Am I the only one seeing this or is this the new normal?

[n2deep]

So I hit a few places over the past week as i needed to catch up after being on hiatus .
Out of the 4 places i hit two offered me a 2nd "helping hands" towards the end of my fun filled session..
Both times my massage gal was fun,pleasent and showed no objection to my hands inside her panties but on flip language barrier
put things on hold..
my answer is i will tip you depending on how you move forward..
i was not looking for FS but a good HJ with all the trimmings.
2nd lady enters and she can at least communicate.
As she teases my ears,chest and talks softly in my face it all starts back up..
my main gal set up sitting on bed at my feet to work the lower area as other gal worked me face to face..
needless to say they got the job done...
This same thing happened again in a 2nd place a few days later..
am i just lucky or are the ones that are slow amping up their game?
Both times i went was midday and i was the only customer...
Now it is hard to go back to your normal massage wth HJ places..

 

[Bricktop]

So I hit a few places over the past week as i needed to catch up after being on hiatus .
Out of the 4 places i hit two offered me a 2nd "helping hands" towards the end of my fun filled session..
Both times my massage gal was fun,pleasent and showed no objection to my hands inside her panties but on flip language barrier
put things on hold..
my answer is i will tip you depending on how you move forward..
i was not looking for FS but a good HJ with all the trimmings.
2nd lady enters and she can at least communicate.
As she teases my ears,chest and talks softly in my face it all starts back up..
my main gal set up sitting on bed at my feet to work the lower area as other gal worked me face to face..
needless to say they got the job done...
This same thing happened again in a 2nd place a few days later..
am i just lucky or are the ones that are slow amping up their game?
Both times i went was midday and i was the only customer...
Now it is hard to go back to your normal massage wth HJ places..

If the second one comes in, she’s got to takeoff her clothes too

 

[The night rider]

And what are the locations of these places and I'll get back to you

 

[n2deep]

If the second one comes in, she’s got to takeoff her clothes too

attention to me was what made it complete and no i dont need both nude..

 

[Sharkey1]

My take is business is slow these days so these girls doing anything they can to earn more.

 

[Kickbutt]

Yeah business is slow at a lot of these places where they joke saying "2 girls". I even had a regular ask me if it is OK for the other girl to join all I have to do is tip no HF.

 

[Sharkey1]

Seems like every shop also offering more. Former HE only shops offering BBBJ and FS

 

[n2deep]

great to hear..........
i hit flushing yesterday and looked for a younger one i had gotten nr prince n roosvlt,,nr the garage ..
all i can say is from CP and ROOSVLT along Prince to 40th and across main st is was RUFF...what a bunch...
i could not drink myself into even a cheap 40 session....
I also walked Union from 33rd to precinct and found a few legit massage places wth guys at the front doing foot massages and hit another with bright XMAS lite up the stairs..youngish gal quoted 60 for massage plus tip...
i asked how much tip..
and the phone got how much are you willing to give me...
what a joke...
i wanted to say a dollar..
and this was not me asking for bj or FS...
HOW they stay afloat?
i guess if you get one whale a day you survive..

 

[tonymccallan]

HOW they stay afloat?

they are struggling and most are just burning through the cash which they have saved and not sent back home. A few indies whom I see, all complained about business being very slow and their rent in Flushing is like 1.5k a room. They merely see 2-3 a week now. Some think of moving, some are trying to find a cheaper room or downgrade in living setups. Reality..

 

[n2deep]

its kinda sad but i cant carry the ills of the world on my shoulders....
maybe they should walk with all the bussed in illegals and get free rent,food and $$$ stipends

 

[Kickbutt]

they are struggling and most are just burning through the cash which they have saved and not sent back home. A few indies whom I see, all complained about business being very slow and their rent in Flushing is like 1.5k a room. They merely see 2-3 a week now. Some think of moving, some are trying to find a cheaper room or downgrade in living setups. Reality..

A few I know from spas have moved to other states looking for more customers

 

[tonymccallan]

ts kinda sad but i cant carry the ills of the world on my shoulders...

agree. sad. I try to support a few whom I have built some sort of rapport with, but there's only so much I can do and I know I am just another John in their phone book anyway, I am not naive neither they are.

 

[n2deep]

i have learned from my past do not fall in love with them..
i was naive many many years back and saw the light but it is easy to feed into the youre the only one talk...
the good ones i always take care of too...

 

[Elmhurst9]

great to hear..........
i hit flushing yesterday and looked for a younger one i had gotten nr prince n roosvlt,,nr the garage ..
all i can say is from CP and ROOSVLT along Prince to 40th and across main st is was RUFF...what a bunch...
i could not drink myself into even a cheap 40 session....
I also walked Union from 33rd to precinct and found a few legit massage places wth guys at the front doing foot massages and hit another with bright XMAS lite up the stairs..youngish gal quoted 60 for massage plus tip...
i asked how much tip..
and the phone got how much are you willing to give me...
what a joke...
i wanted to say a dollar..
and this was not me asking for bj or FS...
HOW they stay afloat?
i guess if you get one whale a day you survive..

Bingo!

 

[Bricktop]

Yeah business is slow at a lot of these places where they joke saying "2 girls". I even had a regular ask me if it is OK for the other girl to join all I have to do is tip no HF.

In a spa I tend not to do this, but I’ve had a few in private apartments ask or surprise me when I get there and there’s someone else there I know them and I want them to say face so I go along with it usually it’s an extra hundred and that takes care of it for the hour

 

[Paperpusher]

i have learned from my past do not fall in love with them..
i was naive many many years back and saw the light but it is easy to feed into the youre the only one talk...
the good ones i always take care of too...

It is possible to have some degree of exclusivity. It is highly unlikely, but possible. But that is a discussion for another thread.

 

[Sharkey1]

It is possible to have some degree of exclusivity. It is highly unlikely, but possible. But that is a discussion for another thread.

This…is the reason I’m short of a down payment on another house

 

[Elmhurst9]

i have learned from my past do not fall in love with them..
i was naive many many years back and saw the light but it is easy to feed into the youre the only one talk...
the good ones i always take care of too...

Always have fun and date if you desire but never forget after a night of dining and drinking with a provider the next afternoon one of us has our penis in her mouth ready to ejaculate.

 

[n2deep]

i stopped drinking n cant hang out late nights so my mongering is limited..

 

[flushrover]

i have learned from my past do not fall in love with them..
i was naive many many years back and saw the light but it is easy to feed into the youre the only one talk...
the good ones i always take care of too...

Yeah, I hear ya bro. I've been in that situation more times than I can count!

Actually, I just started something. It's early stages but it seems promising. She's fresh off the boat and is not yet jaded. Seems low milage. She didn't actually tell me "you're the only one," but it's implied. I don't believe it yet, but it could develop into that.

I took her out to eat a couple of times now and we went to that dive hotel on Main near Northern. The definition of girl friend is when they don't expect to get paid. She surprised me. I was fully ready and willing to tip her for the evening, but she refused. The next time, I suggested we go shopping and she again refused. So I'm two dinners in.

It will be interesting to see where this goes. She's attractive and has a good attitude and personality. Acts like a civilian when not working.