A Monger No More

[error434]

Rub one out in the morning so you don't have that built up urge during the day

I believe that was his 3rd point

 

[naMYEKTGxs]

Can you share some tips? There was good thread a few weeks ago.
1) Stay away of the ATM Machine.
2) Stay Busy
3) Handle Business Early In the Day
4) Stay away from AMP Reviews

Other?

Don't have a lot of money in your checking account. There are plenty of places to park your money in this high interest environment. More money invested = less money for mongering

 

[markkennedy]

Ill throw it out there that I struggle with alcohol addiction. Its amazing what alcoholism triggers in you. For me it triggers this hobby. For anyone out there consider what your triggers are and work on them. Its simple for me, when I dont binge drink I dont monger. Be honest with yourself and address the problems. Good luck

"People places and things", isn't this the motto of recovery programs? Most recovery starts with finding those triggers and managing them. Thanks for your post, am sure there are a lot of dudes reading the OPs post and knowing they need help too.

 

[Bandit74]

You could make a list of 100 different tips, but unless it includes wife being affectionate willing to blow you and fuck you 4 times a week with next to no limitations you will be back at the washy washy before the sun sets tomorrow.

You must be younger lol.
At my age,if she did just the blow,a few times a month,I would be ok(I think,I hope..)

 

[Rustyshackleford]

Here’s a tip. Punch yourself in the balls every time you get the urge to hit an AMP or provider. You’re a man(allegedly) you’ve being genetically encoded to propagate your line. Don’t listen to these pussies telling you write a journal or you addiction recovery.

It’s hogwash. Be a man and stop or don’t. When guys start being woke here it must be end of days.

 

[durbanlords]

Mongering for me is not a case of an unhappy marriage bedroom or unstable family or any such other excuses. I like the idea of banging a new asian girl every so often. who is devoted to making me happy (for an hour of course).

And yes men are hard coded to spread our seed far and wide! When you pair that dna coding with the courage to step over societal lines and the ability to afford this habit, it sure starts resembling an addiction. I guess it's a lot healthier than alcohol or hard drugs oe even gambling as a vice of choice.

Enjoy!

 

[Mildar]

You could make a list of 100 different tips, but unless it includes wife being affectionate willing to blow you and fuck you 4 times a week with next to no limitations you will be back at the washy washy before the sun sets tomorrow.

You must be young, cause you forgot turn back the clock to where she was thin (in some cases) and you wanted to fuck her,

 

[williamfenton4]

For years now i've quit and came back. "Just when I thought I was out, I get pulled right back in"

 

[Ronin]

This is an addictive environment. It can be a real issue when your ability to fuck exceeds your disposable income. It works well as a distraction, but less so as a lifestyle

 

[asiansmakemehappy]

It's an issue if it became a lifestyle.. Hopefully I and everyone here will eventually find a soulmate / the love of their life / lifetime partner.. As of now for me, not yet.

Sorry to say I thought I had soulmate life chips away at you until it breaks down the love you have for each other and you look for replacement on 2nd marriage and sexless for over a year !!

 

[HotDogJohnny]

The lobbying for me is basically therapeutic. I have mentioned before that my wife is aware of my mongering and does not prohibit me from seeking to satisfy my urges. I mentioned it again yesterday in my "life bites you in the ass" thread. My wife doesn't care for sex any more. A few reasons. However, she doesn't think it fair for me to still have sexual urges and not have them satisfied. The fact that she endorses and in fact, at times encourages me to "go for a visit" takes so much weight of guilt off your shoulders and changes the entire experience. No making excuses for going somewhere....not having to erase evidence of spa calls from your phone, sometimes still smell a little bit like the masage oil...all that doesn't come into play. Its a non issue. Now, I pretty much average a visit per week. Per the problem with my truck the other day at the spa, this will be a little busier week because I am returning to the scene of the crime tomorrow morning to enjoy a beautiful girl that I saw many times back at the basement Green Leaves. Pretty sure she wasn't Jennifer back then though as she is known now. When Mama Sophia introduced me to Jenn Thursday, we immediately needing see each other. Its been years so it will be nice to rekindle that deal! I am fortunate enough to basically go once per week and keep the monetary involvement in check. There will be occasions where I will double up in a weeks time.

 

[B00M]

Sorry to say I thought I had soulmate life chips away at you until it breaks down the love you have for each other and you look for replacement on 2nd marriage and sexless for over a year !!

Yikes man... But my principal once your married your in for a lifetime commitment and for the long haul and can't change or exchange. There is no exchange or return.

 

[Pdcom5288]

A Monger no Longer would’ve been a way better title for this.

 

[BillyBlueEye2]

Ill throw it out there that I struggle with alcohol addiction. Its amazing what alcoholism triggers in you. For me it triggers this hobby. For anyone out there consider what your triggers are and work on them. Its simple for me, when I dont binge drink I dont monger. Be honest with yourself and address the problems. Good luck

Good post, I kind of find myself the opposite. When I drink I dont wont to monger but when I go a few days without drinking Im calling spas, reading reviews, doing homework etc.

 

[Bodyhopper]

Is he back yet?

 

[AutomaticSlim]

Yeah I'm sick of it too.
I'm finally realizing that I am at the point in my life where I prefer a nice medium rare steak, or a bowl of pasta con sarde, to some c*nt that I pay hundreds of dollars for an hour of her time. Some c*nt that doesn't care if I live or die.
I don't need to see these parasites three times a week anymore.
I just don't.
I'll probably still see them.
But I will greatly cut down on my frequency.
Greatly.

 

[Colorestawning]

This hobby also gives some positive effects in your life. I feel more free for days after unload the stress.

 

[AutomaticSlim]

This hobby also gives some positive effects in your life. I feel more free for days after unloaded the stress.

Yeah I get that.
But after almost 40 years...I'm sick of it.

 

[killertechnique]

Hunger is the best appetizer. Sounds like it's time to retire or take a break.

 

[asiansmakemehappy]

Yeah I get that.
But after almost 40 years...I'm sick of it.

My question is how do you maintain a committed relationship with someone and get the same feeling ,result from a provider ,it seems a SO will not always want you like a provider !