily get suckered in by these girls lol. You have to realize that a lot of these girls say the same things to like hundreds of guys and theres tons of SIMPS out there. If youre not good at judging character, I would just be very careful to get suckered into anything.

This guy nailed it pretty good you got to realize what your relationship with them is I've had over 30 girls meet me for dinners overnight hotel stays trips to a casino flushing meetings everything you can think of but I was never given any of them money for the sex even at their shops most I was in a relationship with and they never took no money from me there either three girls asked me to marry them oh and the important note they were all rub and tug I have a Rolodex of over 165 WeChat and personal numbers just use your head and think about the relationship you have with her if you're giving her money you have no personal relationship use her and don't let her use you it's that simple I recommend guys having a good relationship with a provider and using all the benefits that come around and one thing about everybody talking about trips up the Flushing at least my experience these girls live in rooms with six bunk beds and the landlords don't want Americans in there for the most part I was just up there two weeks ago R and T that I've been with for a long time invited me up we had fun on her bunk bed she brought me to that big mall and bought me lunch and a soup and whole Peking Duck to go home with she spent $80 on me dropped her off I would think it's real hard to have any kind of relationship with a FS girl and if you're paying her you're only kidding yourself

 

[DrHappy88]

I've gotten some personal numbers, sometimes because I ask and sometimes because they offer. My main reason for it is to keep in touch when the lady switches shops. I wish I had a dollar for every post I've seen on here asking where someone's ATF went because she left her shop and the poor soul didn't get her digits.

 

[Conan]

Maybe she just wants to meet you for some fun in a hotel and looking to make more money for a few hours. Without the house funds. I have had strippers at Gentleman's clubs give me their numbers just after a VIP session for possibly meeting up in a hotel. They make more money and possibly just wanted it to be more like an escort session.

 

[Stallion00003]

Hey @Conan that is what I was thinking also. This was from a Latina spa I have visited a few times but I know this girl doesn’t do escort work outside the massage place but maybe this is what she is looking for. I’m going in again this week to see her I think and I will see what happens if she brings anything up.

 

[Conan]

Hey @Conan that is what I was thinking also. This was from a Latina spa I have visited a few times but I know this girl doesn’t do escort work outside the massage place but maybe this is what she is looking for. I’m going in again this week to see her I think and I will see what happens if she brings anything up.

I agree with you. Go see her again and maybe she will bring it up. Maybe she wants you to be her 1st client and see if it works for her. Good luck.

 

[noobtothisgame]

That's the first step to becoming a great salesperson. I think you're a little vulnerable to go adventure. Once you replace nozzle when finished in gas station, you never look back.

 

[Sgtanand]

The other day I was at a spa with an older provider and it was amazing. After we were done, she started telling me about her personal life and her future plans for herself. She made a point to tell me she was single. On the way out she kissed me and gave me her real name and personal number.

Not believing it was real I researched a bit and her name was real and it brought up her personal Facebook account simply by putting the number and name into google. I’ve been to many spas and this has never happened before. Has this happened to anyone else? I’m not thinking much into it but she did ask me not to share her name or place of work in any review. So I’m a little confused on what I should do with this at this point.

She probably wants to meet you ou

This guy nailed it pretty good you got to realize what your relationship with them is I've had over 30 girls meet me for dinners overnight hotel stays trips to a casino flushing meetings everything you can think of but I was never given any of them money for the sex even at their shops most I was in a relationship with and they never took no money from me there either three girls asked me to marry them oh and the important note they were all rub and tug I have a Rolodex of over 165 WeChat and personal numbers just use your head and think about the relationship you have with her if you're giving her money you have no personal relationship use her and don't let her use you it's that simple I recommend guys having a good relationship with a provider and using all the benefits that come around and one thing about everybody talking about trips up the Flushing at least my experience these girls live in rooms with six bunk beds and the landlords don't want Americans in there for the most part I was just up there two weeks ago R and T that I've been with for a long time invited me up we had fun on her bunk bed she brought me to that big mall and bought me lunch and a soup and whole Peking Duck to go home with she spent $80 on me dropped her off I would think it's real hard to have any kind of relationship with a FS girl and if you're paying her you're only kidding yourself

very well said…I’m going through that phase…dating a provider can be a costly affair… girl I’m seeing has stopped working at these establishments and getting a legit job …

 

[Kdog33]

She probably wants to meet you ou

very well said…I’m going through that phase…dating a provider can be a costly affair… girl I’m seeing has stopped working at these establishments and getting a legit job …

My girl who I've been in a 5-year relationship she was a rub and tug just quit her job and is spending 3 weeks in New York taking classes and going for her citizenship test plans change with a so that I just moved in with I don't have the time as much as I used to. There was never a money exchange but now is the time when it would become a financial drain we were talking about getting married and as you said getting her a legit massage envy type of job and then bring her son over and I have been in this situation with a few others probably a blessing that all of the plans never went through she's an incredible woman that I'm so proud of I want to continue to support her and make sure she's safe when a pretty Chinese immigrant with everything she owns in a duffel bag tells you you're her best friend in this country it just sort of sticks

 

[farlostaccount10]

If you are no strong in your mind and the position you are within your life, I'd throw that number away and don't go back to that place. Many of the ladies have ulterior motives, and if you aren't as above, is no hard to find yourself fucked or heartbroken.

That said, go for it! I've had spa girls and MMS take me to Atlantic City for a week end or to the mountains or skiing or whatever else, and SHE PAID. Many many times. Remember as much as we can pretend in our minds, the girls are real people, and have real needs like we do. If she really IS single, or is married at home but single here, she may want what some of us want when we go to massage, someone to touch you in a gentle way with a smile, or someone who we might be able to trust with conversation, or whatever we have in our hierarchy of needs. Again be careful to keep your personal world away from her. Your job, your home town, your real phone number, even your real name, she doesn't get these. People HAVE actually fallen for spa girls and even married them and converted them, but get out a notepad and write down your plan for how to get from today to that point. Just enjoy having a FWB!

If that MMS who likes skiing is looking for a low 20s recovering degenerate monger to go skiing with and Atlantic City please pass along a referral.

 

[sjchevy]

Hey @Conan This was from a Latina spa I have visited a few times but I know this girl doesn’t do escort work outside the massage place but maybe this is what she is looking for.

You mean you *think*. You actually may be right but you don't know.

I say go for it enjoy the ride. If it progresses to more in a little while you will know.
Have fun dude!

 

[Sgtanand]

My girl who I've been in a 5-year relationship she was a rub and tug just quit her job and is spending 3 weeks in New York taking classes and going for her citizenship test plans change with a so that I just moved in with I don't have the time as much as I used to. There was never a money exchange but now is the time when it would become a financial drain we were talking about getting married and as you said getting her a legit massage envy type of job and then bring her son over and I have been in this situation with a few others probably a blessing that all of the plans never went through she's an incredible woman that I'm so proud of I want to continue to support her and make sure she's safe when a pretty Chinese immigrant with everything she owns in a duffel bag tells you you're her best friend in this country it just sort of sticks

All the best!! I’m just enjoying dating experience at my expenses

 

[Muffman]

All the best!! I’m just enjoying dating experience at my expenses

Are you dating Debbie?