I think the raids etc occur based on things beyond our knowledge and control, There is an invisible, understood balance/flow of things and when that gets interrupted, someone is upset leading to raids. Not much that you can do other than to cooperate.
Its like the lion picking up an antelope from the running herd that you see on Discovery channel !
Many times, I see girls dont lock the door from inside (that wil at least give few secs) and they dont care even of u ask them, in fact they become suspicious. Probably they know nothing is going to happen, we are concerned as we dont have full info.